Questions and Advice About Anal Sex

[shemale_sub]

This is a great forum to ask questions. Thanks to all for maintaining this.

I have a question regarding analsex with anybody. Obviuosly this is tailored towards shemales.

Since I am a virgin, I have no idea how or do participants clean themselves before having analsex and if so what is available in the market to it yourself.

I have been experimenting with a dildo, but obviously I get a lot of poop on it ... once it is in me... so what can I do about that.

Thanks for all your help.

shemale_sub

[mykel73]

This is what you need to help clean you out. It is what I use and it works. I hope this helps answer your question.

http://shop.libida.com/anal_douche.asp?Affiliates=sexh

[BlueRaven88]

Originally Posted by mykel73

This is what you need to help clean you out. It is what I use and it works. I hope this helps answer your question.

http://shop.libida.com/anal_douche.asp?Affiliates=sexh

you could probably get the same result with a turkey baster and tap water, and you wouldnt have to worry about hiding your douche when your friends/family come around (though keep it out of the kitchen cos yeah you dont want it used on food lol)

besides, turkey basters are easier to come by and not as embarrassing to buy (i live in australia so net orders from the U.S? not that appealing)

[shemale_sub]

Thanks a bunch. I will try out the turkey baster ... for reasons of "not" sharing my secrets

[mobiryder]

i can tell you the thirdworld country way it's done... in Asia at least, they have hoses next to the toilets to wash your ass after you take a dump, the ladyboys jam this into their ass, and blow water up there... wait a little bit, then expunge it... they do this 1-3 times and it makes for a clean fuck session...

[inadaze]

Originally Posted by mobiryder

i can tell you the thirdworld country way it's done... in Asia at least, they have hoses next to the toilets to wash your ass after you take a dump, the ladyboys jam this into their ass, and blow water up there... wait a little bit, then expunge it... they do this 1-3 times and it makes for a clean fuck session...

Sounds kind of weird , like a colonic irrigation. Do they share the nozzles on these hoses ?

[2WayStreet]

Originally Posted by mobiryder

i can tell you the thirdworld country way it's done... in Asia at least, they have hoses next to the toilets to wash your ass after you take a dump, the ladyboys jam this into their ass, and blow water up there... wait a little bit, then expunge it... they do this 1-3 times and it makes for a clean fuck session...

Good and practical way to do it, but this can cause purging as it acts as an anema

[twfs21]

whats the best method to clean ur anus for anal sex? in other words how do you make sure no shit is goin to end up on someones cock?

[mykel73]

This should help you out.

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=360

[twfs21]

thanks a bunch

[russellwu]

If your showerhead can switch to that single but strong stream (whee, alliteration) you can aim it at your anus and let the water in. Then you can "shit" the water out. Rinse, repeat until you're satisfied.

If you have one of those automatic toilets with bidets (sprays to clean your ass, so you don't have to use toilet paper) you can switch it to high power, and just position your anus so the water comes in. Again, when you feel that your anal cavity is filled with enough water, just "shit" it out. Then do it again until you're satisfied.

[luvasianlb]

There are few things that turn me off quicker than a dirty, smelly ass (or pussy for that matter). I realize that when one eats something, they aren't always thinking about getting fucked later, but for myself I find one of the most important things to having a nice clean ass for some sweet ladyboy to bang is not eating certain things. Fiber helps. Without getting too graphic, firm stools are less disgusting than loose ones. Nothing makes my dick go soft quite as quick as pulling it out of someone's ass and seeing it streaked with brown, even with a condom that's disgusting.

[kraken111]

Enema???????????/ But be safe!

[sniffmeister]

How do you clean you anal for sex or masturbation?

[twfs21]

enema. the liquid 4oz enema. it has instructions. also give it an hour after using it. helps ur stomach settle down

[lip2s]

very informative
everybody should keep the ends clean

[Mel Asher]

Four things to keep in mind -

If you're going to jam a tube up yourself, don't ram it in too deep. Let the water pressure percolate the liquid deep inside & take your time

Be careful about using too hot water - damages the gut lining.

Keep the pressure LOW, but persistent. Get to the point of discomfort & then evacuate the collection. Too high a pressure can open lesions in the gut wall allowing infections of the nastiest kind.

Already said, but well worth repeating, douche no more than every three days otherwise you wil l upset the balance of beneficial organisms which inhabit the gut-lining. In between use Gel Lubricant and fingers to clean yourself out, encouraging additional downward faecal expulsion by stimulating the muscle ring in and out 3 -4 times. This may take a little time, but it is worth it. Lubes you nicely too for later activity !

