what is anal sex like?

[ZoeyWilde]

It's definitely painful at first. I was used to fingers when I tried penetration with a dildo for the first time. It hurt quite a bit, even with lube, but after that... It just feels really really good. It's nothing like having your cock stroked, it's an entirely different feeling. Personally, the best sex I ever had was anal, it's worth trying.

Originally Posted by mike50-tslover

*** I am trying to penetrate myself with a dildo for a week now. I achieve only some cm (perhaps 7 or 8 cm). I feel no fun, no erection, mostly pain
I think I have to go further to reach the prostate, right?
Some advice?

How big is the dildo? If you're trying something too large or if you're not using enough lubricant (not soap or lotion, real lubricant), then you will have trouble getting anything to go in. If you're not ready or lubed up, you probably don't want it to go in, it will just hurt like hell. It also helps to insert fingers first. Go for at least two before you try to insert a dildo. A bit of incremental stretch will prevent injury.

[mike50-tslover]

Originally Posted by ZoeyWilde

It's definitely painful at first. .....

How big is the dildo? If you're trying something too large or if you're not using enough lubricant (not soap or lotion, real lubricant), then you will have trouble getting anything to go in. If you're not ready or lubed up, you probably don't want it to go in, it will just hurt like hell. It also helps to insert fingers first. Go for at least two before you try to insert a dildo. A bit of incremental stretch will prevent injury.

*** Sure, it is a small dildo. I can enter not more than 8 cm. And now I am trying for a week. Still not funny... some get an erection when getting f***d.
But for me not only funny but far away from ANY erection.

[aguy]

Lube properly and RELAX.Maybe you should try a smaller dildo too...

[Smoothie]

maybe the user Mike50 just isn't into it. My first experience was when I was very young and tried silly things like a pencil or pen, and stepped up to a small carrot/etc. The reason I tried these things is because I was interested, and I didn't jump the gun into it.

If you are a top and like being a top, just "let it be" if you don't enjoy receiving anal. Everybody is different, and nothing should dictate your personal desires in your sex life.

[Jongos]

the narrow hole make you unforgettable

[smooth]

that depends....if you are pitching or catching

[Maxxy]

Top or bottom, if done right either can be heaven.

[LarryP]

[QUOTE=ZoeyWilde;239600]It's definitely painful at first. I was used to fingers when I tried penetration with a dildo for the first time. It hurt quite a bit, even with lube, but after that... It just feels really really good. It's nothing like having your cock stroked, it's an entirely different feeling. Personally, the best sex I ever had was anal, it's worth trying.

Hi Zoey--like you, I just love being penetrated. I love it that my dick gets rock hard and ooozes pre-cum without being touched!! And the pleasure of feeling your partners cock sliding in and out of your ass and stroking your prostrate just keeps building slowly, but strongly. The pleasure is so intense.........the best!!

So a quick answer is--anal sex can be really good!! Find a partner you trust, go slow and use lots of lube. Melissa's comment is excellent, recommend you follow her advice!!

[eric]

Definitely it should be with someone sensitive and gentle who had anal sex himself. So he knows how does it feel.

[merelypink]

Before you do it google "preparing for anal sex" and also remember lots of lube!!

[GRH]

Two words...Fucking amazing!

Backdoor loving is fantastic even if the penis isn't involved at all. Add in a reach around or oral, and you can go to another planet. One of my favorites is to receive anal while being flipped up and being stroked, such that I cum into my own mouth.

[sailove]

I read this thread with little interest. I had experience, with girlfriends strapons, but after reading this thread I got my toys out. It's all about your attitude, if you want to get fucked, you will enjoy it' if you pull your panties down and spread your cheeks you will love what you get. I have loved taking a giant dildo up my ass, it went in easily. Now I wear my fem clothes and I love it. Thank you DANNOH

[kabas1970]

Originally Posted by ZoeyWilde

It's definitely painful at first. I was used to fingers when I tried penetration with a dildo for the first time. It hurt quite a bit, even with lube, but after that... It just feels really really good. It's nothing like having your cock stroked, it's an entirely different feeling. Personally, the best sex I ever had was anal, it's worth trying.


How big is the dildo? If you're trying something too large or if you're not using enough lubricant (not soap or lotion, real lubricant), then you will have trouble getting anything to go in. If you're not ready or lubed up, you probably don't want it to go in, it will just hurt like hell. It also helps to insert fingers first. Go for at least two before you try to insert a dildo. A bit of incremental stretch will prevent injury.

what a good position who male u feel very good when u get cock in u

[Trans_Jennifer]

My first time anal was very painful. The guys cock was fat and we
used many lube. As he try to put his cock in my pussy i couldnt breath.
I wanted to tell him he must stop it but cant. The guy enjoyed my tight
hole and that its hurting me. After he was ready and out of me it stil hurts
over days. Today i enjoy anal and love it getting fucked harder.
Jenn

[LBLuva]

My first time was sort of painful, sort of pleasurable. It hurt for just a minute, and then there was this deep burn that felt really good. I had been prepping with a few different vibrators (3, going up in size) and even slept with a butt plug for a few nights prior to my anal cherry busting. Now, I love anal! My Filipina tgirlfriend has a nice brown 7" cock that's rock hard and just perfect!

[CatOfNineTails]

I only have experience in topping... and good advice has already been given here.

Before I go in I prefer to get her relaxed, lubed and ready to receive my cock. I start by gently stroking my tongue around her anus and poking inside with the tip of my tongue while swirling it around. I generally get really turned on and begin to salivate quite a bit, producing more than enough "lube."

When she's ready I like to slap the head of my penis on her anus and gently press in, sometimes I'll spit on it some more to get a little extra lube and let it slide in. I just work it in little by little until its sliding freely and begin going at it balls deep.

[sailove]

I always insert a butt plug first it makes me very horny. I love to feel full of cock, girlie cock that is, pounding my asshole. I love it bareback and I love it when she shoots in my hole!