Does liking shemales make you gay?

[gizmo]

mate, dont worry too much about the gay/straight issue!
What ever you do, is fine if it make's you happy,
and does'nt harm anyone. I know you are confused now
but as you get older, you will decide for yourself, and what
your friend's think, wont be so important. Enjoy!

[tlover]

Hi mate, welcome to the site.
My advice would be don't waste your life worrying about what other people think, I've done that too many times in the past and missed out on some good experiences, life's too short mate.
Go with your feelings enjoy the moment, you will probably go through different fazes in your life, this infatuation with shemales might be one, or it might last.
Much better to have regrets about what youve done than regret what you haven't done.
Phew! a lot of sayings in their, but in my experience their all right.

[wildmyke]

Hell NO....when I go on tour, I definitely get my more that fair share of pussy, BUT, if a TGirl or girls are there, and liked the show and wanna chill...they are always welcome on our bus!! They are by far some of the coolest chicks to hang out with. I would rather have a Tgirl on the bus to ride with us than a regualr clingy, wishy washy groupie type whore; ya know? The shemales are always beyond cool, give great head and never want anything in return, other than maybe a cold brew or shot!!! Have fun dude. NOW, I usually don't get too involved with them, for me it is an occasional taboo type thing, the funny thing is, there are a lot more dudes into them than you think!! Its all good.

Originally Posted by wildmyke

Hell NO....when I go on tour, I definitely get my more that fair share of pussy, BUT, if a TGirl or girls are there, and liked the show and wanna chill...they are always welcome on our bus!! They are by far some of the coolest chicks to hang out with. I would rather have a Tgirl on the bus to ride with us than a regualr clingy, wishy washy groupie type whore; ya know? The shemales are always beyond cool, give great head and never want anything in return, other than maybe a cold brew or shot!!! Have fun dude. NOW, I usually don't get too involved with them, for me it is an occasional taboo type thing, the funny thing is, there are a lot more dudes into them than you think!! Its all good.

thanks for sharing, appreciate it. hey you mentioned being on tour or something? what did you mean if you don't mind?

[wildmyke]

i am a musician......get to see a lot of the world, all the time!!

Originally Posted by wildmyke

i am a musician......get to see a lot of the world, all the time!!

if you don't mind again, what kind of music do you make? how popular are you?

[wildmyke]

rock and roll bud......played with some major acts. Not reallly at liberty to say who, but,if you have a radio, you have heard my work!!

[bigtrucker92]

Amen, It doesn't matter what label you use or what someone else calls you. If you are happy with your life, not ashamed about your desires, then just enjoy life. It's too short to worry about other individuals' thoughts. I love ladyboys, shemales and women. Just enjoy!!

Originally Posted by gizmo

mate, dont worry too much about the gay/straight issue!
What ever you do, is fine if it make's you happy,
and does'nt harm anyone. I know you are confused now
but as you get older, you will decide for yourself, and what
your friend's think, wont be so important. Enjoy!

[smc]

Originally Posted by bigtrucker92

Amen, It doesn't matter what label you use or what someone else calls you. If you are happy with your life, not ashamed about your desires, then just enjoy life. It's too short to worry about other individuals' thoughts. I love ladyboys, shemales and women. Just enjoy!!

Given the words in bold, I encourage you to read our sticky thread about ungendering. There is no differentiation in gender among these -- they are ALL WOMEN!

[randolph]

What I am about to say does not refer to the lovely intelligent transsexuals that post on this forum. They are special people that I fully respect.
I want to talk about the inner sexual feelings that attracted me to this forum to discuss what can be regarded as unusual sexual urges and fantasies.

These are my conclusions and opinions and I don't expect a lot of agreement.

The attached images of the lovely femboy Cartoon, before he got "her" boobs got me thinking about what it means to be gay.