Cheers

[perfect7]

...but how do you "prepare" yourself for good anal sex? In the vids i see of shemales fucking, their cocks are always so "clean" during and afterward. Is there a lot of preparation for that? Btw, I'm brand new to this whole shemale thing, but it is such a turn on!

[CuriousGirl]

I'm a genetic female but I guess I can answer for most anal sex recipients.
I limit my heterosexual fun to one special guy and he's always "UP" for anal sex although I request it more often than he suggests it.
In order to be squeaky clean for him I always give myself a thorough enema then take an equally thorough shower.
We usually begin with nice foreplay,including oral sex, then we may fuck in usual way for a while. After I've cum that way once or twice I'm ready for a delivery in the rear. That starts with him tickling my little pink pucker with fingers and tongue, then some licking, some gentle finger work. At that point he usually lubes both my hiney and his cock with some of the copious "honey" my pussy produces a LOT of when I'm even mildly in the mood for sex. On the rare occasion when there isn't enough we use a "personal lubricant".
I confess that I cum easily and intensely when I'm fucked in the ass.
A couple of the girls I share lesbian fun with also enjoy anal play. The preparations are the same.
When my guy joins me and another girl, well, let me just say that having my pussy licked while my ass is "invaded" is amazing!


I hope that answers your questions.

[hankhavelock]

Let me add one thing to CuriousGirl's fine advice, and that is that if you have never been anally penetrated before then take it slow - preferrably train a bit in advance (for example with fingers, dildos, carrots) of a limited size.

Taking a major shit (excuse my language) followed by an enema is fine and can certainly make you enjoy it more - especially if you don't have that feeling of "needing to go to the toilet" in the middle of all the fun :-)

But do take it slowly and don't expect that you can take it the first time - especially if she is well-endowed.

Learning to enjoy anal penetration takes time and practice - if you do it slowly you will probably enjoy the ride as well :-)

And yes, there are several postings about this at the forum here.

H

[perfect7]

thanks for the tips. my g/f actually used a strap on with me recently and i loved it!! so anal play isnt all that new. but i can see how sometimes you would need to prepare yourself. whether it be enema or using the bathroom...whatever. but what about those heat of the moments where you just want to fuck in the ass!? is that taboo? or is it fairly common to get, well, let's just say..."a dirty surprise"?

[Bionca]

It's called "painting" where I come from and it is an expected part of "heat of the moment" sex. If you or your partner using the strap-on have any issues with this, slip on a condom. Any mess is easily removed.

If your are going to be with someone who is planning to use the natural stuff in your bottom - USE A CONDOM 100% of the time!!!!! No exceptions until you both trust the other with your lives. You avoid any painting amongst more permanent issues.

And read post #9 here :

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=360

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by perfect7

...is it fairly common to get, well, let's just say..."a dirty surprise"?

That's personal and differs a lot. I actually find it erotic and it can be very intimate, but many others find it gross. None the less, it happens quite often, especially if anal love-making is instant and without all the preparations.

I never worried about it - one way or the other :-)

[canuhearmenow]

Hello All,
I have wondered what methods are used to keep your "anal cavaties" clean if the moment should arise. Not a daily bottom person, but always want to be clean & ready for that special moment. I always vigourously wipe, but it seems that there is always some kind of "residue"
Weird post huh?
Inquiring minds want to know

[Rocío]

I usually pump in water with a hand shower, then go to the toilet, and then again to the shower until I only expell clean water. Then I lubricate myself.

[fuckstudent]

Question for all those who have regular experiences with anal sex and cleaning...

Do you do it every day when you have sex (cleaning your ass)?

Or is the ass still clean after 2 days and there will be no "surpirses" durring sex?

[Bionca]

If I'm expecting anal, I use an enima filled with tap water. If anal happens without planning (and well.. it does) then one of three things happens.

1) All is clean and there is no painting on my partner.
2) There is a little something that gets out.. and that really should be expected and understood (why I'll never do oral after anal)
3) Enima play is part of the sexual encounter. This has the bonus of allowing the bottom the chance to get a little looser and make the penetration easier on them (and the top).

[tslust]

I use an enima; fill it with water, empty the water in my ass, expel water, repeat until the water comes out clear, and sometimes even one more time just to be sure.

