Why do we like dick?

[copkat]

I think most of us are hopeless porn addicts. After millions of images from Playboy and Penthouse, we need to move up to Hustler and Club. We need more kink to get excited. It doesn't get much kinkier than an asian ts. I also think submissives are especially drawn to ts - what's more domineering than a big hard cock. The first ts I ever saw was in Penthouse and I was repulsed. 10 years later I was interested. 15 years later I was obsessed. I think it's more about kink than orientation.

[cirillo]

Originally Posted by copkat

I think most of us are hopeless porn addicts. After millions of images from Playboy and Penthouse, we need to move up to Hustler and Club. We need more kink to get excited. It doesn't get much kinkier than an asian ts. I also think submissives are especially drawn to ts - what's more domineering than a big hard cock. The first ts I ever saw was in Penthouse and I was repulsed. 10 years later I was interested. 15 years later I was obsessed. I think it's more about kink than orientation.

i don't know, i admit i watch porn and normal porn i find it boring. maybe because it IS boring, those shaved bodies,plastic big boobs, i don't know, since girls in western porn are so different by those we associate with every day, i find it very difficult to relate to it. men are usually ugly gym goons with cocks twice our size and a vocabulary of 10 words (you often wonder if that girl would have sex in her real life with such guys). in order to get properly filmed they assume very weird and unnatural positions and the lack of caresses, hugs or kisses just makes it so cold to me and it turns easily boring. i find some russian porn slightly better cos the girls are younger and have natural bodies and most of the times they have sex with boys their age. their lack of "professionality" makes them often burst into laughters which makes them more human, but in the end is the same stuff, after a while it gets boring, at least to me.
i am not so sure that we all got to like m2f girls out of need for something kinkier. i can assure you porn can get a lot kinkier than that. and then again considering transexuals kinky is kinda horrible, looks like they are not real , normal people ( a bit like black people are relegated in the Ebony sort of fetish, just as if the normal skin colour of sex would be white and others are kinky, and by the way ebony is a fucking type of wood not a nice way to describe human beings).
maybe at some point (i speak personally, i just want to see what others think of it) i lost some prejudice. in the same way at some point i stopped finding weird that a woman could love and have sex with another woman or a man with a man, i questioned my little inner guilt feeling for getting aroused by a girl with male genitalia. i started thinking that if they are people like you and me it is normal and just that some of us find them sexy.they have got the right to be attractive. it's just a matter of attraction, you like someone and then you have sex with the sexual organs you've got. it's not wrong to suck a cock if the person you are having sex with has a cock and that's where she can get pleasure from, and it's not wrong to like it. you are not doing anything bad but defying current bigot morals.
my point was: maybe we don't need to get kinkier to find sexual pleasure maybe we just need only to get rid of our prejudices and enjoy what is around us. but that's just a guess.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by cirillo

i don't know, i admit i watch porn and normal porn i find it boring. maybe because it IS boring, those shaved bodies,plastic big boobs, i don't know, since girls in western porn are so different by those we associate with every day, i find it very difficult to relate to it. men are usually ugly gym goons with cocks twice our size and a vocabulary of 10 words (you often wonder if that girl would have sex in her real life with such guys). in order to get properly filmed they assume very weird and unnatural positions and the lack of caresses, hugs or kisses just makes it so cold to me and it turns easily boring. i find some russian porn slightly better cos the girls are younger and have natural bodies and most of the times they have sex with boys their age. their lack of "professionality" makes them often burst into laughters which makes them more human, but in the end is the same stuff, after a while it gets boring, at least to me.
i am not so sure that we all got to like m2f girls out of need for something kinkier. i can assure you porn can get a lot kinkier than that. and then again considering transexuals kinky is kinda horrible, looks like they are not real , normal people ( a bit like black people are relegated in the Ebony sort of fetish, just as if the normal skin colour of sex would be white and others are kinky, and by the way ebony is a fucking type of wood not a nice way to describe human beings).
maybe at some point (i speak personally, i just want to see what others think of it) i lost some prejudice. in the same way at some point i stopped finding weird that a woman could love and have sex with another woman or a man with a man, i questioned my little inner guilt feeling for getting aroused by a girl with male genitalia. i started thinking that if they are people like you and me it is normal and just that some of us find them sexy.they have got the right to be attractive. it's just a matter of attraction, you like someone and then you have sex with the sexual organs you've got. it's not wrong to suck a cock if the person you are having sex with has a cock and that's where she can get pleasure from, and it's not wrong to like it. you are not doing anything bad but defying current bigot morals.
my point was: maybe we don't need to get kinkier to find sexual pleasure maybe we just need only to get rid of our prejudices and enjoy what is around us. but that's just a guess.

