anyone got an idea?

[johndowe]

Hi there.

About that, you think that's bad try this:

you date a girl for a few months, then you move in togather you have bills to pay, she has alot more bills to pay, you work like a dog, to pay all the bills, she spends more, you pay, then when all bills are paid, she sais that you take her for granted and she leaves you.

how's that for a BITCH!

JohnDowe.

[Cadian122]

hey guys, lets calm down here, I should also have mentioned I was already planning on a Holiday, it was origionally to Melbourne for 2 weeks, but for the last 5 days I went to Sydney, for 2 reasons, the main one was to meet her, and the second one was because I'd never been there, so I decided to kill 2 birds with one stone. I didn't create this to swap stories to compete about who was screwed around worse, just to see if there was anything I could have done differently in case (which I hope and 'pray') there's a next time. another thing that did sting, was the fact the Australian Rules Football team I'm a member and massive supporter of, (a Melbourne based team btw (I'm from Adelaide) if you don't know the geography look up google earth) had 2 games I planned to go to while I was on holiday, and the one I went to in Melbourne was horrible, they blew a 7-goal half time lead to draw, which was a real non event, and the one I missed while being stood up in sydney - they won. But anyway, please no negativity, and there is no way I'm going to defame her, or anything horrible, not much point either, because it won't send any kind of good message out, except for "don't date him, when you break up he'll be a vindictive bastard"

[hector.hector]

Originally Posted by johndowe

Hi there.

About that, you think that's bad try this:

you date a girl for a few months, then you move in togather you have bills to pay, she has alot more bills to pay, you work like a dog, to pay all the bills, she spends more, you pay, then when all bills are paid, she sais that you take her for granted and she leaves you.

how's that for a BITCH!

JohnDowe.

Hey jhonDowe, you seem pretty angry take it easy, we all've been tehre before and got used and taken advantage by our bitches girl friends don't beat up ur self

[johndowe]

Hi there.

Hey, i'm not mad, mostly disappointed.

It happened a long time ago, but i'm still a bit mad at myself for letting it happen, but still, i know that if you try to protect yourself from the bad things in life, you often miss out on the good ones in the process, so i let it slide, in the end, it was ONLY money, and i always had some reservations about her, guess they weren't unfounded, but it did hurt emotionally, could have been worse if i hadn't had those reservations.

JohnDowe.

[WudLuv2try]

Cadian : You handled a very tough situation very gentlely.

Not many would have been so mature about it.

[Cadian122]

well, last night, I discovered the e-mail worked! and she added me on MSN again, and accepted my Facebook request, so it still looks to me, that there will be some small issues that need ironing out, but we're talking again so that's a good start

[Mel Asher]

C'mon, Buddy. Chatting is one thing, needs are another, but moving in with someone - sounds like commitment. You're dealing with a nicely-entertaining long-distance tingle in which someone's feet get cooler and cooler the closer you get to reality.

Without wanting to sound too cynical, chum, it seems as if she didn't give herself enough time to ' tidy up ' before you arrived - that is if she really expected you to take her up on her invitation in the first place !

I would switch to a different ' shopping mall ' if I were you.

[Cadian122]

she wanted me to move in. I said I'd have a holiday first, then I went up on a holiday and she didn't want to see me. I sent the e-mail last sunday, and on thursday, she contacted me on msn, and we've had the occasional chat since then, it's kinda wierd atm though