[chelsea]

soap and water?

[Bildestoned]

Altho' not keen on 'receiving' myself I do like a girl to attend to my arse and esp. enjoy a nice rimming. For this reason I bought a small rubber/plastic douche gadget recently.

I'm not sure I have the technique 'down' as I seem to end up pumping in a load of air but I am def. cleaner and more confident as a result. I will take someone's advice in this thread now tho' and try 3- 4 flushes.

Just like waxing down there I am of the opinion that if I am to thrust my dick in someone's mouth the least I can do is to be as presentable as poss.!

I was deliciously 'seen to' in that area this week with no apparent complaint so I guess it worked.....

[Rachel]

My enema device is a 12 inch double ended dildo that I drilled out and inserted 3/8" plastic tubing. It's hooked to a rubber hose that I can screw on to the end of the shower head hose. I go for the deep cleaning filling my intestines with very warm water. Just be careful you dont blow your guts out! Dont use a lot of water pressure.

I have read, not to flush more then once a week, or you could cause problems. I enjoy it quite a bit and whould love to do it more often.

[canuhearmenow]

Originally Posted by Rachel

My enema device is a 12 inch double ended dildo that I drilled out and inserted 3/8" plastic tubing. It's hooked to a rubber hose that I can screw on to the end of the shower head hose. I go for the deep cleaning filling my intestines with very warm water. Just be careful you dont blow your guts out! Dont use a lot of water pressure.

WOW, a 12'' dildo & an enima
I guess thats a type of 'multi-tasking"

[Rachel]

I did have to visit a proctologist a few years ago had an intestinal polyp. He told me an enema at least once a week is one of the best things you can do for your health. Us old ladies know such things

[Thatguy5322]

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Thatguy5322

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

You list yourself as a "male" and you are asking about "hooking up with this one guy" -- in a section of the site called "Chat About Shemales." Perhaps you should find a gay forum to discuss this?

Besides, there are so many thread discussing anal sex, experimentation, etc. Do a search.

[no1000]

Originally Posted by smc

You list yourself as a "male" and you are asking about "hooking up with this one guy" -- in a section of the site called "Chat About Shemales." Perhaps you should find a gay forum to discuss this?

Besides, there are so many thread discussing anal sex, experimentation, etc. Do a search.

You took the words out of my mouth.

[transfan85]

Originally Posted by Thatguy5322

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

Anal can be extremely painful, likewise it can also be incredibly hot and make you cum harder than you ever imagined. Be patient, relaxed, and use lots of quality lube.

[ila]

Moderator Note: This thread has been moved to General Discussion which is a more appropriate location for it.

[J.F.K]

On topic question?
I got a very tight arse.
How do you stretch it easily?
Not keen on gettin stitches coz I do somthing wrong. Hehe
Oh FYI I'm not gay.
I do enjoy the bum pleasure.

[smc]

Originally Posted by J.F.K

On topic question?
I got a very tight arse.
How do you stretch it easily?
Not keen on gettin stitches coz I do somthing wrong. Hehe
Oh FYI I'm not gay.
I do enjoy the bum pleasure.

Doesn't anyone ever search before posting questions that have been answered time and time again?

[shadows]

Originally Posted by Thatguy5322

So I have been hooking up with this one guy for a little while now. Been wanting to try anal with him bc i feel comfortable with him. What should I expect? How bad does it hurt? Should i experiment on myself before I do with another guy? And advice would help.

One thing that can't be stressed enough is to use protection. No matter how much pleasure is to be gained, you don't want your first time to be the time you catch an STD.

Other than that, I hope it goes well for you and that you enjoy it immensely.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by shadows

One thing that can't be stressed enough is to use protection. No matter how much pleasure is to be gained, you don't want your first time to be the time you catch an STD.

Other than that, I hope it goes well for you and that you enjoy it immensely.

Well said.

Try these steps; lube, rimjob and/or finger play, lube, apply rubber to partner's cock, lube, and enjoy.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by tslust

Well said.

Try these steps; lube, rimjob and/or finger play, lube, apply rubber to partner's cock, lube, and enjoy.

Are you volunteering?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by shadows

Are you volunteering?

ummm, maybee

[curiousguy]

so im meeting with a tgirl friend of mine and i really want to be bottom.
she said her dick is about 9 in ( ill have to see for myself on that one lol)
any advice on how to make it not hurt or be painful?
im very curious and want it to be pleasurable

[Transwoman]

When my boyfriend and I are together. I douche before anal sex and it seems to work very nicely. No trace of fecal matter so far. I would like to point out that I have been dating him for over 5 years so we don't use condoms, but I waited 5 long years before feeling his natural cock in me. Not recommended unless you really know that someone.

