Why???

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by breen

right so here goes.. iv been on here loads recently.. im a married man.. but im really attracted to TS girls...now i dont watch gay sex between two men. it turns me off... but when i watch a TS girl i get so hard and have to wank strating away.. so im not gay but i love TS girls... and dream of making love to a gorgeous TS lady.. as im a virgin in that department... ooooooh im so confused. Gay, Straight, Bi ... >??????? help

No need for any confusion, mano. You're simply a completely normal str8 guy with a healthy attraction to trans*women. An attraction to trans*women is NOT a gay-thing because trans*women are exactly that... WOMEN!

[breen]

thanks for the help... i always thought i was straight and now i know i am ...i have PM a few girls on here ... most ignore me lol... but a few have replied and have been really lovely ... hope to build a friendship with you all

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by breen

thanks for the help... i always thought i was straight and now i know i am ...i have PM a few girls on here ... most ignore me lol... but a few have replied and have been really lovely ... hope to build a friendship with you all

Breen, my man, you also say that you are married. I don't think that many women, who wants something beyond sex, are necessarily too comfortable with that. That goes for cis* as well as trans*women.

It's completely cool that you say it out, but what is it you want from a trans*woman? Is it merely a sexual escapade, or are you willing to leave your wife and get involved seriously with another woman? A trans*woman?

If this is merely curiousity, which is completely ok, then make sure that you come out in the open with it once you have your first date with a trans*woman.

Trans*women may be tough (because they have to be), but they are also the most fragile beings exactly because of their honesty. So don't play around with them. If you want a trans*woman then go for her, but decide from the start what you want her for and, please, tell her...

Best wishes

H

[Darha]

Shemales, transvestites and crossdressers are girls, everybody says the same thing, they feel the same that a woman and even more, make her a real woman. Don't stress, if you're gay you love male faces

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Breen, my man, you also say that you are married. I don't think that many women, who wants something beyond sex, are necessarily too comfortable with that. That goes for cis* as well as trans*women.

It's completely cool that you say it out, but what is it you want from a trans*woman? Is it merely a sexual escapade, or are you willing to leave your wife and get involved seriously with another woman? A trans*woman?

If this is merely curiousity, which is completely ok, then make sure that you come out in the open with it once you have your first date with a trans*woman.

Trans*women may be tough (because they have to be), but they are also the most fragile beings exactly because of their honesty. So don't play around with them. If you want a trans*woman then go for her, but decide from the start what you want her for and, please, tell her...

Best wishes

H

what you said Hank

[breen]

i know what your saying Hank thats why im being honest and saying i am married... bet alot of guys on here are married and not saying... im reall y attracted to TS women but iv never had the pleasure of meeting one... thats the big problem.. i cant make any decisions about anything until i meet and talk to a TS girl to see how i feel about it. of course id love to try the sex bit lol but i think getting to know my feeling about it is the main thing i have to understand first.. do i make sense???

[Bionca]

Here was a letter sent to sex columnist, Dan Savage on March 26 2009. It should serve as a cautionary tale to the curious and attached. Now, imagine if the gal in question wasn't a pro? Having been on the receiving end of post-sexual "nausea" it frankly stinks on ice - particularly since I'm not a "pro" and guys love to promise the sun moon and stars to get gals into the sack.

I’m a 24-year-old guy, and I just got a blowjob from (and gave a half-assed one to) a transsexual male-to-female prostitute. It was no accident: I’d spent about two years looking at TS porn (as well as regular guys-doing-it-with-girls porn), and the whole thing seemed like a hot idea. But the plastic-surgery scars around her tits and her cock in my mouth kind of made me nauseated. I went through the motions only because I didn’t have the guts to walk out. (We both had condoms on.)

I’m not sure if I can face my girlfriend of a year. I’ve been faithful to her until now, and I feel like crying. I don’t know if it’s because it was illegal (prostitution), because I was cheating on her (unfaithful), or because I can’t say I’m totally straight anymore (cock in my mouth). I don’t know how to tell my girlfriend. She knows I look at porn, but she doesn’t know I look at TS porn—no one does.

> Regrets About Gay Experience

[breen]

hey Bionca xx well ok but at the bottom it says "regrets about gay experience" i dont look at it as being gay now.. i admit i wasnt sure but after talking to some people on here i know now im not gay...but surely you have to experience something to know if its for you or not...

[racquel]

I don't know if it's because it was illegal (prostitution), because I was cheating on her (unfaithful), or because I can't say I'm totally straight anymore (cock in my mouth). I don't know how to tell my girlfriend. She knows I look at porn, but she doesn't know I look at TS porn-no one does.

> Regrets About Gay Experience

I guess it's good to see someone honestly put those feelings in writing. The major problem I see is:

- The guy is homophobic.

- The guy is stupid. He's a straight guy with a girlfriend, and he's had no problem looking at TS porn for two years. If it made him feel so guilty to actually do it then I'm sure he felt some of that guilty simply from constantly masturbating to TS porn. He should've known better.

- Obviously the only thing he should really be feeling guilty about is cheating on his girlfriend!

- What's this about "I don't know how to tell my girlfriend"? This is another example of someone using the excuse of "trying to be honest" to make himself feel less guilty. Telling his girlfriend will just make her feel bad, and it will probably end the relationship. If he wants to end the relationship he should just end it. If he wants to stay with his girlfriend he's going to have to live with the guilt of cheating on her for the rest of his life. How to tell her isn't his biggest problem. It isn't even close. It would probably be best to never tell her, but he's just a wimp who wants to make himself feel better.


What I find really disturbing is that we have a guy who's totally fixated on having a cock in his mouth. For all I know he actually is gay and he just has so much self-loathing that he can't admit it. You spend most of your spare time staring at a cock on your computer screen while jerking your own cock with your hand. Who cares if you actually had a cock in your mouth for a minute while giving some poor hooker the worst blowjob of her life?