After being on the forum for years, I have come to difficult conclusions. First, it was a shock to realize that the beautiful shemales that I fantasize about do not want to be "hung" shemales, most of them want to transition to having female genitalia even some of the famous porn stars want to do it. The genitalia attributes that make her so attractive are not desired by her. So where does that leave my sexual fantasies? I am saddened to realize that the beautiful shemales that I love and wish to experience sucking their lovely shecocks do not have the same view of their genitalia as I do. In fact most transsexuals would like to get rid of their male genitalia, they want a female pussey.
Second, it’s time for me to open my mind to what I am and what I want. Do I really want sex with a shemale that is no longer capable of cumming or even having an erection? Don't I really want someone with fully functional male genitalia capable of hard horny cumming? I think what I want is not a hormone loaded impotent shemale but a pretty boy with a nice fully functional cock that I can love and suck and enjoy load after lode of sweet cum. That is what I really want. So face it, I am GAY! If I want to suck cock, I am GAY. If I want to be fucked by cock, I am GAY. So be it! Finally admitting that I am gay is a very liberating experience, I can now relax and enjoy what I really want, lots of horny cock sucking/fucking sex.
Save up your money and head to Pattaya and find some fully functional femboys "ladyboys" and spend night after night doing what you always wanted to do suck a cum filled "ladyboy" cock, fuck and be fucked.
Hey, hey, It's OK being GAY!

[tslust]

I'm not sure if I've posted this here before or not.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mY711HJK7pg

"We're all gay, it's just to what extent are you gay."

[bigtrucker92]

ok
I stand corrected

Originally Posted by smc

Given the words in bold, I encourage you to read our sticky thread about ungendering. There is no differentiation in gender among these -- they are ALL WOMEN!

[skeenyo]

Originally Posted by gizmo

mate, dont worry too much about the gay/straight issue!
What ever you do, is fine if it make's you happy,
and does'nt harm anyone. I know you are confused now
but as you get older, you will decide for yourself, and what
your friend's think, wont be so important. Enjoy!

Well said my man :-)

[JodieTs]

Dana: [after seeing an exchange between Jenny and Marina] I thought Jenny was straight.
Alice: Dana, most girls are straight until they're not. And then... sometimes they're gay 'til they're not.
Shane: True, but there are also the ones that never look back. Right? And you can spot them coming a mile away.

[FairyInBoots]

I'm always concerned that when people ask "does this mean I'm gay???" there seems to be an unspoken, but nonetheless very implicit air of something "obviously" being wrong with being, or being perceived as "gay". I'd like to think, in this post-Will & Grace world, it would be clear that there's nothing wrong with being gay, but then again, television still won't air a male-male kiss as anything more than a joke, so maybe the fact that there's nothing wrong with being gay isn't as clear as GBLT activists want it to be?

The breakdown, as I see it goes like this:

Most women have vag, but some women have peen (approximately 1 in 250, by Lynn Conway's more liberal estimates --just search "lynn conway trans prevalence" to find her paper on it). A woman with a peen may or may not eventually get a surgically constructed vag, but she's still a woman.

Most men have a peen, but some have a vag (see Lynn Conway's estimates for trans women, and combine with Kate Bournstein's 1994 estimate that approximately 50% of all TS/TG people are on the FTM spectrum, as stated in her book Gender Outlaw). A man with a vag may or may not (and is statistically less likely to) get a surgically-constructed peen, but he's still a man.

If you're a man and you're into women exclusively (or very nearly so), you're heterosexual, regardless of what the women you're attracted to have in their pants. Some people are only into women with certain genitals, and that's OK --having a preference in a partner's genitals is about sexual compatibility more than sexual orientation.

I'm seriously only sexually attracted to people with peen --men and women, but (intriguingly) dependent on the time of the year, I seem to have a preference more for women (with cocks) than men (with cocks), and vice-versa. I've tried sex with women and other trans men, and it's been disasterous -- the "homefield advantage" thing is an urban myth. I've analysed this peculiarity of my sexuality, and it's got nothing to do with personal hang-ups and such. Sometimes people are just into certain body types, and if you're not a jerk about it, then there's nothing wrong with it.

Most of the other trans people I know would say that makes me bi-, and only a handful of said people would still feel compelled to lecture me about it being supposedly "problematic" that I'm only into people with certain genital configurations (but that's where I bring up sexual compatibility as a factor --some people have a very maleable compatibility, others seem to have a more rigid compatibility; and as many have said before me, sex and love are not the same thing --I can love some-one more than life itself, doesn't mean I can be, or should be, sexually attracted to them).