Questions and Advice About Anal Sex

[lip2s]

very informative
everybody should keep the ends clean

[Mel Asher]

Four things to keep in mind -

If you're going to jam a tube up yourself, don't ram it in too deep. Let the water pressure percolate the liquid deep inside & take your time

Be careful about using too hot water - damages the gut lining.

Keep the pressure LOW, but persistent. Get to the point of discomfort & then evacuate the collection. Too high a pressure can open lesions in the gut wall allowing infections of the nastiest kind.

Already said, but well worth repeating, douche no more than every three days otherwise you wil l upset the balance of beneficial organisms which inhabit the gut-lining. In between use Gel Lubricant and fingers to clean yourself out, encouraging additional downward faecal expulsion by stimulating the muscle ring in and out 3 -4 times. This may take a little time, but it is worth it. Lubes you nicely too for later activity !

Cheers

[km1]

What a title for a thread, had me chuckling as soon as I saw it. To be serious though, I'm sure it is a good idea to keep people informed for the greater good. That title though...

[racquel]

Enemas are overrated. I never stick anything in my butt except for about 1 inch of a finger with some baby shampoo on it when I take a shower. That keeps me lickably clean. And everything my partner has stuck up there has come out fresh as a daisy.

I mean, your rectum doesn't have anything in it unless you actually have to poop, and you'd have to stick something pretty big in there to get past the rectum and into the colon.

[Titivilus]

Hmm. Personally, I just use a 20 oz soda bottle and tap water. However, it's not the delivery system in my case that's the trick, it's the method. As I've been fisting myself since I was a teenager, I like to be very clean, very deep.

After the water is in, I lay on my chest with my face sideways on the floor, ass way high in the air. I follow up a second time laying on my left side (the second ring goes left for me), right leg held high, usually propped on a cabinet or something. I'll have one more go but just a shallow one this time, avoiding going past the second ring, just to make sure there's no residual icky stuff.

Also, I prefer to do this a few hours before actual play, to let the lining absorb the liquid. Although, I've never had anyone play with my anus, and when I do, I wouldn't be adverse to deferring the time limit to include that as part of the play. Please note, though, that you need to be very careful with this sort of thing, as you can actually cause a form of encephalitis if you overdo it. I have years of experience with my body, and am very familiar with my limits.

Breathing and relaxation are also key. If you're tense, it's not going to be nearly as effective, as the water won't penetrate deep enough to really cleanse you.

As for soap or the like, I'm very easily irritated, so only water for me! Oh, and lest I forget, I start with lukewarm water, but end with cold water (not ice cold, just cold from the tap). For me, it's kind of like cleansing your pores with hot water, then following up with cold to close them once there clean. Not sure if that really made sense, but it works well for me.

[Thatguy5322]

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Thatguy5322

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

You list yourself as a "male" and you are asking about "hooking up with this one guy" -- in a section of the site called "Chat About Shemales." Perhaps you should find a gay forum to discuss this?

Besides, there are so many thread discussing anal sex, experimentation, etc. Do a search.

[no1000]

Originally Posted by smc

You list yourself as a "male" and you are asking about "hooking up with this one guy" -- in a section of the site called "Chat About Shemales." Perhaps you should find a gay forum to discuss this?

Besides, there are so many thread discussing anal sex, experimentation, etc. Do a search.

You took the words out of my mouth.

[transfan85]

Originally Posted by Thatguy5322

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

Anal can be extremely painful, likewise it can also be incredibly hot and make you cum harder than you ever imagined. Be patient, relaxed, and use lots of quality lube.

[ila]

Moderator Note: This thread has been moved to General Discussion which is a more appropriate location for it.

[J.F.K]

On topic question?
I got a very tight arse.
How do you stretch it easily?
Not keen on gettin stitches coz I do somthing wrong. Hehe
Oh FYI I'm not gay.
I do enjoy the bum pleasure.

[smc]

Originally Posted by J.F.K

On topic question?
I got a very tight arse.
How do you stretch it easily?
Not keen on gettin stitches coz I do somthing wrong. Hehe
Oh FYI I'm not gay.
I do enjoy the bum pleasure.

Doesn't anyone ever search before posting questions that have been answered time and time again?

[spacecase9128]

any time I start a thread the site brings up similar subjects and encouraged OP to look if info already present.

Sc9128

[shadows]

Originally Posted by Thatguy5322

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

One thing that can't be stressed enough is to use protection. No matter how much pleasure is to be gained, you don't want your first time to be the time you catch an STD.

Other than that, I hope it goes well for you and that you enjoy it immensely.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by shadows

One thing that can't be stressed enough is to use protection. No matter how much pleasure is to be gained, you don't want your first time to be the time you catch an STD.

Other than that, I hope it goes well for you and that you enjoy it immensely.

