Why we like shemales

[Colin3488]

Originally Posted by caligula

Ive heard a lot of crap about this attraction to shemales being a way for self-deluded gay men to come to terms with their sexuality without admitting to themselves that they're gay

Most actual gay men Ive met aren't into shemales at all so I know there is something way off about this theory. And as transexualism doesn't exist in nature we can't say its necessarily a natural tendency we're born with to have this attraction

So my theory is that the attraction is purely hetero. Most of us like the more feminine features and I see this expressed again and again. Its just that when you put a penis on what looks like a hot woman you feel like you intuitively understand her body better. She feels like you do.

Of course this is all man made, so its kind of a big delusion, but what a glorious delusion it is. God Bless the Twenty-First Century

Anyways thats my theory. Does anyone else have some?

I do not subscribe the “transexualism doesn't exist in nature” argument. I suspect that Transsexuals have always existed. Not so long ago, gay men, transsexuals and cross-dressers probably were categorised into one group.

As modern medicine has identified diseases today from what was considered “Pox” in the Sixteenth Century, technology/research in the Twenty-First Century allows the distinction between gay men, transsexuals and cross-dressers to be made.

I also suspect that men that strongly desired transsexuals would search these relationships. Unfortunately not so, long ago opportunities to explore these desires would have been almost non-existent due to unjust laws defining them as “socially unacceptable”. The result would have been that these relationships would have been “extremely underground”.

For the majority (me included as I only discovered my desires on a chance meeting) the joys of transsexual’s relationships would have been a mystery. The opportunity for “self enlightenment” would have been absent.

I’m not sure whether it is hetro or gay and “quite frankly my dear I don’t give a damn”. All I know is that I like the personalities and appearance of genetic women but I find them sexually unfulfilling and it is very difficult to “cum. On the other hand went I “bed” a shemale, I almost premature ejaculate and definitely “shoot a bigger load”.

[cham]

With shemales, I’ll go with the “best of both worlds� theory. However, the combination of both masculine and feminine, to my mind, creates something more beautiful than men or women. I find shemales / ladyboys to be more beautiful than women, and for me that’s the attraction.

I would not say that I am gay or hetero, but would say that I am attracted to this third sex.

By the by, do read Cal Y Pygia essay, “Shemales: An Appreciation.�

Cham