Overcoming Guilt

[9yneGuy]

Originally Posted by transjen

Why feel gulity ? You are who you are and you like who you like, Stop feeling gulity because others say or think it's wrong in the end you'll never please everybody so you just got to please yourself. As long as no one gets hurt and it's legal and both parties are willing then be happy and don't worry just be happy Jennifer

It's really not that easy. You can't just stop, if you could than no one would ever have this problem.

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How long have you been into shemales? I was like you at first. But it's been years since I started liking shemales and shemale porn, and after jerking to it so much the guilt went away. But I still feel guilt when I look at gay porn. I enjoy gay porn, but I can never "finish" to it (i.e. cum while looking at it) or else I'll start feeling guilty afterwards. I'm not sure why this is but maybe time will help heal that wound as well.

So yeah, IMO over time you'll lose the guilt and you'll be able to enjoy it to the fullest.

[transjen]

Originally Posted by 9yneGuy

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How long have you been into shemales? I was like you at first. But it's been years since I started liking shemales and shemale porn, and after jerking to it so much the guilt went away. But I still feel guilt when I look at gay porn. I enjoy gay porn, but I can never "finish" to it (i.e. cum while looking at it) or else I'll start feeling guilty afterwards. I'm not sure why this is but maybe time will help heal that wound as well.

So yeah, IMO over time you'll lose the guilt and you'll be able to enjoy it to the fullest.

Well to start with i'm a former she-male i had SRS this Jan so for me it's more kinship the lust persay but i do find many of my sisters very sexy, So my intrest started about ten years ago and it started with i wanted to know how to become one then how to go the next step Jennifer

[merelypink]

just "do it" if you play safe and its somehting you enjoy then do it

[charlietwobeans]

I don't know if its guilt or remorse or embarrassment or what, but I know that feeling. I don't know if you ever get over it, so probably best not to dwell on it too much.

I personally am SO envious of those people who can so easily say "who cares, just live your life" as if it were the easiest thing in the world. But I feel this overwhelming pressure all the time to fit myself into this normative box, this expected profile, that deviating from this profile is a huge stressor on my life.

Its a conflict, as I say, that is not easily overcome.

So, best to try to enjoy the moment while you can and prepare for the inevitable blast of craziness in your head. If you do it right, at least you won't be caught off-guard by it and its easier to deal with it.

Best of luck. Feel free to hit me up if you want to talk through it some time.