Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[Demonic shemale licker]

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by Demonic shemale licker

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

Well, pretend that everyone's in their underwear, including yourself.
Because, famous person once said, "You need to go out on a limb, otherwise you'll never know. How else can you can get the fruit?"

[transmatic]

i actually have gf but she is thousands miles away from me. she lives in thailand. and i missing her and didn't seen her for ages. she is from laos, very shy and not really keen on computers. so it's big deal for her to use skype. so i would rather say i'm almost alone here

if somebody lives in phuket on permanent basis, i would really aprecciate you help me to manage netbook for her and teach her computer and english basics. i can send her money to cover expences.

if not - i'm just happy to share with you my emotions
she is cutiest babe in the world!

[Thor1989]

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...

[smc]

Originally Posted by Thor1989

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...

This is a ridiculous statement. Your country undoubtedly has roughly the same percentage of transsexuals in its population as anywhere else in the world. It might have been correct to write that the only transsexuals of which you are aware are escorts; anything else is unscientific and patently false.

[transmatic]

Originally Posted by Thor1989

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...

what country are you from? most posh clubs in the capitals of different countries are filled up to capacity with smiling chicks. from 5 to 20 percent of them are tg. almost all of them are in between of getting money for sex and quitting this business for building constant relations and family. what's special about your world?

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Thor1989

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...(

Move to Transylvania

[smc]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Move to Transylvania

I hear the transsexuals in Transylvania get the best "wood".

...

It's a Latin joke. Look it up.

[Midori81]

So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

[murdoc]

Originally Posted by Midori81

So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

A most emphatic yes on all counts

[DEFENDER]

I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

[ila]

Originally Posted by DEFENDER

...I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,...

It is certainly true for me.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by DEFENDER

Said

That's really beautiful.
I just checked your profile as what you wrote could have been said by my man,
including our time together [also two years]
He lives abroad but is over with me ATM for another week.

Oh, I lived in Oldbrook for two years, on Boycott Avenue
- not the nice end with the newish houses They were building them when I left around 1999.
but the crappy end with the flats.

Are you going to the BNO on Friday?
I rarely do tranny events
and my man definitely doesn't want to go,
but I've two friends going so I may join them.
and hopefully talk him into it too.

Oh, my real name is Misha.

Oh, how did you meet your partner?
I met mine via a trans forum like this one but mainly for the UK

[DEFENDER]

[QUOTE=JodieTs;178211]That's really beautiful.
Hi Misha
Thanks for your lovely reply......its nice to know that my feelings and thoughts are also shared by your partner.....and what a coincidence that you lived SO near to me! My home is actually in a small village just outside the ever-spreading sprawl of Milton Keynes city but know the area where you used to live.
Like your man, I am not too keen to visit "ts/gay" clubs or events but know they suit some people. I had often considered visiting the "Pink Punters" club but was incredibly lucky enough to meet my partner in quite unusual circumstances.......
We first met at an "Asian-Expo" event in London about 3 years ago,..she was working on a stand as a translator for a factory from China and I made an excuse about being a UK buyer so I could talk to her. We met later for lunch and I fell head-over-heels for her. Although she is so feminine in every way, I had suspected her "gender identity" and for me I guess you could say that it was a case of love at first sight. We dated during that first year and moved in together when we just could'nt carry on leading our lives apart.
I'm actually out of the UK this week and missing my girl like crazy but will be back on Sunday (time can go SO slow sometimes!). Take care X

[parr]

Originally Posted by DEFENDER

I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

I am very happy for you.

[whazizname]

Originally Posted by aw9725

I can only speak for myself but the answers are ?Yes,? ?Yes,? and ?Yes.?

Add my yeses to the count.

[johnny_love]

I would like me and my half to be one, like a ying/yang...I entrust that love has no boundaries, no matter what the people say, because I am not in love with people, but with "the one"...I would love her for who she is, not for what people think she is...doesn't matter she is transgender or not, because just the way we are on the inside matters...that's my point of view, so be happy and be loved!

[LibertyHarkness]

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

[ila]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

Oh sorry, Liberty. I can't be your bf because I'm already taken and I'm very much in love with my gf.

[LibertyHarkness]

mehhhh no use to me is it

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

I like men and I like women.
Consequently, I've two partners
and two bunches of roses for valentines day.

I hope you find someone (or someone x2) soon.

[Enoch Root]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

I like men and I like women.
Consequently, I've two partners
and two bunches of roses for valentines day.

I hope you find someone (or someone x2) soon.

Find me two people why don't you!

[spacecase9128]

I am writing back and forth with a lady / transexual from Arkansas. Interesting 2 see how this goes. She accepts my use of androcur around her and is not bothered by my admited use of it. Will see how this goes.

