Does liking shemales make you gay?

[Ogryn1313]

Originally Posted by Show Me Love

...better say cock-sucker?

U guys are killing me!
yall say ur stright most of u never seen any tgirl in person, but after reading forum for a day i feel like u going to suck anything w/ dick. i bet u would cum even on my pics if i get done some makeup couse i'm lookin better then good part of 'shemales' u'r hot about here.

how that could happen really?
i mean i like tgirls too even more i maybe will be the one too, but i'm very picky-choosy and sucking cock looks absolutely gay to me if u'r not a girl, tgirl or look like one. its kinda disgusting when i see such moments in porn - man giving a head. i would like to blow some cute tgirl though. thanks u can see youself when u do it(if there is no big mirrors there)

anyway how is stright guy could become shecock lover/sucker? especially destinationally?

Well, here is my explanation. But before I get into it please keep in mind I speak for myself only and cannot answer for other men. But perhaps my reasons might be the same as other men. Also keep in mind, I've never met a tgirl and have never been with one or even got to speak.

As a child I never went through that period many little boys have. I call it the "Icky Girls" phase. You know, where little boys act as if they hate women.

Nope. Not this ol' boy. I loved the women they moment I was born. But, as a child I didn't have a developed sense of sexuality. I didn't know society's notions of right and wrong when it came to things like sexuality, crushes, attraction etc. I was just a stupid kid who loved girls.

But I also liked boys it would seem. I recall, in the third grade having a crush on on male student in my school. And I even so far as to draw a silly little love picture of him. It was anonymously made and surreptiously left on his desk. And the teacher made such a big deal out of it and demanded who did it. Needless to say I kept my mouth shut and this was when I was first aware of sexual taboos.

But I didn't think much of it being a kid and all.

And so the years pass. I get older. And, like all kids, slowly encounter sexuality and society's views of it. And I repressed everything. Openly, I always liked girl. And I truly do love them. But I liked the boys too. Not as much as I did girls.

Here there during puberty I experimented with my sexuality, even dressing as a girl. But that might have been more kink than actual gender issues or such. I masturbate alot. Introduced to porn as a child. and as I grew older it became harder to ignore the feelings in me. In the past when seeing nude males and such I'd pretend it sickened me. But it got to the point they aroused as much as women sometimes.

This led to me experimenting in college many years ago. I decided at most I am bi. I couldn't be gay now could? A gay man wouldn't love girls. And so I love them. A pity they won't return the sentiment...bitches....

But anyway, my only experience beyond only being with women was a threesome with a married couple. He went down on me. Then we did his wife. At the time I wanted this. Afterwards I hated myself for it. Long afterwards I came to accept it.

Tgirls..I didn't know much about them until around this period. I never saw them except the stereotypes you get in movies. My only exposure to them was through the way society would depict them. I knew a girl who was a hermaphrodite but it wasn't quite the same issue. So, to me, tgirls..or trannies, shemales, whatever people call them, were mysterious and as a man I am supposed to find them disgusting.

But I couldn't do that really. Quite the opposite. I found them appealing and interesting. I still don't quite understand my feelings for them. And it would seem rather foolish for a man who has never met one or spoke to one to even think about them. It's like wanting to go to the moon. Yet I do. Over the years my thoughts on them became more refined. Initially I saw them as guys wanting to be girls. Eventually I saw them as women. This was helped by my training as a counselor and through researching and education about gender identity and the like.

And so, I suppose I like them because they are women. And I like women. But as I said I like boys too. But my feelings for boys are only sexual based. Always, through it all, I could only ever be emotionally connected to a woman, including those ones who have a little something else down below. I don't know if it means I'm straight, gay, bi or what. I don't care. I think it is safe to assume anyone who is a male and is attracted to tgirls is someone with complicated and perhaps even painful feelings inside. And for many of us it could well be just a kinky sexual thing. For others it could be an evolution of sexual and emotional attraction. Either way, it's all a moot point for me. As I've not met one. And I have only the one experience with a man. I bring that back up only because the man has a dick like a pre-op. The two are not the same in my mind. But would I feel the same if I did meet one and have some experience or relationship? Would I turn against the idea or finally be at peace? Beats me. If it ever happens I'll let ya know eh?

