Ever tried to cross to the other side?

[Niche]

Hi everyone, I am new here

This sort of follows on from the "would you ever suk a man off if you pretended he was a tranny" post: Has anyone tried to educate themselves to be attracted to guys? I mean, we all are attracted to a bit of male sexuality, we all know what bit that is! , but the trans community is still has a taboo surrounding it in our societies compared to the gay, lesbian and bi sexual communities, who have done brilliantly to turn back alot of the stigma. Like Its far more acceptable to come out as gay than as being into ladyboys. And lets face it, guys are a lot more common that tgirls! I always thought it would be a lot easier if I was just out and out attracted to guys. Thought I could do it, but got chatted up by some guy in a bar recently, he was a good looking guy, nothing wrong with him But I just wasn't up for it! My friend who knows of my trans attractions thinks I am deluding myself, that I need to get some cock from somewhere... Has anyone else tried to be bi, or gay in an effort to be more "normal"?

[justin84]

I was first attracted to shemales when i was about 13. never considered myself gay at all, but thirsting over cock on t-girls soon evolved into feminine guys, it was then that i realised im bisexual. i love girls, feminine guys and shemales are my favourite.
I have since had a couple of experiences with men but they were not at all my type but i did it anyway purely because there are more men up for that type of sex than shemales or crossdressers. Still waiting for my first experience with a T-Girl. its so difficult to get the opportunity

That reminds me of a joke...

[bondageboy02]

Well you could try some of the hypnotrainer type files, lots of them are geared in that general direction. Lots of sissy/cocksucker/gay/trans/slave themes to choose from...

[Hourglass]

Interesting notion.

I am not attracted to other men, really. I can appreciate a guy being good-looking or whatever (admittedly that may stem from my being jealous of them) but I've no wish to date or be intimate with another male. I have no problems at all with people who do (one of my old friends from high school was gay, in fact). It's all about who you are attracted to.

I think you made a stellar point about society being more accepting of a person who is gay than of a person who is transgendered. Granted, there are still a lot of shallow, unaccepting people out there in the world. But I think on across a broader level, being a guy who's with another guy will bring you far less ridicule than being a guy who's with a shemale.

Why is this? I don't know...the reasons for human beings' unwillingness to accept or understand anyone who isn't "one of us" is a staple of the species; It has been that way for centuries and will continue to be. I don't think we'll ever truly understand why people judge others the way they do.

The one thing I do know is this: You have to be content with who you are and who you are attracted to, society be damned.
If you're attracted to a shemale because of their...equipment...then that's just who you are. Notice that I said who and not what; I frown upon human beings being so focused on labeling themselves (but that's another topic). You shouldn't take the mindset that you have to change what (or who) you want because of what's easier. I'm willing to bet there are a number of our beloved T-girls out there who could tell you the same thing.

You should not feel like you have to resort to one path or the another - straight, bi, gay, whathaveyou - for the sake of it being easier to deal with. If you're attracted to the male member and think you'd like the person it's attached to, go for it. Guy? Shemale? Doesn't matter. Liking a penis doesn't "make" you anything, and what other people might say or think is irrelevant.

Oh, and...to answer your question, no.

[ila]

Originally Posted by Niche

....... Has anyone else tried to be bi, or gay in an effort to be more "nomal"?

No, I haven't, but then I feel that my desire for transwomen is normal. I don't feel that I'm different because I want to be with a transwoman.

[WudLuv2try]

Originally Posted by Niche

Hi everyone, I am new here

This sort of follows on from the "would you ever suk a man off if you pretended he was a tranny" post: Has anyone tried to educate themselves to be attracted to guys? I mean, we all are attracted to a bit of male sexuality, we all know what bit that is! , but the trans community is still has a taboo surrounding it in our societies compared to the gay, lesbian and bi sexual communities, who have done brilliantly to turn back alot of the stigma. Like Its far more acceptable to come out as gay than as being into ladyboys. And lets face it, guys are a lot more common that tgirls! I always thought it would be a lot easier if I was just out and out attracted to guys. Thought I could do it, but got chatted up by some guy in a bar recently, he was a good looking guy, nothing wrong with him But I just wasn't up for it! My friend who knows of my trans attractions thinks I am deluding myself, that I need to get some cock from somewhere... Has anyone else tried to be bi, or gay in an effort to be more "normal"?

Yes, I have.

[WudLuv2try]

I tried to be gay, and found out a lot about myself.

I tried to be bisexual, and again, found out a lot about myself.

And I tried to be transexual, and still yet, I found out a lot about myself.

So what does all that mean? I don't know exactly.

