Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[Demonic shemale licker]

Hey, c'mon my peeps, lets get back more on topic, i'm hoping this will get us
to a more positive light, i was just thinking yesterday that perhaps one other reason why i haven't pursued my dream is because i would just be 2 shy to do it, for example a couple days ago i saw a cute looking tgirl pass me by, but when our eyes met i immediately turned my face and blushed. The scary part for me is that i think she was able to tell by me doing that action that i like tgirls! I just wish i were as brave as some of the people here when it comes to these type of things.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by Demonic shemale licker

Hey, c'mon my peeps, lets get back more on topic, i'm hoping this will get us
to a more positive light, i was just thinking yesterday that perhaps one other reason why i haven't pursued my dream is because i would just be 2 shy to do it, for example a couple days ago i saw a cute looking tgirl pass me by, but when our eyes met i immediately turned my face and blushed. The scary part for me is that i think she was able to tell by me doing that action that i like tgirls! I just wish i were as brave as some of the people here when it comes to these type of things.

Here's what to do.

See the girl, take a deep breath and go for it. That shyness thing won't fly with girls. It's only 'cute' and 'charming' on those cheesy 1980's movies where the geek tries to get the girl/boy.

Imagine you are at the home plate, it's near the end of the 9th inning, bases at loaded and it's your turn at bat. Just focus on making that winning hit, don't worry about the other folks ready to catch that ball you hit, just hit the damned thing and go from there.

[Demonic shemale licker]

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

[Trogdor]

Originally Posted by Demonic shemale licker

If only it were that easy, my post from a day ago highlights some of the problems i might have if i go this route.

Well, pretend that everyone's in their underwear, including yourself.
Because, famous person once said, "You need to go out on a limb, otherwise you'll never know. How else can you can get the fruit?"

[transmatic]

i actually have gf but she is thousands miles away from me. she lives in thailand. and i missing her and didn't seen her for ages. she is from laos, very shy and not really keen on computers. so it's big deal for her to use skype. so i would rather say i'm almost alone here

if somebody lives in phuket on permanent basis, i would really aprecciate you help me to manage netbook for her and teach her computer and english basics. i can send her money to cover expences.

if not - i'm just happy to share with you my emotions
she is cutiest babe in the world!

[Thor1989]

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...

[smc]

Originally Posted by Thor1989

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...

This is a ridiculous statement. Your country undoubtedly has roughly the same percentage of transsexuals in its population as anywhere else in the world. It might have been correct to write that the only transsexuals of which you are aware are escorts; anything else is unscientific and patently false.

[transmatic]

Originally Posted by Thor1989

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...
The only transsexuals that exist are escorts...

what country are you from? most posh clubs in the capitals of different countries are filled up to capacity with smiling chicks. from 5 to 20 percent of them are tg. almost all of them are in between of getting money for sex and quitting this business for building constant relations and family. what's special about your world?

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Thor1989

The problem is the lack of transsexuals in my country...(

Move to Transylvania

[Midori81]

So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

[murdoc]

Originally Posted by Midori81

So, do you all like actual transwomen? I mean not just someone who looks completely like a stunning female.
Is there an attraction to those of us who still have some masculine traits that can't be erased? Can someone be attractive or beautiful as a true transgendered person existing on the cusp of two genders?

I really don't know and like many of have not been able to gauge a response in my daily life.

A most emphatic yes on all counts

[DEFENDER]

I am sure that it has already been said MANY times on this forum,....but please, please never forget that a transsexual is an individual human being,....just like everyone on this planet....with her own fears, loves , feelings, hopes and desires.
In fact, given the challenges that she has had to face by following her true heart?s desire (which is a LOT more than can be said about most of us...and I include myself very strongly here).......I would say that she deserves more respect and admiration in society....even if her choice of gender change and sexuality causes misunderstanding in some circles.
I am the luckiest guy on this planet to have won the heart of a beautiful transsexual and love her without reserve or limit. With her, I have found more happiness and fulfilment than I ever could have thought possible and she makes me want to be a better man....in every way!
What I am about to say now may sound rather difficult to believe but most of the time we are together, I do not think of her ?gender?,......it is HER that I love, respect and desire,......I see a lovely, caring, sensitive and funny girl,....someone who I always want to be with.
We have been together for over two years and every day I find something new about her to love.
I know that I am not alone in that many guys who contribute to this forum also have been fortunate enough to meet and fall in love with THE girl who makes life worth living,.....so I feel sure that they would agree with me when I say,.....when you are blessed to meet a transexual girl who makes your heart beat faster and puts your head in a spin, treat her like the lady she is, gently court her, treat her with respect , take her to special places and be PROUD to be with her.