[trannycrazy]

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

[maximilian]

No. I like what I like.

[jiiyze]

Yea. Sometimes. Im 24, really starting to come to terms with it, have to really. Was kind of a problem before. I make myself paranoid about it sometimes. Like "what if they knew" sort of thing when I interact with people. Really does my head in sometimes, like I get all nervous and stuff. Doesn't add to my confidence put it that way..

[trekkie]

I never feel guilty liking a hot girl with a nice cock.

[الدكتور العراقي]

no i don't feel guilty .... i can't find a reason

[eireannach]

No. I have never had the opportunity to be with one yet though. I live in a place where there are only a couple and they have lines of suitors lined up so ya. Someday though.

[sephpeaches46]

Originally Posted by SweetCharmer

same here i don't see why we would have to feel guilty at all its a passion and they're normal right?

When i had my first session with A ts i felt guiklty later. After a while that stopped. Now i'm fully into beautiful shemales and love them.
I'm in my 50's and have had a lot of sex over the years . I must say shemales are the best,sexy,sluttty horny.
I've even started swallowing cum for my bets partners..they lOVE it!

[hector.hector]

Some times I do feel little ashamed from it, but i can't help it, I love it

[CuriousGirl]

I've come to an "understanding" with myself about my interest in T-girls, much the same as I did about my first heterosexual encounter; The guy was attractive, a gentleman, and was fun to be with in or out of bed. "OK", I said to myself, "This went better than I had been told to expect." Of course, multiple orgasms during one's first time MIGHT have contributed to the "OK!" There was some guilt after we parted that night but my Irish Catholic grannie had planted that seed from my childhood. Take THAT, Grannie!
The venture into sex with another female was more difficult to reconcile (Grannie again!) but as with my first guy the experience with the girl was romantic, sensual, and orgasmic to boot. I remember thinking to myself "Well, this may take a little more time to get used to." but that first time had been nice in every way so it was easier than I thought to admit to myself that I am bisexual. Now I have a lusty relationship with a wonderful guy as well as one with the girl referenced in this post. I guess at that point I was "Bisexually Monogamous",
Then....Ruh Roh! I was introduced to T-girls via the internet, guided into it by the same girl with whom I first sampled Sapphic love. She, by the way, is still my best friend and lover.
I'd known that T-girls existed and had even been introduced to one in a bar but that was a world that was poles apart from mine. Then, after seeing some truly intriguing images and vids on the 'net I had to admit that I was more than just amused or mildly curious. I was absolutely fascinated! Seeing my first castrated T-girl really made me moist and giddy.
I remember thinking "Grannie will kill me if she ever finds out." Of course, If she'd found out about my first guy OR my lesbian fun, I'd have been dead long before now.
Now that I've become involved with a true T-girl, an Asian who has been castrated as well, I feel I've reached my limit, both morally and in my "comfort zone". In a way, I feel complete.
Guilt? Yes, at every boundary crossed. Resolution? So far, in that I realize that I am what I am.
NOTE: My parents know of my heterosexual love life and my father knows, I suspect, that my GF and I do more than shop, hunt and fish, and have pillow fights but he treats her like a daughter. She adores him as well and would seduce him if she thought she could.
If, however, either parent learned of my Asian "Ladyboy" and the things we do, not to mention my little kink for castration, they'd probably kidnap me and sequester me in a convent located in the Alps.
"Sister Curious"...has a nice ring to it.

Hey! I just realized that I am Trisexually Monogamous!

I did feel guilt until i dated one for a year. She was a woman in every way bar the obvious, and because she was just like any of my previous girlfriends the guilt went away.
I think you need to see shemales as real women who were born in the wrong body, which is mostly the case, and dont dwell on the fact they were born men. You will be fine then.
I sense you have never dated a shemale before, you need to

[DavidQ]

Originally Posted by CuriousGirl

<snip>

Hey! I just realized that I am Trisexually Monogamous!