Well said.

Try these steps; lube, rimjob and/or finger play, lube, apply rubber to partner's cock, lube, and enjoy.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by tslust

Well said.

Try these steps; lube, rimjob and/or finger play, lube, apply rubber to partner's cock, lube, and enjoy.

Are you volunteering?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by shadows

Are you volunteering?

ummm, maybee

[shadows]

Originally Posted by tslust

ummm, maybee

Hmmmmmmmmm.

(tslust has rendered shadows speechless!)

[curiousguy]

so im meeting with a tgirl friend of mine and i really want to be bottom.
she said her dick is about 9 in ( ill have to see for myself on that one lol)
any advice on how to make it not hurt or be painful?
im very curious and want it to be pleasurable

[Transwoman]

When my boyfriend and I are together. I douche before anal sex and it seems to work very nicely. No trace of fecal matter so far. I would like to point out that I have been dating him for over 5 years so we don't use condoms, but I waited 5 long years before feeling his natural cock in me. Not recommended unless you really know that someone.

One thing for sure. bare back has done wonders for our love making and intimacy. Any douche will do, summer's eve etc.

[In2TS+]

I was bottom once for a tgirl who did not ask me to clean myself out. She was very small, but it still hurt....not too bad though. After a pretty short while the hurt kind of felt good. Then I was looking forward to topping her after she was done. All in all it was an awesome experience.

[Melissa Pink]

This is my opinion as a t-girl that has been having anal regularly for about six years. Besides having a partner who is STD, HIV and otherwise trustworthy the most important thing regarding anal sex is preparing your tush for receiving a cock. I diddled my ass for years with various toys and objects before I attempted the real thing.

The first thing you want to do is make sure your rectum is empty before engaging in anal play by yourself or with a partner. I know this aspect isn't for the squeemish, but it's reality. I eat a high fiber diet which is a good idea for anyone but particularly anyone that wants to enjoy anal play. I don't think it's neccessary to do enemas before anal play but I usually cleanse my ass with an anal douche I bought on line. This is especially important if you become a "Size Queen" like me and develop a penchant for big black cocks! If you take a 9" cock balls deep in your ass you had better be clean "down there" of the results are pretty yucky!

Start by getting comfortable fingering your ass and exploring it gently with a lot of lube. I suggest purchasing an "anal trainer kit". It consists of a small, medium and large butt plug to train your tush for accomodating a dildo or a cock. I purchased one at the recommendation of Mandy Mitchell when I decided to date a partner with a large cock. Mandy correctly stated that it would "help stretch me out down there" I generally use the medium size to "prep" my tush for anal sex. I want to remain tight for my partner but not feel like they are going to "split me like a log" when they slide their cock inside me. If I'm feel horny before I go out for the evening I prepare my body for anal in the shower and insert a butt plug before going out for the evening. I also have an "anal jewel" which is a stainless steel butt plug that features a green rhinestone that protrudes from my puckered ass. I like to surprise new partners with it. When I'm buns up and they work there tongue between my cheeks they get quite a surprise! Yes, I know I'm kinky .

Dildoes are a lot of fun and come in a variety of sizes. My favorite is an 8" latex brown cock with a set of balls. They are fun for solo play or with a partner(s) Jelly dildoes are hot too but don't look as realistic and seem to be harder to clean. It is a must to clean your toys with hot water and soap after use. I generally use condoms on my toys and always if I am playing with partner(s). Toys are a lot of fun and can enhance anyone's sex life! The choice is up to you and your preferences.

Once you decide to let someone butt fuck you prepare your ass with a good cleansing and shower before you have sex. Don't eat anything that will give you gas either! LOL! Farting is natural sometimes when your parther is really giving it to you but there is no reason to encourage it unless that is your thing! I usually squirt a liberal amount of Astroglide in my asshole unless I know my partner is going to rim me. In that case I have some flavored water based lubes that I enjoy.

I recommend straddling your partner at first. That way you can control how much of his cock enters your asshole. When you begin anal session your partner has to take it slow and so do you! Make sure he's wearing a condom and use a plently of good lubricant like astroglide. Take his cock head in your hand and push it gently into your bum. Bare down on it like you are pooping. This action helps relax your sphincter ease down on his cock slowly and it should slide painlessly into your derriere. Just remember to take it slow! Most guy's cocks are around 6" or so I wouldn't recommend taking on some hung stud for your first anal experience. There will be time for that later!

Once your ass is accostomed to having a cock inside it you can begin to ride your partner and move up and down. The rythym of his cock sliding in and out of you is very stimulating you might get a raging hard on and or ejaculate while your fucking him. This is natural and part of the pleasure. Once you are used to the idea of a cock in your ass you can switch positions. Whenever you switch positions check his condom to make certain that it's in place and hasn't torn.

I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps.