anyone got an idea?

[Cadian122]

I forgot to say that we had been chatting with webcams for about half the time so I do know that she was who she was, thanks, that's what most people I know here said.

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by Cadian122

I forgot to say that we had been chatting with webcams for about half the time so I do know that she was who she was, thanks, that's what most people I know here said.

Good thing you got a room!

[DeaconBlues]

I have had similar experiences, not with any t-girls but with more than a few women. Some "women" (who do not deserve to be called women) get a kick out of teasing a man. They LIKE to make a man look like a fool, and most any man will do a lot of foolish things when some woman begins to manipulate him.

I am not sure if it will be any comfort, but I have wasted lots more money, effort and time on more than a few teaser-tramps, and I felt HORRIBLE afterwards. I wonder, seriously, do these teaser tramp women really know how much it HURTS a man to be "stood up" or left out standing in the rain somewhere?

Take heart Cadian, almost every man has had some similar experience, and many have wasted thousands of dollars on some teaser-tramp, and we all end up feeling absolutely terrible in the end.

This is the first time I have heard of a t-girl doing something like that though. I guess your t-girl had some issues, wondering if she was really like a g-girl, and she decided to take up one of the absolute worst feminine behaviours to see if she was "alluring" enough to be just like a teaser-tramp woman.

Personally, my "hat is off to you," because you are taking this a lot better than I ever would. I think I would post her name and telephone number, yahoo/msn i.d. and any other infor I had all over every raunchy men's restroom I could find. Maybe even make up some sort of bogus poster.... "WARNING!! - the below named individual is a con-artist, teaser-tramp..... avoid contact with her.... " Hell, I would probably be arrested for some sort of "defamation of character" but I tell you, it honestly HURTS me when someone teases my emotions like that. So, like I say, you seem to be taking this a LOT better than I would.

[johndowe]

Hi there.

About that, you think that's bad try this:

you date a girl for a few months, then you move in togather you have bills to pay, she has alot more bills to pay, you work like a dog, to pay all the bills, she spends more, you pay, then when all bills are paid, she sais that you take her for granted and she leaves you.

how's that for a BITCH!

JohnDowe.

[Cadian122]

hey guys, lets calm down here, I should also have mentioned I was already planning on a Holiday, it was origionally to Melbourne for 2 weeks, but for the last 5 days I went to Sydney, for 2 reasons, the main one was to meet her, and the second one was because I'd never been there, so I decided to kill 2 birds with one stone. I didn't create this to swap stories to compete about who was screwed around worse, just to see if there was anything I could have done differently in case (which I hope and 'pray') there's a next time. another thing that did sting, was the fact the Australian Rules Football team I'm a member and massive supporter of, (a Melbourne based team btw (I'm from Adelaide) if you don't know the geography look up google earth) had 2 games I planned to go to while I was on holiday, and the one I went to in Melbourne was horrible, they blew a 7-goal half time lead to draw, which was a real non event, and the one I missed while being stood up in sydney - they won. But anyway, please no negativity, and there is no way I'm going to defame her, or anything horrible, not much point either, because it won't send any kind of good message out, except for "don't date him, when you break up he'll be a vindictive bastard"

[hector.hector]

Originally Posted by johndowe

Hi there.

About that, you think that's bad try this:

you date a girl for a few months, then you move in togather you have bills to pay, she has alot more bills to pay, you work like a dog, to pay all the bills, she spends more, you pay, then when all bills are paid, she sais that you take her for granted and she leaves you.

how's that for a BITCH!

JohnDowe.

Hey jhonDowe, you seem pretty angry take it easy, we all've been tehre before and got used and taken advantage by our bitches girl friends don't beat up ur self

[johndowe]

Hi there.

Hey, i'm not mad, mostly disappointed.

It happened a long time ago, but i'm still a bit mad at myself for letting it happen, but still, i know that if you try to protect yourself from the bad things in life, you often miss out on the good ones in the process, so i let it slide, in the end, it was ONLY money, and i always had some reservations about her, guess they weren't unfounded, but it did hurt emotionally, could have been worse if i hadn't had those reservations.

JohnDowe.

[WudLuv2try]

Cadian : You handled a very tough situation very gentlely.

Not many would have been so mature about it.