Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[DEFENDER]

I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

[ila]

Originally Posted by DEFENDER

...I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,...

It is certainly true for me.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by DEFENDER

Said

That's really beautiful.
I just checked your profile as what you wrote could have been said by my man,
including our time together [also two years]
He lives abroad but is over with me ATM for another week.

Oh, I lived in Oldbrook for two years, on Boycott Avenue
- not the nice end with the newish houses They were building them when I left around 1999.
but the crappy end with the flats.

Are you going to the BNO on Friday?
I rarely do tranny events
and my man definitely doesn't want to go,
but I've two friends going so I may join them.
and hopefully talk him into it too.

Oh, my real name is Misha.

Oh, how did you meet your partner?
I met mine via a trans forum like this one but mainly for the UK

[DEFENDER]

[QUOTE=JodieTs;178211]That's really beautiful.
Hi Misha
Thanks for your lovely reply......its nice to know that my feelings and thoughts are also shared by your partner.....and what a coincidence that you lived SO near to me! My home is actually in a small village just outside the ever-spreading sprawl of Milton Keynes city but know the area where you used to live.
Like your man, I am not too keen to visit "ts/gay" clubs or events but know they suit some people. I had often considered visiting the "Pink Punters" club but was incredibly lucky enough to meet my partner in quite unusual circumstances.......
We first met at an "Asian-Expo" event in London about 3 years ago,..she was working on a stand as a translator for a factory from China and I made an excuse about being a UK buyer so I could talk to her. We met later for lunch and I fell head-over-heels for her. Although she is so feminine in every way, I had suspected her "gender identity" and for me I guess you could say that it was a case of love at first sight. We dated during that first year and moved in together when we just could'nt carry on leading our lives apart.
I'm actually out of the UK this week and missing my girl like crazy but will be back on Sunday (time can go SO slow sometimes!). Take care X

[CuriousMattUK]

The harsh reality for me is that I haven't looked hard enough. I know it is something, in an ideal world, which I would want. I would love to meet and socialise with T-girls and engage in friendship and then maybe more but at the moment I'm being a lame duck on this front.

I'm not afraid. I simply don't know where to begin or what the best way of going about it is.

[sosed]

It's really nice to read positive experiences with real life relationships with Tgirls, like the one from DEFENDER. This World is too cruel and bitter for trans people, so anything positive would be very welcome. At least could give more hope, that there is some progress in accepting trans people as human beings.

[no1000]

Originally Posted by CuriousMattUK

The harsh reality for me is that I haven't looked hard enough. I know it is something, in an ideal world, which I would want. I would love to meet and socialise with T-girls and engage in friendship and then maybe more but at the moment I'm being a lame duck on this front.

I'm not afraid. I simply don't know where to begin or what the best way of going about it is.

I'm in a worse position. I know where the girls hang out in my area but I haven't had the balls to go out in a social situation and start talking,

[whole]

I, m not there yet. I only had one sexual experience with a transsexual girl This felt however in a way like a spiritual eye-opener. Everything fell into place
So first I want more transsexual sexual experience, do some savings and then travel the world if I have to, to find my transsexual girlfriend

[Curioustsliker]

I gladly would if I ever met a woman and we got along.

[parr]

Originally Posted by DEFENDER

I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

I am very happy for you.