CuriousGirl, I like your style :D

Your phrase "with every boundary crossed" is a good one. That's how I felt it - not guilt but some sense of breaking a taboo in my "regular" world. It fades quickly, though. It is a boundary thing - I'm comfortable now liking what I like. Which isn't to say I'm comfortable broadcasting things which would likely cause me difficulty in my "regular" world...

[Tsluver23]

I am exactly like u except I'm 25 now. My suggestion is go wit the flow. I'm headed to a tranny party on fri

[The_Void]

No. I learnt not to feel guilty for being who I am a long time ago.

[ButtPlug]

i understand i too feel guilty once in a while
i wont lie trannys are some of the coolest down to earth laid back people i ever met so i forget about the guilt its not like u have to fuck them u can just be frineds until u feel comfortable enough

[novicetgirllover]

I'm not in the slightest bit ashamed- in fact I can't fathom the guys who 'settle' with genetic girls when deep down they really love tgirls. I was speaking to one older guy in the Wayout club who was lamenting that he'd wasted his life trying to be 'heterosexual'. Its easier for me I suppose as i'm openly bi and everyone knows including my folks- they're ok with it too. Well they can like it or lump it! Actualy i've dropped the bi tag as I exclusively date tgirls, i'm not wasting my life with a woman who I wont be satisfied with.

All I need to do know is find the right woman.

[modman1996]

I do feel guilty sometimes. I can't stand the thought of having sex with a man but because it is a lady boy it makes it alright. twisted logic I suppose.

[Valkyrja]

Well, my opinion is, that there is no point in shame, blame or such stuff. I have simple rule. If you like something, do it. :-).

[Gor Gar]

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

[Renegade91]

I go through stages where I'll try to block them out.
Lasts for a couple weeks but I always go back, I don't know if I'll ever be able to be completely comfortable with my lust for transexuals.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Gor Gar

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

An excellent post.
I haven't thought much about why a person wants to become a tranny. I was not aware that abuse could be the cause for some cases. Some men just seem to be wired to be women. I have some erotic feelings about femaleness although I have no desire to be a female or wear female panties. I love transsexual fantasies and would like to have a tranny lover, however. I never thought about transsexuals until I discovered them on the internet. Now its almost an obsession.
I really relate to your comment about men making themselves look like women and all of a sudden they are sexually attractive, yes this is bullshit especially for the so called ladyboys in Thailand. They are "cute" boys pure and simple.
Yes the horny male mind does strange things.

[TigerDragon]

Originally Posted by Gor Gar

Yes, I feel guilty some of the time, but not because I chalk it up to some sort of sin or anything along any religious lines. I used to work in an outpatient mental health facility, and we would sometimes get people in there suffering from sexual identity crisis, sometimes showing up crossdressing (and failing pretty miserably at being "convincing") and those particular cases were almost all brought on by sexual abuse at a very young age. Likewise, I have a male cousin who longs to be a lady, swearing and declaring he was born with the wrong plumbing, and yet he too suffered sexual abuse when he was very young.

So the main reason I sometimes feel guilty is because I feel like I just might be "cashing in" on somebody else's trauma. I don't know how or why all of these t-girls are or rather become what they are...the life decisions that have brought them to the point where I'm seeing pics or videos of them...but the nagging thought in the back of my mind is: "*What if* they were molested and/or abused? Am I feeding into their emotional turmoil?" In other words, I sometimes think I'm digging on exploitation of a deeper issue, and deriving pleasure out of somebody else's misfortune is simply not cool.

