Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[red56white]

Originally Posted by cockluva

The absolute lack of transsexuals where i live.

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!
All i want is a steady girl
I love what you are showing and you know it would fit nicely in my mouth.

[smc]

Originally Posted by red56white

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!

What an insult!

[ila]

But I do have a beautiful, wonderful, intelligent girlfriend with whom I'm very much in love.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by red56white

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!
All i want is a steady girl
I love what you are showing and you know it would fit nicely in my mouth.

There are many transwomen that are members here that are in relationships for love(or friendship) and not for money, so to say that it is impossible to meet any unless you pay is not true at all!

And they are far more than just a piece of flesh to fit in your mouth. To be frank, that could be the real reason you are finding it so difficult to find a transwoman that wants to be with you.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by red56white

they are impossible to meet unless you pay them!
All i want is a steady girl
I love what you are showing and you know it would fit nicely in my mouth.

Let's see - I don't "meet" people for money. I also don't wear a sign around my neck stating my status - so people who I encounter going through my day probably don't realize that I'm trans.

It can be difficult since most guys who are into trans women want us to be 100% undetectable, but that limits their awareness of us in everyday life.

Being trans is not cheep - so obviously, some gals are going to charge for their time (particularly with guys who are married and won't be able to provide anything really serious).

[cham]

I have a ladyboy girlfriend in Bangkok and when I met her it felt like the most natural thing in the world to be with her. I went to cinemas, restaurants, temples, etc with her and it just felt right.

Her being 'passable' was not a criterion. We wanted to be together and that was the criterion.

Cham

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by Bionca

It can be difficult since most guys who are into trans women want us to be 100% undetectable, but that limits their awareness of us in everyday life.

Cosmic scale irony.



I would be eternally grateful to whatever generous soul pointed me in the right direction, given the utter dearth of of any kind of transsexual community in Puerto Rico.

[Amy]

Because many of us are already happily attached?

[JodieTs]

Do not under any circumstances dated a recent transitioner.
They will do your fuckin' head in.

If you want to go out with them, first ask this:
"How long ago did you transition?"
Anything less than three years, walk away.
Seriously, just walk away.

[JodieTs]

My other partner, a man, says this:

It's a strange thing to want to do, date a class of person,
rather than to want to date a particular person:
ie.
"I want to date a random transsexual transsexual person"
vs.
"I want to date Janet, who happens to be a transsexual person"

[locco86]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Do not under any circumstances dated a recent transitioner.
They will do your fuckin' head in.

If you want to go out with them, first ask this:
"How long ago did you transition?"
Anything less than three years, walk away.
Seriously, just walk away.

i didn't understand what do u mean by this

[9yneGuy]

Because seeking a tgirl out soley because she's transgendered doesn't sit right with me. That kind of seems just as bad as seeking them out soley for sex. I want to fall in love with a person, not who the person is. If I like someone enough, it won't matter if they're a genetic or a tgirl.

[JodieTs]

Quote:
Originally Posted by JodieTs View Post
Do not under any circumstances dated a recent transitioner.
They will do your fuckin' head in.

If you want to go out with them, first ask this:
"How long ago did you transition?"
Anything less than three years, walk away.
Seriously, just walk away.

Originally Posted by locco86

i didn't understand what do u mean by this

Oh early transition, we have so many issues to work through
that it overspills into any relationship.

My man just asked how long I'd transitioned when we first met...
A. 2 years 9 months....
{well he is very tolerant}