How do meet my First Shemale?

[aa2239]

internet internet internet.... if you don't meet a t-girl on the internet, you'll at least find out where they all hang out in your area.

[sowman]

I've met T-girls through craigslist but you have to be carefull. i've been lucky and the girls i've met only wanted to hangout first. there are a lot of really nice girls out there that dont sleep around. there are also a lot of TS dating websites.

[merelypink]

LOL(lots of lube) and play it safe(condoms)

[charlietwobeans]

I think they're better - more serious minded people willing to put up a whole ad with pic and everything, whereas craigslist is one of those "middle of the night, horny as hell, I don't care who I dupe as long as the lights are turned down low" type of sites.

(Gee, have I had a bad CL experience or what?!?)

(I know I'll get crap for this) squirt is like mainly a gay site for hookups, but I've have witnessed some pretty cool TVs and the like on there.

[DocFeelGood]

I don't know if this will help.

A year ago I met this gorges T-girl in http://www.ladyboykisses.com we became very good friends and we been chatting for almost everyday. In a couple of weeks I am takimg a vacation and I am going to Bangkok to meet with her. Probably you should do the same if you are series in meeting a T-girl!

[Bionca]

Let's see... I'm having morning coffee in a local coffee place while I wait on the bus every week day. I have my job then usually have dinner and take the dog for a walk. I do some food shopping on the weekends and every once in a while I'll go to a club.

I meet people every day - so obviously meeting a trans woman isn't a big mystery *shrug*

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Let's see... I'm having morning coffee in a local coffee place while I wait on the bus every week day. I have my job then usually have dinner and take the dog for a walk. I do some food shopping on the weekends and every once in a while I'll go to a club.

I meet people every day - so obviously meeting a trans woman isn't a big mystery *shrug*

I think it is.
This is why.
Generally 50% of people are men or women.
Ts's are 0.003% of the population

I'm attracted to say a type of man
or a woman.
I meet said type in various ways from intros to work colleague
to supermarket to night club/ bar to a social function.
Then love and romance stuff starts or not.

With me so far?
Right, I'm now a man
{bare with me on this } {I'm with a bear? WTF?!!}
I'm into pre-op ts's.
So much so that I even know Transexual is actually spelt with two "S" 's
Oh, I'm only interested in pre-op's who generally "pass"
and are "quite attractive" through to "very attractive".
Um, ......this % is getting really tiny.....

I identify as a predominately straight man, with a bit of a twist
& read psychology books on the subject which show that everyone has an attraction to both male and female characteristics.
With a hetro identifying man this would be most aspects of female.
And with me that would apply, but there would also be some leaning to male aspects which I find attractive. But not men overall. {too much masculine, too little feminine}

Now as it happens, I live within 2 miles of where you live
and on occasions we pass each other both at a distance and close up.
We use the same coffee shop
and last week in the park I was buying an ice cream while you were walking your dog.

I would be attracted to you, partly coz of your gender history
& physical stuff, as well as your mind ---suggested by your posts on this site {& your blog*}.

For this post, you are only into men, and if we interacted, it would transpire that we are really good together, as friends or lovers...to be explored.

But the bummer is that despite us possibly being potentially good matches as life partners, we are not even aware of each others existence.

Why?
That little thing called stealth.
So, that rare ts background is hidden & men wanting to date ts's coz of that are not likely to meet you in real life.
And if they did
would have no idea you are ts...

As well as some of the very things the men are attracted to are the very things we loathe about ourselves. Physical mental & reality of our history.

Now away from this thread and back to reality.
I would guess like me most / all the people you date, initially interacted with you in a trans space;

• be it a tg forum /chat room,
• tg club/bar,
• or from a group of friends and friends of friends...where the suitor had the heads-up on your past,
• or they used to date a friend of yours who is also Ts,
• and so on.

Very few people date Ts persons, without there also being the trans space background, somewhere.

Bionca,
There is one way for men to interact with large number of Ts's,
Like:

• hang out with
• have ts's phone you
• watch movies
• have Ts's come over to look after you when you are ill
• let you crash on their sofa,
• Insist you look & feel their breasts after the boob job
• and so on....

Not sure we should tell them, they may not be ready for it...

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* hey it's gone quiet on your blog;
Write more, it was good shit.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Let's see... I'm having morning coffee in a local coffee place while I wait on the bus every week day. I have my job then usually have dinner and take the dog for a walk. I do some food shopping on the weekends and every once in a while I'll go to a club.