Another reason I feel guilty is that I sometimes think I'm doing nothing more than bullshitting myself. Every so often a "before" pic will hit the internet of a t-girl, and that kind of reality check is like a slap to the face. The way I see it is: I would never in a million years find a man attractive, but shave his body, grow his hair out, slap on some make-up and boobs, and suddenly I'm like "Oh what a beautiful woman!" Bullshit...I'm drooling over a guy that's had some work done. I'm not saying that is how I truly feel all of the time, just some of the time when I'm in those moments of guilt. Why? Who knows. Like our attractions, we can't always control our thoughts on things either, no matter how invasive they can be at times.

Gar Gor, you are like me and think too much. If you love the person, and 'she' was born with a bit more plumbing? So what! Does it really matter at the end of the day? I was raised a strict Catholic, right is right, wrong is wrong, no black & white...yet there is! I have found that t/g girls are what they beleive, in their minds, hearts and souls. What right have we to have our guilt trip upon them?! It is almost like judging them. Anyway, enough said. Your heart is probably in the right place, just don't think too much!

[udrees]

it is terrible
i wish i would never had experience with lb
but it is like drug, u become addicted to it

[hector.hector]

No never felt guilty...!!!

[sekretter]

I don't feel any guilt when looking at it myself, I enjoy normal porn as well, but shemales really do it for me, I don't care what people think I should or shouldn't like.

However, I don't really tell anyone about it because they'll think I'm gay or a freak, of which I am neither. Just because I like a cock on a girl doesn't mean I like a cock on a guy, by that logic if you love pussy on a girl you must therefore like a pussy on a man (think buck angel). I'm sure most straight men are definitely not into a muscular man with a vagina, that is somebody elses cup of tea. The point is that the logic behind stereotypes make no sense but you still may be ridiculed for it. Although it may be cause for ridicule, it is NOTHING to feel guilty about, there's nothing wrong about liking a chick with a dick... You just don't have to tell anyone about it if you don't want to xD

[avrilfuck]

No, never. Why? I like them, I´m happy with them. Why to be guilty?
Never must feel guilty with what gives you happines. If you feel guilty, there is something wrong with you.

[agedwards63]

Guilty? no I did for a long time think it was a "kink" or merely a passing phase, and that I was really a good old fashioned hetro boy... what I found out is if you go too far down the path there is NO turning back and it never leaves you.

[DocFeelGood]

When I was younger yes I felt guity about it but now that I older and more mature I found out there is nothing to fell guity about it, and finally I came into terms about it. Yes I like T-Girls a lot more than I like G-girls, and there is nothing wrong with it!

[tiggerme]

i dont think i feel guilty as much as confused. i haven't been with a t-women before, but when i see the pics or videos i really want to. they seem to really desire the ones there with, of course there are some who seem in pain because of the very large penis in their backside, but when there being hugged and kissed they look like they enjoy it( their large clits gets large and hard). women on the other hand, you can never tell. they can yell and scream but some times its just false. so why are they faking, what are they doing it for, they're not really enjoying themselves are they? so for me i find t-women more honest with what they want.

[RobbyPants]

Guilty? No, although it's not something I broadcast. The only other person who knows I do is my wife. Even then, I don't really talk to her about it.

[valentinetabitha]

Originally Posted by RobbyPants

Guilty? No, although it's not something I broadcast. The only other person who knows I do is my wife. Even then, I don't really talk to her about it.

I feel guilty, but only because I haven't told my wife. She knows I'm bisexual, but that's the extent of it. Given that she's very conservative, I've decided that this is one of those things she just doesn't need to know about.

Still, I've told friends, but only ones that live out of state.

[tsluvit]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

Initially yes, but I got over it real quick when I discovered there were so many guys like me out there

[spike_40]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

I have read many of the replies most from younger guys, my views as a older male, guilt feelings are generated when you have done wrong, it is not wrong to look, enjoy, or love another no matter what the gender may be.

[british_boy]

I don't have any reaon to feel guilty because I don't think I'm doing anything wrong. I'm wondering where other people's guilt comes from... letting down family? Offending your god? Fortunately, neither of those things apply to me. I would, however, feel guilty and ashamed if if I didn't to do what makes me happy.