[whazizname]

Originally Posted by aw9725

I can only speak for myself but the answers are ?Yes,? ?Yes,? and ?Yes.?

Add my yeses to the count.

[johnny_love]

I would like me and my half to be one, like a ying/yang...I entrust that love has no boundaries, no matter what the people say, because I am not in love with people, but with "the one"...I would love her for who she is, not for what people think she is...doesn't matter she is transgender or not, because just the way we are on the inside matters...that's my point of view, so be happy and be loved!

[LibertyHarkness]

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

[ila]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

Oh sorry, Liberty. I can't be your bf because I'm already taken and I'm very much in love with my gf.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

I like men and I like women.
Consequently, I've two partners
and two bunches of roses for valentines day.

I hope you find someone (or someone x2) soon.

[CuriousMattUK]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

That's a very good question and one I cannot personally answer. It certainly surprises me! Maybe there's just someone "waiting in the wings" to sweep you off of your feet?

[shadows]

Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

i dont have a GF as a i like boys these days hehe x now my question is why dont i have a BF yet

Perhaps they are concentrating on only one aspect of you rather than who you are as a whole(that being, a stunningly beautiful woman with a sharp wit)?

I will shake my fist with copious amounts of envy for the future-fellow that will be lucky enough to have you as a girlfriend. *shake-a* *shake-a*

[Marcelus]

I can't wait to have such a girlfriend but it's hard to find one like that in my hometown. I have to travel really much in other countries and towns to find some of these. This is my life.

[darkstargemini]

> i guess with most pehoo,s it,s all talk and no action it,s not that hurd to find a shemale don,t tull anyone this is my interest i guess they really don,t exist as i was told years ago it,s all fake this is coming from a guy i new years ago that wanted to have sex with another guy

[brainsexual]

I'm attracted to the female form be it on a man or a woman. I'd happily date a shemale but given that women seem to outnumber them in my city by about 10,000 to one... well, probability rears it's ugly head.

I'm a hard guy to date so I have to meet a lot of people before I find one that things click with.

[caminds]

there are few TS' in my country, and i can't find many sites for casual dating. most are just sleazy ones, but none i can find are for casual chat and maybe more.

[Pikachu1989]

Couple of reasons for me. There are Not to many transexuals that live in The Nebraska-Iowa area in America, fear of family since my dads side of the family is ultra conservative, and the fact that I'm scared to talk to a Girl since I have a speech Impedement. Mainly the last one for me.

[Tiffany Starr]

Sorta...I mean she's my ex ATM but I am trying to get her back, besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one. Perhaps Kitty Kaiti may be interested? ;-)

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Starr

besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one.

Ha ha ha ha!
Good luck. I once met a mentally stable transsexual woman,...once.

Men reading this thread:
Quickest way to get lots of transsexual women on your speeddial,
is to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers...

[Tiffany Starr]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

Ha ha ha ha!
Good luck. I once met a mentally stable transsexual woman,...once.

Men reading this thread:
Quickest way to get lots of transsexual women on your speeddial,
is to transition.
Then you too can spend time dodging speculative mails from hopeful strangers...

I know where to find them, i've met quite a few, most of the stable one's i've met have been lesbians. I don't think this is a coincidence.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Tiffany Starr

Sorta...I mean she's my ex ATM but I am trying to get her back, besides it's not like its hard for me to find a transsexual g/f, it's just hard for me to find a mentally stable one. Perhaps Kitty Kaiti may be interested? ;-)

Now, Tiffany, remember what we talked about ...