But I think it means,

"There are much to be found about one's self."

Originally Posted by Niche

My friend who knows of my trans attractions thinks I am deluding myself, that I need to get some cock from somewhere... Has anyone else tried to be bi, or gay in an effort to be more "normal"?

No. I am fine with who I am. I disagree that it is simply a "need to get some cock." At least for me. Is your friend a psychologist? I'm sure there are men who are attracted to transwomen for only that reason--for some of us it is the female person that we are attracted to. So I happen to find both cis and trans women attractive.

To me that's as normal as being bi, gay, or straight.

(Yes, I know the OP hasn't been here in two years--but the question keeps coming back...)

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

I met a chicken coming the other way...

[Jayshawn!]

i never really tried but ive thought about it and i dont think its for me but i guess you dont know unless you try
dont really think i wanna try though

[franalexes]

From the other side, I can go for GGs, TG's and even CDs. Few straight guys light me up. Many want to feel me up but that's another story.

[merelypink]

i love every body gay straight ts !!!!!!!!!!

[no1000]

Thought about it but I am not gay. I'm only attracted to all things feminine.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by franalexes

From the other side, I can go for GGs, TG's and even CDs. Few straight guys light me up. Many want to feel me up but that's another story.

To be one of those lucky few... *sigh*

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by shadows

To be one of those lucky few... *sigh*

Canada is not the place to start fires.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Canada is not the place to start fires.

The polar bears tend to get angry...

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

The polar bears tend to get angry...

There was a hidden message in my post. Sounds like there was one in your post as well.
PM me, tell me more.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by franalexes

There was a hidden message in my post. Sounds like there was one in your post as well.
PM me, tell me more.

Mine was more of an advisement. Pyromaniacs and polar bears have a very volatile relationship. I don't think ila would take to a torching very well. Just sayin...

[shadows]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Canada is not the place to start fires.

That may be true. Fires tend to get blazing hot up here.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Mine was more of an advisement. Pyromaniacs and polar bears have a very volatile relationship. I don't think ila would take to a torching very well. Just sayin...

A torching is a bad thing. Starting a blaze however,,,,,

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by shadows

That may be true. Fires tend to get blazing hot up here.

I've been known to get things hot before. You could start by rubbing two sticks together. For a real blaze a log would be good. Do you have a good log?

[Mel Asher]

Quote:
Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman
Mine was more of an advisement. Pyromaniacs and polar bears have a very volatile relationship. I don't think ila would take to a torching very well. Just sayin...

A torching is a bad thing. Starting a blaze however,,,,,

Eh ? Who's a Pyromaniac ?

The God quote most appropriate. Dependency is always a danger. But then danger in relationships is what it's all about to some.

As for Polar Bears, the female polar bear is the most adaptable and resourceful mammal in the far North in my humble opinion. A very loving and fierce survivor.

But sadly, Polar Bears are becoming threatened by the melting ice-cap and shrinkage of their environment.back to

But, back to the subject of this thread - or is it a tinder fuse -
I must say that I've only been caught by unexpected sexual desire a couple of times in my life by fellers, and on both occasions nothing was possible due to other circumstances. So I don't think that role-playing and pretending that a bloke was a Transgender would do anything for me ! I feel happier with genuine feelings. Anyway, I don't think I need to pretend that I am with a Transgender in order to persuade myself into a sexual contact with a man, as I don't believe I would be interested in becoming actively involved with a Gay man in the first place. I already know that I find Transgenders intriguing and fascinating, some visually exciting, some not. Trouble is, they're a bit thin on the ground where I come from, and then I'd have to feel special about them.

As for generating heat and a fiery spark, I'd back Piezo pressure every time - positively electrifying ! !

Keep on smouldering folks - this thread could flare up nicely !

[WudLuv2try]

I wish I was the TS that every guy wants to fuck.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by franalexes

I've been known to get things hot before. You could start by rubbing two sticks together. For a real blaze a log would be good. Do you have a good log?

My log is made of good-quality hardwood.

[ila]

Originally Posted by shadows

My log is made of good-quality hardwood.

Does it have splinters or did you sand them out?

[smc]

Originally Posted by shadows

My log is made of good-quality hardwood.

Originally Posted by ila

Does it have splinters or did you sand them out?

I hear shadows likes to give his wood a good shellac-ing on occasion.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by smc

I hear shadows likes to give his wood a good shellac-ing on occasion.

That's a slippery slope.

[ila]

Originally Posted by smc

I hear shadows likes to give his wood a good shellac-ing on occasion.

Shellac should always be rubbed on as that gives it a smoother finish than by brushing.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by WudLuv2try

I wish I was the TS that every guy wants to fuck.