One thing for sure. bare back has done wonders for our love making and intimacy. Any douche will do, summer's eve etc.

[In2TS+]

I was bottom once for a tgirl who did not ask me to clean myself out. She was very small, but it still hurt....not too bad though. After a pretty short while the hurt kind of felt good. Then I was looking forward to topping her after she was done. All in all it was an awesome experience.

[Melissa Pink]

This is my opinion as a t-girl that has been having anal regularly for about six years. Besides having a partner who is STD, HIV and otherwise trustworthy the most important thing regarding anal sex is preparing your tush for receiving a cock. I diddled my ass for years with various toys and objects before I attempted the real thing.

The first thing you want to do is make sure your rectum is empty before engaging in anal play by yourself or with a partner. I know this aspect isn't for the squeemish, but it's reality. I eat a high fiber diet which is a good idea for anyone but particularly anyone that wants to enjoy anal play. I don't think it's neccessary to do enemas before anal play but I usually cleanse my ass with an anal douche I bought on line. This is especially important if you become a "Size Queen" like me and develop a penchant for big black cocks! If you take a 9" cock balls deep in your ass you had better be clean "down there" of the results are pretty yucky!

Start by getting comfortable fingering your ass and exploring it gently with a lot of lube. I suggest purchasing an "anal trainer kit". It consists of a small, medium and large butt plug to train your tush for accomodating a dildo or a cock. I purchased one at the recommendation of Mandy Mitchell when I decided to date a partner with a large cock. Mandy correctly stated that it would "help stretch me out down there" I generally use the medium size to "prep" my tush for anal sex. I want to remain tight for my partner but not feel like they are going to "split me like a log" when they slide their cock inside me. If I'm feel horny before I go out for the evening I prepare my body for anal in the shower and insert a butt plug before going out for the evening. I also have an "anal jewel" which is a stainless steel butt plug that features a green rhinestone that protrudes from my puckered ass. I like to surprise new partners with it. When I'm buns up and they work there tongue between my cheeks they get quite a surprise! Yes, I know I'm kinky .

Dildoes are a lot of fun and come in a variety of sizes. My favorite is an 8" latex brown cock with a set of balls. They are fun for solo play or with a partner(s) Jelly dildoes are hot too but don't look as realistic and seem to be harder to clean. It is a must to clean your toys with hot water and soap after use. I generally use condoms on my toys and always if I am playing with partner(s). Toys are a lot of fun and can enhance anyone's sex life! The choice is up to you and your preferences.

Once you decide to let someone butt fuck you prepare your ass with a good cleansing and shower before you have sex. Don't eat anything that will give you gas either! LOL! Farting is natural sometimes when your parther is really giving it to you but there is no reason to encourage it unless that is your thing! I usually squirt a liberal amount of Astroglide in my asshole unless I know my partner is going to rim me. In that case I have some flavored water based lubes that I enjoy.

I recommend straddling your partner at first. That way you can control how much of his cock enters your asshole. When you begin anal session your partner has to take it slow and so do you! Make sure he's wearing a condom and use a plently of good lubricant like astroglide. Take his cock head in your hand and push it gently into your bum. Bare down on it like you are pooping. This action helps relax your sphincter ease down on his cock slowly and it should slide painlessly into your derriere. Just remember to take it slow! Most guy's cocks are around 6" or so I wouldn't recommend taking on some hung stud for your first anal experience. There will be time for that later!

Once your ass is accostomed to having a cock inside it you can begin to ride your partner and move up and down. The rythym of his cock sliding in and out of you is very stimulating you might get a raging hard on and or ejaculate while your fucking him. This is natural and part of the pleasure. Once you are used to the idea of a cock in your ass you can switch positions. Whenever you switch positions check his condom to make certain that it's in place and hasn't torn.

I recommend trying doggy or lying on your back. Doggy is good if you really want your partner to give you an incredible fuck and you should most assuredly get a total body orgasm. Also try "reverse cowgirl" like in the photo. It will give his cock a different angle inside you ass making for a different sensation for both of you. Once you experience your first anal orgasm you'll discover a whole new aspect of your sexuality. Good luck and let me know if this helps.