Why don't you already have a transsexual girlfriend?

[ila]

Originally Posted by 9yneGuy

Because seeking a tgirl out soley because she's transgendered doesn't sit right with me. That kind of seems just as bad as seeking them out soley for sex. I want to fall in love with a person, not who the person is. If I like someone enough, it won't matter if they're a genetic or a tgirl.

I didn't seek out my girl because she is trans. We met (right here on this site) and I was attracted to her for who she is. And now I'm in love with her and I couldn't be happier.

[Garygeegary]

I dont know any tg girls from the north east of england and plus i like them for who they are and not what gender

It would have been nice to meet someone from this site as ila did but my fortunes would take me in another direction. I recently became engaged to a beautiful cis woman I met last summer. We will be getting married March 5th. She knows of my trans friends and supports my activities in LGBT rights, Stopping the Hate, my university?s Advocacy group, and other things. She even knows who Kelly Shore is! I suspect you will see me around here for a while.

[Tsweet]

Originally Posted by aw9725

It would have been nice to meet someone from this site as ila did but my fortunes would take me in another direction. I recently became engaged to a beautiful cis woman I met last summer. We will be getting married March 5th. She knows of my trans friends and supports my activities in LGBT rights, Stopping the Hate, my university?s Advocacy group, and other things. She even knows who Kelly Shore is! I suspect you will see me around here for a while.

CONGRATULATIONS aw9725 ! Best Wishes!

As with any relationship I think it's mainly who you are fortunate enough to meet in life and then be compatible with ... be it transsexual or genetic. I've had both ... and they boiled down to two people who cared for/loved one another, and wanted to share life's joys and tribulations together.

Depending on where you live it is probably much more difficult to find a transsexual girlfriend just based on a smaller percentage of the population. But with the Internet even that's not impossible for anyone anywhere these days. Compatibility ... well that's another story as to whether you hit it off with that person... personality wise and of course sexuality wise too. Good luck finding that beautiful, wonderful mate!!!

Originally Posted by Tsweet

CONGRATULATIONS aw9725 ! Best Wishes!

As with any relationship I think it's mainly who you are fortunate enough to meet in life and then be compatible with ... be it transsexual or genetic. I've had both ... and they boiled down to two people who cared for/loved one another, and wanted to share life's joys and tribulations together.

Thanks TSweet. She's very special--glad I met her! The rest of the posts in this thread are very discouraging...

[jolo]

Ila,

I really like your post.
It is the friendship, respect, commitment and you both have to each other that make a relationship/partnership last. That is what brings love.

Normally at the beginning, people mix up being "In Lust", for being "In Love".

Jon

Originally Posted by ila

I didn't seek out my girl because she is trans. We met (right here on this site) and I was attracted to her for who she is. And now I'm in love with her and I couldn't be happier.

[O'Sully TS Hopeful]

Originally Posted by ila

I didn't seek out my girl because she is trans. We met (right here on this site) and I was attracted to her for who she is. And now I'm in love with her and I couldn't be happier.

And I'm so privileged to be that girl your talking about. I couldn't agree more with you, honey, we love each other for who we are. Love you

[ila]

Originally Posted by O'Sully TS Hopeful

And I'm so privileged to be that girl your talking about. I couldn't agree more with you, honey, we love each other for who we are. Love you

And I love you too, sweetheart.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by ila

I didn't seek out my girl because she is trans. We met (right here on this site) and I was attracted to her for who she is. And now I'm in love with her and I couldn't be happier.

That's exactly how I met my man.
And what you say above could have come right out of his mouth.
Having a man who wants us for who we are rather than 'that thing about us'
counts for everything.

[9yneGuy]

Originally Posted by ila

I didn't seek out my girl because she is trans. We met (right here on this site) and I was attracted to her for who she is. And now I'm in love with her and I couldn't be happier.

And that's the way I think it should be. Congrats.