Feared or Respected?

[Creedence]

I guess I might be considered a bit odd because I'm going to choose Fear for this question.

Respect and being admired is a great thing and it's noble to live well and try to earn it from others by being kind and virtuous.

Fear is stronger then respect. I choose Fear. I wouldn't be betrayed if I was feared and I wouldn't be questioned.

It's simpler.

But would I choose another emotion over Fear? Of course.

Which leads me to ask a question to add-on.

Is being loved stronger then being feared or respected?