I meet people every day - so obviously meeting a trans woman isn't a big mystery *shrug*

It's a shame that some people don't realize that there isn't anything different with trans women and that they enjoy the same hobbies and regular pleasures in life just like everyone else in the world.

[rasel10002]

Yes i agree. Internet is the best way to meet them.

[dibble]

I find it hard to meet transgenders or ladyboys in the UK, going to Thailand is fine but you can t meet one for any serious relationship as your only there for a few weeks so don t see the point unless its just the experience you want. visited a transgender club a while back, it was like entering the hammer house of horror with the main star s being Vincent Price in drag with his side kick Boris Karloff in a skirt, there were many other corpses and walking dead in skirts.

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by dibble

I find it hard to meet transgenders or ladyboys in the UK, going to Thailand is fine but you can t meet one for any serious relationship as your only there for a few weeks so don t see the point unless its just the experience you want. visited a transgender club a while back, it was like entering the hammer house of horror with the main star s being Vincent Price in drag with his side kick Boris Karloff in a skirt, there were many other corpses and walking dead in skirts.

Really? You do know that transgender is a umberella turn for drag queens, cross dressers, genderfluids, transsexuals, shemales, trannies, intersexed and any other gender variance, right? Also Androgynous and non binary. If "men in drag" disgusts you then you really need to stick with the fantasy type of porn. I mean they are women most probably (a lot of drag queens are men psychologically but there are exceptions to that rule just like cross dressers. Some are more non binary or genderfluid but usually it is an entertainment type thing or a relief of stress, psychologically speaking.) and not every one can look like Bailey Jay, Bruna Butterfly, Beatrice Velmont or Bee Armitage.

Like someone else said, make sure it is a something that you want besides just experimenting and so on. Just please be respectful because not every man is a Greek god either.

BTW a transgender club will cater to all types of gender variants, not just full on transsexuals on HRT and so on. They will cater to everyone from Drag Queens to full on transsexuals. A full on transsexual is like me that lives as a woman. I just happen to be a freak of nature and my boobs are natural and so on.

But as for the OP, do a search for your area about trans areas. Google is your friend so search for trans clubs. Visit them, but make sure it is something that you are willing to deal with. Hey, unlike dibble thinks we are women. Some of us are beautiful and some of us are average. Some of us are skinny and some of us are fat. Some of us have a cups and some of us have b, c and d cups. I mean there are girls that you may not find physically attractive but when you get to know them on a deeper level that physical attractiveness isn't so important. I find some guys that are not physically attractive but if I take the time to get to know them and they make me laugh and feel good about myself then that far out ways the extra weight they may carry, the not so gorgeous face they may have, That little bald spot that will just spread eventually, Or all that body hair that gets in the bed when he sheds. I can deal with all of that and will fall in love if you have the right attitude and personality. Looks attract us in the beginning but personalities make people actually fall in love. So if you go to a trans club and expect all women there to be totally passable or in the category of Bailey, Bruna, Beatrice and so on then... Stick with the fantasy porn. But if you go there expecting to meet normal women some beautiful and some not then you will have much better relationship with her. No matter who you flirt with.

Dibble. I don't really care for what you said and I find it extremely insulting. But you can voice whatever opinion you have. I am not even going to give you a negative rating for what you said because you have that prerogative to say what you want and think how you want and feel how you feel. But it is really very low class to come on a trans forum and trash trans women of any variation. In my opinion you just showed your true colors and just how shallow you are. If you are not attracted then you are not attracted. There is no need to insult anyone no matter what you think of them or how they look. I mean I could totally trash you but after what you wrote, I don't really need too. You trashed yourself baby. OMG you could still go meet the most beautiful trans woman in a club but saying shit like you said about other trans women, she would probably just blow you off and not in a good way.

Seriously dibble, you can talk to all these gorgeous trans porn stars and say the same thing you said here. They all have sights and social media pages. Tell them the same thing about "hammer house of horror" and girls looking like "Vincent Price and Boris Karloff in drag" and girls looking like "walking dead" you would be either banned from their sight or blocked off their social media pages.

Oh you find it hard to meet trans women and lady boys in the UK? I really wonder why with your attitude? Well I know why with that attitude. We do stick up for one another. Trash one tranny and you trash us all.

You can try Grindr. That's how I found my gf