Bionca's Poll For Men

[ila]

Originally Posted by Talvenada

.....Who are we at this forum,
and why do we behave the way we do?


Why don't we defend the trans women enough?


Or do we defend them more than elsewhere?


Who we are predicts our actions before the fact, and proves our actions after the fact.

The questions in the poll don't match the questions posed here, therefore your post does not make any sense. I really have no idea what you are trying to find out. How does the fact that one may or may not have a relationship with a transwoman relate to whether or not one defends transwomen?

[jdawg]

I have had sex with 2 transwomen. I'm not into relationships so those 2 times never turned into anything more. I would be open to a relationship, but I don't really think I'll ever find the right person to settle down with.

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by ila

The questions in the poll don't match the questions posed here, therefore your post does not make any sense. I really have no idea what you are trying to find out. How does the fact that one may or may not have a relationship with a transwoman relate to whether or not one defends transwomen?

ILA:


My thinking is that why you come here may shed a light on your response to certain issues, like those that Bionca faces on a daily basis, and she feels those issues here as well. My feeling when starting this poll was to establish who comes here to determine that response. Men who have an emotional relationship with a trans woman are more likely to be sensitive to her issues. Men who come here to treat a trans woman as a sex object will be less likely to feel empathy. It doesn't establish the new members from the more seasoned veterans, which could have an effect on the outcome. Is it error proof? NO!

Maybe the response that Bionca is seeking is not 80% but 50%, and if she expected 50% and got 50% it would be par for the course. In other words, if she has unrealistic expectations, her disappointment is not founded in reality. However, if 50% is reality and sees 30%, she has a measurable difference to compare to the outside world.

I hope it doesn't appear to be to clean-room sterile.


TAL