I LOVE this

[cirillo]

thank you Bionca. I actually like a lot what you write in your posts.

[crsd1970]

I really think that a woman's desirability is not based on an erect penis (or lack of it). I've never found a TG woman's penis to be a sign of masculinity. I don't think its a feminine symbol either, I just see as a part of my partners anatomy.
A TG usually goes through hell and high water to fully become a woman, and yet they are usually more feminine than Genetic women, in a way they understand men better. In my view, TG women and straight men are a perfect complement for each other.
I had a TG girlfriend for over a year, and I although she was Pre-op her genitals played no part in our relation. And yet, I must confess that seeing her erect really aroused me in return; (same as if you see your lover's erect nipples or hear her moan). Seeing her desiring me made me desire her twice as much, and I think my climax was half my own pleasure, half the pleasure I felt from seeing my better half climaxing. As somebody else said, can there be anything better than making your girlfriend happy?

[jimyzun]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I LOVE this

Bionca, I love the way you think. It?s a shame I?m so far away cause I?d love to talk to you. In Argentina most tgirls are into prostitution and there?s little or no disease prevention due to the fact that there is an enormous racket that controls the whole thing right from the government house. So powerful that if you aren?t with them you may be found floating by the docks one morning..
My dream is to find someone who will have the patience to initiate me into this magic world of TS, as I have a terrific sex drive and I?m sure that I would love to share my life with someone like you.
Don?t worry, I?m not proposing, just thinking out loud.
Do dreams ever come true?

[NickNickNick]

I'm Bisexual, but I love Tgirls the best. I wouldn't get a boyfriend, apart from this one guy who's straight and wouldn't be with me anyway. But I would have a Tgirlfriend. In fact, I don't want a Ggirlfriend. I want to live with, be in love with, and have a very long term relationship with a Tgirl. I would happily go out with her in front of my mates. Most of my mates know I love Tgirls anyway. I would happily bring a Tgirlfriend over for tea, and kiss her in front of my parents. Though my parents and bro are one of the few people who don't know that i'm bisexual, let alone that i love Tgirls.

In short, I won't ever be happy until i can finally be with and hopefully marry a Tgirl. I don't want a boyfriend, and I don't want a Ggirlfriend.

[Shemale Cam Addict]

Well, I don`t likes guys but I do love shemale cock, no matter if it`s big or small, as long as the shemale is feminine. I also like pussy but I guess that I think cocks are more fun and when it comes to sex being with a tgirl rather than a girl gives you more options to have fun.

Very interesting responses on what makes us attracted. I still find that I am attracted to both cis and trans women. Like I said in one of my earlier posts, it is the whole person I am attracted to. And no, I don’t think any of it “makes you gay.” Human sexuality is far more complex than that and I believe that there is so much more that we don’t know about the human brain.

Anyway, speaking for myself, I still have not been with a transwoman--although since my divorce I have dated many ciswomen. I would have liked to but never got the opportunity. Right now, my current partner and I are living together and discussing marriage. Unless Kelly Shore PM’s me it is unlikely that I would date anyone else in the foreseeable future.

Since this thread is about “Why do we like dick?” I have often thought about why I find a penis sexy on a beautiful female but not on a man. Again, there is no simple answer--I believe there are many factors. As I have said in my other posts, for me, it is the entire person I am attracted to. Right now I am thinking about a picture Jonas posted of Kimber (sorry Kelly, you’re still my #1!). She is lying down playing with herself. Good god!!! That body… those thighs… that cock… Would I like to be with her? What do you think!? Does it make me “gay” because I would love to suck her off and fuck her? Don’t think so, but I don’t really care.

Change that image of Kimber to a 6’4” guy with a hairy chest and broad shoulders and big arms and you have… Nothing. At least for me. That would be like fucking myself! (Sorry couldn’t help it… )

I’ll try to keep this short by saying that these discussions are the part of this forum that I really like. Exploring one’s sexuality is a “work in progress” and we are all learning as we go along. As I like to say, “It’s all good!”

Dr. A