Am I bisexual?

[Elonar]

Originally Posted by TimCarpenter

Im not attracted to guys at all, never have been.

Im totally into women and only feminine shemales/ts, mostly asian.

I feel confused if that makes me bisexual because they have a penis or am i just heterosexual?

TC -

At the end of the day the most important thing is to realise that you are a living sexual being. After all, if the truth be known, a significant number of men have a very low sex drive, which is hard for many of us possessors of medium to high sex drives to understand.

Perhaps our preoccupation with M2f Transexuals is because we feel our sexual-awareness centred round ff women and gg girls is incompletely a satisfied. We all carry within us a sexual spectrum, a blend of feminine and masculine. That makes us sexual, but not necessarily homosexual or bisexual.
Some of us also exercise choice over our practising sexual life-style. For example, I practise an exclusively Heterosexual lifestyle, but it doesn't prevent me from admiring and indeed savouring the beauty of other quite different flowers of the field '. I acknowledge that to some this may seem to be an aberration, but to me it seems quite normal.

Dreams and Fantasy are free, and, if they cause no hurt or harm to another, they should attract no feelings of regret.

So go for it and indulge yourself to the full, TC, in the fellowship of this forum.

[TimCarpenter]

Originally Posted by Elonar

TC -

At the end of the day the most important thing is to realise that you are a living sexual being. After all, if the truth be known, a significant number of men have a very low sex drive, which is hard for many of us possessors of medium to high sex drives to understand.

Perhaps our preoccupation with M2f Transexuals is because we feel our sexual-awareness centred round ff women and gg girls is incompletely a satisfied. We all carry within us a sexual spectrum, a blend of feminine and masculine. That makes us sexual, but not necessarily homosexual or bisexual.
Some of us also exercise choice over our practising sexual life-style. For example, I practise an exclusively Heterosexual lifestyle, but it doesn't prevent me from admiring and indeed savouring the beauty of other quite different flowers of the field '. I acknowledge that to some this may seem to be an aberration, but to me it seems quite normal.

Dreams and Fantasy are free, and, if they cause no hurt or harm to another, they should attract no feelings of regret.

So go for it and indulge yourself to the full, TC, in the fellowship of this forum.

I really appreciate this answer instead of just telling me to "search the site". I am new here and confused about myself sometimes. I came here for discussion and understanding not to be told to "search". Very much appreicated!

The reason some of the older members of this site suggest you do a search is mainly because these questions have been discussed a great deal on here before and there's no point in creating tons of threads that all deal with the same subject. Just about everybody who turns up here has asked themselves the exact same thing at some point so you're not alone.

The thread that might help you most is this one:
http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=3835

But the general gist is - you are what you believe yourself to be, everything else is just labelling Oh, and don't feel guilty about what you're attracted to.

[TimCarpenter]

If i have a question I dont see the problem in asking it in a new thread. If we just did searches on past material we would miss out on new conversation with new members who might want updated opinions not old opinions.

Personally, I've no problem with you asking as many questions - and opening as many threads - as you like. Just don't be surprised if somebody drops by to point out there's already a 15-page thread where the fat has been chewed at length on the same subject - or one of our ever-smiling mods decides to merge the whole lot together anyway.

[Smoothie]

I think you are either or both Heterosexual/bisexual. Your attraction to TS does not make you "gay", but lets be honest it's a girl with male genetalia instead of female.
Most if not all guys I have questioned are into ladyboys, which makes me temporarily conclude that most men are indeed hetero but are also attracted to what they intimately & comfortably know the most.

So, Your attraction IS normal.

[tslust]

I don't really get hung on labels. Only you can truly define who you are.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

Personally, I've no problem with you asking as many questions - and opening as many threads - as you like. Just don't be surprised if somebody drops by to point out there's already a 15-page thread where the fat has been chewed at length on the same subject - or one of our ever-smiling mods decides to merge the whole lot together anyway.

I agree totally with Natalie and SMC - so dig in to the old threads. They cover this tenthousandfold...

But to clear the air: No, you're most likely not bisexual. You're "trans-oriented". That's a sexual orientation in its own right. And, as I have argued numerous times before, even her penis (if she still has it) becomes an attribute of her femininity. So please, follow the good advice and research the matter by reading what has already been written.

Peace

Hank

[Demonic shemale licker]

Personally, i identify as pansexual/gueer.