anyone got an idea?

[Mel Asher]

C'mon, Buddy. Chatting is one thing, needs are another, but moving in with someone - sounds like commitment. You're dealing with a nicely-entertaining long-distance tingle in which someone's feet get cooler and cooler the closer you get to reality.

Without wanting to sound too cynical, chum, it seems as if she didn't give herself enough time to ' tidy up ' before you arrived - that is if she really expected you to take her up on her invitation in the first place !

I would switch to a different ' shopping mall ' if I were you.

[Cadian122]

she wanted me to move in. I said I'd have a holiday first, then I went up on a holiday and she didn't want to see me. I sent the e-mail last sunday, and on thursday, she contacted me on msn, and we've had the occasional chat since then, it's kinda wierd atm though