[PI_Monger]

I don't feel any guilt now but the first few times I went with a TS in Thailand and the Philippines I felt like everyone on the street was watching me. Actually they probably were. ha ha.

Now I don't even notice. I'm proud to be with a TS.

[musclelover]

Well I do feel guilty mostly because of my twisted reason for being attracted to t-girls. I adore athletic and muscular bodies on my woman and when I see that kind of body (often) on shemales it turns me on. I find myself lookingat the arms and legs hoping to see flexing. In fact I was with a few shemales with muscular bodies and the only thing I didnt want to touch or know about was the Penis. but what could I say my fetish is met minus the vagina. This being said I am oddly attracted and want to play with that Long Mint's penis...
Weird, I may freak out when faced with it but it looks like fun to play with.

[nadiecomoyo]

No, never why i have tofeel guilty or bad for somethig that i like, or you feel guilty because you like the chocolat ice cream, or the comedy movies, while you don´t to take advantage, to hurt, or do something ilegall, i don´t have to fell guilty.

[shadows]

I don't feel guilty whatsoever. Why would I? There is nothing at all wrong with being attracted to a beautiful woman.

[Lycanthropunk]

Hi! I'm new to this forum, but i thought i'd start here in this thread. I don't feel any guilt about loving Tgirls- why should i? I can't help what i do and don't like so why should i worry about it? I consider myself bisexual. I adore how women look- no man can compare to a woman's beauty (not even Johnny Depp!), but I prefer a penis to a vagina and flat chests to big boobs, so Tgirls are perfect for me!

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on.

No guilt, only pride...

Originally Posted by Bionca

It boils down to how you view Trans*women. Are they women who have/had a penis, or are they men with tits?

Bingo! As spoken by myself :-)

[joh]

Originally Posted by trannycrazy

Hi Everyone, I was wondering if anyone ever feels guilty about what we like and what turns us on. I know i do from time to time. I've been into ladyboys since i was a teenager, I'm now 28. Every once in a while i start to feel bad and guilty for liking T-Girls and i try to just look at regular porn, but most of the time it does nothing for me, I just have to come back to shemale porn. As i say it doesn't happen very often just now and then, Just wanted to know if anyone experiences the same kind of thing.

I do to sometimes I don't watch much porn but I have with many all pre ops and have had girl friends all tops that is the only way to go

[racquel]

I see a lot of guys around here worrying about being gay. First, I think it's silly because why would you care if you were? Second, I think it's silly because I have tons of friends who are gay, and I'm not really attracted to them, and most of them aren't that attracted to me. So being attracted to a tgirl definitely doesn't make you gay. In the past couple weeks, the guys who have tried to pick me up have been a regular looking young black guy, a big white guy who looked like he should be in the UFC, a couple average middle-aged guys, a kinda emo guy, some stoner with a camo hat and a beard, a really well-dressed black guy in his 40s, and a gray-haired psychology professor. These guys all seemed straight. There's only been one gay acting guy hitting on me the past 3 times I went out, and he was just drunk and horny.

But the thing is, the clubs I go to would generally be considered gay clubs, and probably half the people there are gay, but most of the people who are interested in me seem straight. And those are the people I'm attracted to, too, even though I'm not really hooking up with them.

So I don't know if you want to consider yourself gay or not, but don't worry that you're going to turn into some prissy queen just because you like tgirls. That's not the way it works.

I really like the videos on tsseduction. I was watching this newer one with Yasmin Lee and a guy named Tristan. I think Yasmin is really cute and it's really cool seeing a girl-next-door instead of a big porn star, so I totally thought I'd be into the video. But this Tristan guy is totally gay acting. I don't know what it is. He doesn't have some super gay lisp. But the guy acts gay. And watching a girl with a gay guy is totally weird. I wanna watch tgirls with straight guys.

I was just watching that video and it made me think of all this so I just thought I'd give my opinion on it if anybody cares.