I've had some moments but don't think I'm in that catergory. Well, every guy has a dream I suppose.

Fran

[outofmymind]

No, I haven't. I'm not gay nor I have tried to be. Not that there's anything wrong with being gay. It's just not for me.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by ila

Shellac should always be rubbed on as that gives it a smoother finish than by brushing.

Not to put a damper on here but shellac is made from beetle shit.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by ila

Does it have splinters or did you sand them out?

Nope, but a good polishing could help.

[smc]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Not to put a damper on here but shellac is made from beetle shit.

That's why shadows is so keen to use it. He's a big Beatles fan.

[Cyborg]

Doesn?t trying to be something mean you?re deluding yourself? You?re either attracted to men or not. I?ve never been to attracted guys and at the age of 25 I?m sure my sexuality is pretty clear to myself. Even a small notion of being intimate with a guy disgusts me. Being attracted to women with dicks isn?t straight at all, I know, but they?re not guys. Old boring story.
So, you?re saying you?re not gay but you wish you were? There?s nothing wrong about being gay (we?d still be hypocrites by bashing them) but you?re just gay or not.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by Cyborg

Doesn?t trying to be something mean you?re deluding yourself? You?re either attracted to men or not. I?ve never been to attracted guys and at the age of 25 I?m sure my sexuality is pretty clear to myself. Even a small notion of being intimate with a guy disgusts me. Being attracted to women with dicks isn?t straight at all, I know, but they?re not guys. Old boring story.
So, you?re saying you?re not gay but you wish you were? There?s nothing wrong about being gay (we?d still be hypocrites by bashing them) but you?re just gay or not.

I got a better one. Is someones sexuality that much of a pressing matter?

[Mel Asher]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

I got a better one. Is someones sexuality that much of a pressing matter?

It is, if they're pressing up against me ! Unfortunately I have never been given that choice. But is it true that Postmen get so many opportunities to score during their rounds - or is that a myth ? ( said lispingly )

Oh for the Red-letter day that isn't a Bank Statement !

[cumshooter69]

I've had several gay sexual encounters with men, it was great

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

Originally Posted by The Conquistador

Not to put a damper on here but shellac is made from beetle shit.

Actually, it's not beetle shit, but resin they secrete to form cocoon-like tunnels on the surface of tree branches.

[badtube]

So I was invited to this party.
I went but didn't really know anyone there, the friend who invited me pretty quickly disappeared into the crowd.
I was feeling lost and was mainly interested in gettin drunk quickly.
Oh there was this guy i noticed, he was quite tall and asian in appearance with quite feminine features. Damn I thought, this guy would make an incredible ladyboy.
He was hanging out with a group of girls, and i was quite sure that he was gay. Funnily enough I kept sneaking glances at him, totally ignoring the girls at the party.
I went outside into the garden to have a cigarette, it was cold, people just came outside to have a smoke and quickly went back inside.
Going a bit further to the back of the garden, enjoying my cig, suddenly there was
" Hi, You got a light?"
Turning around, it was that asian guy.
"Sure, here"
We started talking a bit, his name was Yoshi. He was talking like an American with this slight hint of asian accent, or maybe it was just my imagination.
He eventually told me that he was gay, and hoped i din't mind (the crowd was pretty strictly straight at this party).
I told him that this didn't bother me at all.
"Are You gay?" He asked me all of a sudden.
....Damn what to say?
Eloquent as I am i managed something like:
"....uhm....no....uhm...not really"
"not really? what do you mean by that?" he asked me.
I had to admit that i did enjoy looking at transexual porn on the internet.
He gave me this really wicked little grin and said:
"so you like ladyboys?, what would you think if I had come in here dressed as a girl?"
I was glad it was dark, as i must have been blushing so badly. My ears felt hot despite the cold.
Well the alcohol was doing a good job on me but I tried to put it jokingly:
" I probably would have tried to hit on You"
He laughed out loud, and I was glad that he was taking it in good humour.
But he was insistend:
"Seriously if i dressed like a girl, would You like me?
My heart was hitting my throat now, as I really wasn't sure. I mumbled that i would try anything after enough drinks.
He told me he could change clothes and come back.
Holy crap.
And now people had started to notice us talking and giving us quite a few catwhistles.
I asked him if we could meet in a more private place.
As it turned out, he didn't live too far away and he asked me to give him some time to get changed.
Apparently he lived with a female room mate who was out of town during uni break, and he could "borrow" some clothes and make-up from her.