SC 9128

[CuriousMattUK]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

That's a very good question and one I cannot personally answer. It certainly surprises me! Maybe there's just someone "waiting in the wings" to sweep you off of your feet?

[SwedishTsGirl]

I am shemale cutie myself, but neverless its not easy to find a good partner..drooling men is everywhere..but the special one..not easy to find...

[transgenderdate]

If finding someone special was easy...it just wouldn't be that special. That being said, I think it's fair to say that if a guy really wants to date a transsexual woman he should be doing the exact same thing he would with a GG. Be respectful...learn more about her than what she's "into" and be fully open and honest about who he is and his relationship goals because at the end of the day a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship is just that and it's based on many factors. All of that being said...if a guy can't get past the hurdle of being "out" as a guy who dates TG women then it's probably best for him not to pursue sincere TG women for dating.

And of course...you must be looking in the right places

[shadows]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

Perhaps they are concentrating on only one aspect of you rather than who you are as a whole(that being, a stunningly beautiful woman with a sharp wit)?

I will shake my fist with copious amounts of envy for the future-fellow that will be lucky enough to have you as a girlfriend. *shake-a* *shake-a*

[Sonder]

I'm with some of the others, there are simply none in my area.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Sonder

I'm with some of the others, there are simply none in my area.

Wrong!
We walk among you.

[Marcelus]

I can't wait to have such a girlfriend but it's hard to find one like that in my hometown. I have to travel really much in other countries and towns to find some of these. This is my life.

[darkstargemini]

> i guess with most pehoo,s it,s all talk and no action it,s not that hurd to find a shemale don,t tull anyone this is my interest i guess they really don,t exist as i was told years ago it,s all fake this is coming from a guy i new years ago that wanted to have sex with another guy

[brainsexual]

I'm attracted to the female form be it on a man or a woman. I'd happily date a shemale but given that women seem to outnumber them in my city by about 10,000 to one... well, probability rears it's ugly head.

I'm a hard guy to date so I have to meet a lot of people before I find one that things click with.

[caminds]

there are few TS' in my country, and i can't find many sites for casual dating. most are just sleazy ones, but none i can find are for casual chat and maybe more.

[Pikachu1989]

Couple of reasons for me. There are Not to many transexuals that live in The Nebraska-Iowa area in America, fear of family since my dads side of the family is ultra conservative, and the fact that I'm scared to talk to a Girl since I have a speech Impedement. Mainly the last one for me.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Pikachu1989

Couple of reasons for me. There are Not to many transexuals that live in The Nebraska-Iowa area in America, fear of family since my dads side of the family is ultra conservative, and the fact that I'm scared to talk to a Girl since I have a speech Impedement. Mainly the last one for me.

I feel like a broken record, but if I don't post this JodieTS will.

The percentage of the population that is transsexual is generally the same wherever you go in the world. In the "Nebraska-Iowa area," transsexuals may not feel as comfortable as in some other places, but I assure you that as you walk down the streets of Omaha or Council Bluffs, go into shops, eat at the restaurants, and so on, there are trans people all around you.

[JodieTs]

You just beat me to it, by 10 minutes!
I snooze, I loose!

[Pikachu1989]

Originally Posted by smc

I feel like a broken record, but if I don't post this JodieTS will.

The percentage of the population that is transsexual is generally the same wherever you go in the world. In the "Nebraska-Iowa area," transsexuals may not feel as comfortable as in some other places, but I assure you that as you walk down the streets of Omaha or Council Bluffs, go into shops, eat at the restaurants, and so on, there are trans people all around you.

I know what you're saying. Omaha is kind of a conservative town and know there are transexuals that are living in everyday life i also crossdress so I know that feeling and don't want the unwanted attention. My man Problem is that Its mostly Family and speech impedement that's holding me back. I wanted to clarify myself

[Tiffany Starr]

Sorta...I mean she's my ex ATM but I am trying to get her back, besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one. Perhaps Kitty Kaiti may be interested? ;-)

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Starr

besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one.

Ha ha ha ha!
Good luck. I once met a mentally stable transsexual woman,...once.

Men reading this thread:
Quickest way to get lots of transsexual women on your speeddial,
is to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers...

[Tiffany Starr]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Ha ha ha ha!
Good luck. I once met a mentally stable transsexual woman,...once.

Men reading this thread:
Quickest way to get lots of transsexual women on your speeddial,
is to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers...

I know where to find them, i've met quite a few, most of the stable one's i've met have been lesbians. I don't think this is a coincidence.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Starr

Sorta...I mean she's my ex ATM but I am trying to get her back, besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one. Perhaps Kitty Kaiti may be interested? ;-)

Now, Tiffany, remember what we talked about ...