Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by racquel

Please tell me you're not expecting the transgender community to be more sane than what you've encountered with genetic women.

We've taken a lot of shit from a lot of people and even the relatively stable transsexuals (if they exist) probably won't trust your intentions even if you are the 1 in 10,000 people who want more than sex.

And here's a quick fact for you:

Women tend to have estrogen levels of about 40 pg/ml most of the month and peak at 200-400 pg/ml. That gives them plenty mood swings. Taking hormone injections, my estrogen is in the 1,000 to 1,500 pg/ml range. So it takes a lot of restraint for me not to be 4X crazier than a chick with PMS.

I've been treated a milllion times better by transgirls than I have by g-girls. One ts girl in Seattle I know said, "nothing wrong with going that way, one option does not work for you, go with the other".

It's just plain logic.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Trogdor

I've been treated a milllion times better by transgirls than I have by g-girls. One ts girl in Seattle I know said, "nothing wrong with going that way, one option does not work for you, go with the other".

It's just plain logic.

Your generalizations -- whether stated explicitly or implicitly -- are growing tiresome. Your experience does not translate into data that can be applied to an entire class or group.

[Demonic shemale licker]

Hey, c'mon my peeps, lets get back more on topic, i'm hoping this will get us
to a more positive light, i was just thinking yesterday that perhaps one other reason why i haven't pursued my dream is because i would just be 2 shy to do it, for example a couple days ago i saw a cute looking tgirl pass me by, but when our eyes met i immediately turned my face and blushed. The scary part for me is that i think she was able to tell by me doing that action that i like tgirls! I just wish i were as brave as some of the people here when it comes to these type of things.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by Demonic shemale licker

Hey, c'mon my peeps, lets get back more on topic, i'm hoping this will get us
to a more positive light, i was just thinking yesterday that perhaps one other reason why i haven't pursued my dream is because i would just be 2 shy to do it, for example a couple days ago i saw a cute looking tgirl pass me by, but when our eyes met i immediately turned my face and blushed. The scary part for me is that i think she was able to tell by me doing that action that i like tgirls! I just wish i were as brave as some of the people here when it comes to these type of things.

Here's what to do.

See the girl, take a deep breath and go for it. That shyness thing won't fly with girls. It's only 'cute' and 'charming' on those cheesy 1980's movies where the geek tries to get the girl/boy.

Imagine you are at the home plate, it's near the end of the 9th inning, bases at loaded and it's your turn at bat. Just focus on making that winning hit, don't worry about the other folks ready to catch that ball you hit, just hit the damned thing and go from there.

[Demonic shemale licker]

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by Demonic shemale licker

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

Well, pretend that everyone's in their underwear, including yourself.
Because, famous person once said, "You need to go out on a limb, otherwise you'll never know. How else can you can get the fruit?"

[transmatic]

i actually have gf but she is thousands miles away from me. she lives in thailand. and i missing her and didn't seen her for ages. she is from laos, very shy and not really keen on computers. so it's big deal for her to use skype. so i would rather say i'm almost alone here

if somebody lives in phuket on permanent basis, i would really aprecciate you help me to manage netbook for her and teach her computer and english basics. i can send her money to cover expences.

if not - i'm just happy to share with you my emotions
she is cutiest babe in the world!

[Midori81]

So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

[johnny_love]

I would like me and my half to be one, like a ying/yang...I entrust that love has no boundaries, no matter what the people say, because I am not in love with people, but with "the one"...I would love her for who she is, not for what people think she is...doesn't matter she is transgender or not, because just the way we are on the inside matters...that's my point of view, so be happy and be loved!

[Marcelus]

I can't wait to have such a girlfriend but it's hard to find one like that in my hometown. I have to travel really much in other countries and towns to find some of these. This is my life.

[darkstargemini]

> i guess with most pehoo,s it,s all talk and no action it,s not that hurd to find a shemale don,t tull anyone this is my interest i guess they really don,t exist as i was told years ago it,s all fake this is coming from a guy i new years ago that wanted to have sex with another guy

[brainsexual]

I'm attracted to the female form be it on a man or a woman. I'd happily date a shemale but given that women seem to outnumber them in my city by about 10,000 to one... well, probability rears it's ugly head.

I'm a hard guy to date so I have to meet a lot of people before I find one that things click with.

[Tiffany Starr]

Sorta...I mean she's my ex ATM but I am trying to get her back, besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one. Perhaps Kitty Kaiti may be interested? ;-)