what is anal sex like?

[Charlieboy]

Well it can be either really painfull or pleasant. It comes down to how relaxed you are. My advice would be to start fingering yourself with lots if lube. 1 finger untill you get used to it, then move to two and three. Then use a butt plug, then a small dildo. Do this over a week or two untill you feel relaxed enough to have penetration. Always lots of lube. As for being messy.. If you know you are going to have anal, empty your bowels early on in the day... The drug store can give u enema or laxative. You will get wind up there, don't worry it's normal.. If you are prepared than you will have a great time.. Relax is the key and go slow... I love it