Why do some of you guys see transwomen as second class?

[tslust]

Why do some of you guys see transwomen as second class?

Because guys suck, period!

Originally Posted by tslust

Because guys suck, period!

will I am sorry you feel that way Tslust

[shadows]

Originally Posted by tslust

Because guys suck, period!

So why don't you tell us how you really feel?

[rockabilly]

Originally Posted by tslust

Because guys suck, period!

Did i do something wrong ? I only suck when and where you like it.

[jimnaseum]

As soon as you publicly date a transexual, count on losing lots of old friends.

I think its a private/fantasy for many , i guess each to their own, some may not want to act on their fantasy or they just want a fantasy to stay that way. Just personal choice i suspect , me i am not looking for a girlfriend , boyfriend or shemalefriend at the moment , sure some are just the same. Although i always considered this site as proactive ?

[new believer]

Back to your court Britishboy. As I stated, I apologize IF I offend anyone(who might be sincere), but I am a card carrying member of the Cynic Club International. I don't appreciate bullshitters (and no,I'm calling you one) or people with viewpoints on things they have little knowledge of, or have the knowledge but because their views/agendas don't match up, they'll lie or distort things.
Back to the topic ,......" If you really want me to quote I will, but if you take a look at posts such as "What type of relationship do you want with a shemale?" (I paraphrase), you'll see what I mean. It might not be outrightly insulting, but the amount of times I see the phrase "real girl", or just "girl" put in inverted commas is enough to relegate transwomen to second class. "

I will look up that one reference and if it as you say , I hope it's in the vast MINORITY. But if you also include 'real girl' or 'girl' , That's just from the mouths of babes. (meaning uneducated). When first 'exposed' to the world of TG's I also did not know how or to what 'title' I should address them to.
Maybe your only 'offense' ,in my view of your post, is that your too sensitive. But don't alter that if you are. Many GG's and TG's like that in a guy.
PS I didn't pick on you because your British(or are you). I respect the Brits and hope America will alsways be in her cornor. Sorry for the slaps our 'president' gave your Country. Wish I could slap him back for you.

[Jenae LaTorque]

GIGO
Garbage In - Garbage Out

Everyone's mindset is composed of the billions of pieces of data that comprise their life experiance. It is to be hoped for that members of this forum will recieve positive data here concerning this issue. Hopefully, in time, they will improve their mindsets from reading threads like this. We cannot condemn them for being where they are at any stage in their development. We can only help them to broaden their world view, while keeping in mind that it is harder for some to change and grow; it all depends on how much garbage there is to obstruct the path to harmony with others.

[suebone]

Originally Posted by Jenae LaTorque

GIGO
Garbage In - Garbage Out

Everyone's mindset is composed of the billions of pieces of data that comprise their life experiance. It is to be hoped for that members of this forum will recieve positive data here concerning this issue. Hopefully, in time, they will improve their mindsets from reading threads like this. We cannot condemn them for being where they are at any stage in their development. We can only help them to broaden their world view, while keeping in mind that it is harder for some to change and grow; it all depends on how much garbage there is to obstruct the path to harmony with others.

Love your reply.
I love my curves.
Hate people who categorise OTHERS !
sue b
(short&sweet)

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by jimnaseum

As soon as you publicly date a transexual, count on losing lots of old friends.

Um, thats Transsexual {bit of an issue that one }


Depends if she "passes" or not, really.

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

Originally Posted by jimnaseum

As soon as you publicly date a transexual, count on losing lots of old friends.

As soon as you publicly date a transexual, count on the added benefit of getting rid of all fake friends, leaving only real friends.

[sosed]

I know this is porn site, but I would like to touch here more social questions. I hope you will understand me correctly. I know, that I'm not perfect and that I don't know much here, but at least I try to understand Tgirls. I don't see them as sex toys but as normal human beings. I know I could not help here a lot, but I at least accept them and recognize their needs and rights. There is too much hostility, violence, suicides and killings in their population.

I have a question here about trans people in their childhood and adolescence. I know, that trans people don't have synchronized bodies and brains, what is, maybe term is not the best, a kind of birth defect. If child is born blind, or with heart defect or anything else, family and specially parents accept this and try to help them. Also a state with their institutions in that case somehow help parents that they easier deal with child's problems. Why not transexuality? How young children show and at what age, that their brains and bodies are not synchronized? How doctors and other state institutions help here parents to accept this fact and properly deal with children? If parents accept that child, love that child and help and guide that child through life, than siblings and environment could also accept and tolerate them. The problem is, that people don't see them born unsynchronized and that this is not their fault. If family could not accept them, than how could others? Here is a long way, but this problem must be talked in public. First of all, state laws must define their status and give them the same legal rights as all other people have. Than must state help parents to accept them and properly care for them in their childhood. People must be educated about trans problem, than we could expect people will be more accepting to them and be less violent.

Maybe my questions and thoughts are not proper for this forum, but I don't wont to be ignorant to this questions. After all who could guaranty me, that my child could not be trans? What to do then?

[smc]

Originally Posted by sosed

I know this is porn site, but I would like to touch here more social questions. I hope you will understand me correctly. I know, that I'm not perfect and that I don't know much here, but at least I try to understand Tgirls. I don't see them as sex toys but as normal human beings. I know I could not help here a lot, but I at least accept them and recognize their needs and rights. There is too much hostility, violence, suicides and killings in their population.

I have a question here about trans people in their childhood and adolescence. I know, that trans people don't have synchronized bodies and brains, what is, maybe term is not the best, a kind of birth defect. If child is born blind, or with heart defect or anything else, family and specially parents accept this and try to help them. Also a state with their institutions in that case somehow help parents that they easier deal with child's problems. Why not transexuality? How young children show and at what age, that their brains and bodies are not synchronized? How doctors and other state institutions help here parents to accept this fact and properly deal with children? If parents accept that child, love that child and help and guide that child through life, than siblings and environment could also accept and tolerate them. The problem is, that people don't see them born unsynchronized and that this is not their fault. If family could not accept them, than how could others? Here is a long way, but this problem must be talked in public. First of all, state laws must define their status and give them the same legal rights as all other people have. Than must state help parents to accept them and properly care for them in their childhood. People must be educated about trans problem, than we could expect people will be more accepting to them and be less violent.

Maybe my questions and thoughts are not proper for this forum, but I don't wont to be ignorant to this questions. After all who could guaranty me, that my child could not be trans? What to do then?

Humans are ignorant and resistant to anything that is different. Your analogy to children born with "defects" is incomplete in this respect. It is not that long ago in human history that blind and deaf children were herded off to special institutions away from their parents. It is even less time ago that those born with developmental disabilities were given any chance at a life outside of being locked up in horrific prisons masquerading as hospitals.

Education, time, and vigilance of those of us who see as you do are required to combat the challenges trans people face when it comes to being accepted. Vigilance means that we never, ever accept the prejudice without confronting it, calling it out, and defending trans people against attack.

[franalexes]

This thread is old but its lesson is timeless.