We exchanged phone numbers and agreed to meet at his place in a while....

to be continued if youwant to hear the rest of this story

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by badtube

to be continued if you want to hear the rest of this story

Thanks for sharing... Can't wait to read what happened next... PLEASE!!!

[jigenbakuda]

Originally Posted by Niche

This sort of follows on from the "would you ever suk a man off if you pretended he was a tranny" post: Has anyone tried to educate themselves to be attracted to guys? I mean, we all are attracted to a bit of male sexuality, we all know what bit that is!

After thinking about this for quite sometime, I've come to the conclusion (for me) that the penis and vagina are not masculine or feminine... so liking dick does not equal liking masculinity. To me transgendered ladies are just another type of ladies, I like hairy girls, I like girls with big tits, I like girls with wide hips, I like girls with very large labia, I like girls with dicks... its really quite simple to me.


So in my opinion, there is no road for me to cross, if he looks close enough to a girl, I would suck a man off.

P.S.I do not think of transgendered ladies as men.

[badtube]

Long story short:
I asked Yoshi to dress like a woman and fuck me. He said he preferred to be bottom, but agreed to top me, since it was my first time.
He suggested that I should straddle him, so I could control the penetration better that way in case it hurt. I thought that made sense and we went to the bedroom and got naked.
I asked him if I could kiss and taste his cock, since i never had done that before as well. He said he would like that very much. I did first kiss it and than tasted it with my tongue, eventually taking the whole thing into my mouth and just frenchkissing it as i did his tongue before. His groan let me know that he enjoyed it. After a little while of that he told me to stop if I didn't want me to come yet.
He put on a condom and we used a bottle of shower gel for lubricant
I placed my knees on either side of him took a hold of his beautyful cock and guided him into me.
It felt so good, it hurt some, but in a good way.
Just when he was all the way into me there was an "accident" .
He slipped out and it felt so wrong.
Shit, I felt nauseous and thought I had to go to the toilet.
I quickly excused myself and ran to the toilet. Sat on the bowl but nothing would come.
After a short while he came to the door and told me that this was not unusual for the first time, and that he felt sorry.
I assured him it was not his fault, but i was still feeling sick and totally de-sexed.
After a while I was certain that i din't need a bowel movement and got up. Yoshi handed me a bath robe. I asked for another drink, since the alcohol had stopped working on me.
He handed me a beer and a shot of scotch, which I downed very quickly. We went out on the balcony of his flat and enjoyed the view of the city lights and the snakes of cars worming their way through it's belly.
I did feel much better after a few minutes and asked him to go back to bed.
This time I told him I just wanted to be on my back and he should fuck me in missionary position. Another condom and lots more of shower gel. He was very gentle when he pushed into me. Damn I got so hard, harder than ever before, or so it felt.
I loved when he pushed into me, felt loss when he pulled back, grabbing his ass to pull him further into me, frantically kissing each other. He became more urgent with thrust after thrust, feeling his hot breath on my face was driving me crazy.
After a while however I started to hurt more and more, until it became uncomfortable. I asked him if he could come soon, but he said we should maybe just finish off using our hands.
He pulled out of me very gently, but it still felt terrible when he did that, and we just got each other off with our hands while kissing.
He asked me how it was for me.
I told him it was the best sex I had ever had, and that was no lie.

Unfortunately Yoshi was just gay, He admitted that he had fun dressing up as a woman to seduce me, but had no interest in being a girl full time.
He has since moved back to the states and met a new partner he wants to marry.

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by badtube

I told him it was the best sex I had ever had, and that was no lie.

I enjoyed reading through this, badtube... A nice contrast when compared to other "first time stories" that may seem somewhat fairy-taleish... I believe all horny guys who think their first time will be a piece of cake or that "it's gonna work out like in the videos" should read your story!!

As for me, well i did cross to the other side 9 years ago (at the not-so-tender age of 46) and haven't really felt like coming back...
That said, whenever an unknown woman returns a smile (2 or 3 times a year) i tell myself ?maybe i shouldn't keep my door closed to them after all?

[badtube]

Thanks for the comment Mabedzaqueen,
sorry to hear your experience wasnt as good as mine.
I think we should just keep an open mind.

[siennagrace69]

I've been attracted to both sides nearly all my life, I just don't see the issue---Tgirl or man ?? I'm looking for the cock to satisfy my mouth and my ass !

[gretchen]

I am new here so please bear with me until I get more comfortable.

I love and respect Ladyboys , Transgenders pre-op. Crossdressers but not men. I do so love sucking cock and feeling the warm cum in my mouth. I love to be fucked with anysize cock as long as it's from one of the above beautiful people.

Love
Gretchen