[franalexes]

Yes, of course someone cares.
We care that we can express our thoughts in a safe environment.
Bionca tries as I sometimes try to educate those non-transitioned about why we transition. Sometimes I think transitioning itself is easier. It is hard to tell the difference bewteen those that hit on me for the right reasons, from those that hit on me for the wrong reason. I don't think I have ever been hit on by a gay guy. I have been approached by some very hot looking lesbiens.
So guys, lighten up. You are not gay. Some of you like us because we look like the girls we are. That's o-kay. ( you are not gay.) Some like us because of our difference. You are curious. That's o-kay. ( You are not gay.) Some like us because they think because of our difference we are some wild sex machine of the century. ( personally I find quite the opposite is true.) Those guys are sex obsessed. Not a healthy outlook on sexual relations and not someone I want to meet my parents either. These peopls may not be physical freaks but they are mental freaks.
I am not a freak. I'm a nice person. Those that can discover that in me is the type I want to meet.

Racquel, one sister to another.

[Talvenada]

From a so-called straight guy!!

If you feel family, friends and co-workers would react to your t-girl interest in an unpleasant way, keep your interest to yourself.

If you meet a t-girl you're attracted to, date her and more. Me: If I got serious w/ a t-girl, I would be open about our relationship, regardless of what others thought. But that's me.

You can go as far as you want, but you're not gay. If you're turned on to bio-women and trans-women, you are the degree of bi that you go.

Whether you go all the way w/ an attractive t-girl--some of whom are forum members--you've got to accept who you are, or live w/ doubt, guilt and regret. Regret if you turn down a chance for love or pleasure or both.

Plus, like Rocky who wants straight guys, you can want to date passable t-girls, like Rocky.

[asefase1]

i often wonder what my friends would think if the new about my new preference. i got a lot of flack from revealing i have a foot fetish, and i had to pretend and ignore when my friend went on the internet using my computer and saw a recent search request for latina shemales. it never came up but i'm certain he saw it because we didn't hang out for a couple of weeks after that happened. but i know that in liking transexuals, the only difference is one thing. everybody likes having sex and shouldn't be judged in the way they like to have it

[TXshelover]

guys who are true lovers of tgirls i dont believe question wether they are gay or not because they understand that they are not wanting to be with a guy. and why should they question it cuz a tgirl is still a girl ......

[racquel]

Originally Posted by franalexes

It is hard to tell the difference bewteen those that hit on me for the right reasons, from those that hit on me for the wrong reason.

Yeah. I get hit on a lot, but most of them make it very obvious very quickly that they aren't really interested in anything but sex. A lot of them are married and wouldn't want to be seen in public (or probably even in daylight) with me. I feel bad that I've become so cynical about it, because there have been a few really nice guys who have tried to talk to me lately and I couldn't even take them seriously.

Originally Posted by franalexes

Some like us because they think because of our difference we are some wild sex machine of the century. ( personally I find quite the opposite is true.)

Speak for yourself! I'm definitely the wild sex machine of the century! Although it's been about a century since I had sex ... so maybe my crown has been revoked.

[franalexes]

I had it when it counted.

[new believer]

In response to Racquel postings, Face it some 'straight' men,married or otherwise, are victims of their upbringing. To say a man would not be seen in daylight with a shemale, they have to alter their ways of thinking about all people in general.
My viewpoints have definitely changed. Not that I would have ever condemmed anyones lifestyle, but I would be delighted to have a dinner or drink with in public with a shemale as a friend or aquaintance. As a possible affair? Sorry, but it's out of town. But not because of being with a shemale, it would be with any woman. Racquel, take heed to Frans words, she's got the world by the balls.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by franalexes

I had it when it counted.

These discussions about transitioning are very helpful. It is easy to view transsexuals (shemales) as simply hot sex objects to have quick sex with. Being reminded that you are lovely good nice people helps transcend the raw lust evoked by the images on this forum.
Don't get me wrong, I like raw lust but I would also like to know and understand real transexual women. I presume most of the shemales displayed on this site are prostitutes. That's OK, its a way of making a living, if she can put up with the morons that are nothing more than a cock with two legs.
hugs for all of you.