You decide you want a T-girl...

[racquel]

I can't help thinking a lot of guys who are into TS girls have the attraction because they think we're a lot hornier and a lot easier than GGs. And who knows? That may be the case to some degree. But we're also more apprehensive about guys' sincerity and more self-conscious about our bodies so it's a wash.

The thing I am very conscious of, though, is a guy treating me in a way that I don't think he would ever treat a GG. A sane man does not go around sending girls pictures of his cock, and a sane man also is not afraid to show a picture of his face to a girl he's interested in.

[rockabilly]

The fear of rejection is a powerful thing. Showing ones picture can elicit many reactions. People are always self conscious about their appearance. I feel stupid talking about it...

[racquel]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

The fear of rejection is a powerful thing. Showing ones picture can elicit many reactions. People are always self conscious about their appearance. I feel stupid talking about it...

That's true ... and hopefully I can tell the difference between that and a guy who wants me to be his dirty little secret and would never be seen in public with me...

[rockabilly]

A man who treats a girl like that is unworthy of their love. If i was with you i'd be proud to be seen w/ you. I think its terrible that some D-bags treat you ladies as objects and dont show you love and respect. I would never disrepect anyone like that. You have feelings and need to be w/ someone who appreciates u. And that goes for all the ladies on the forum. Be w/ someone who loves you as a whole , not just certain parts.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

A man who treats a girl like that is unworthy of their love. If i was with you i'd be proud to be seen w/ you. I think its terrible that some D-bags treat you ladies as objects and dont show you love and respect. I would never disrepect anyone like that. You have feelings and need to be w/ someone who appreciates u. And that goes for all the ladies on the forum. Be w/ someone who loves you as a whole , not just certain parts.

It's isn't SOME guys. It is really the vast majority. All a person needs to do is think about how popular Trans* porn and escorts are vs. the painfully hard time non-working gals have getting dates (much less ones that show up). There is a significant number of guys who are only willing to "date" us only at night, in a different town, when the wife/g-f is gone.

[rockabilly]

Hi Ms. B , Thats terrible ... I'm so sorry that happens. Dont give up on i finding true love , I know i wont.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by racquel

I can't help thinking a lot of guys who are into TS girls have the attraction because they think we're a lot hornier and a lot easier than GGs. And who knows? That may be the case to some degree. But we're also more apprehensive about guys' sincerity and more self-conscious about our bodies so it's a wash.

The thing I am very conscious of, though, is a guy treating me in a way that I don't think he would ever treat a GG. A sane man does not go around sending girls pictures of his cock, and a sane man also is not afraid to show a picture of his face to a girl he's interested in.

Well, the linked thread does go into some of the ways guys have been with me that my cis-friends would never imagine. So, yeah guys do tend to treat us in a weird way. One thing though, if you go to any "adult" dating site most of the men have cock-pics up and most of those ONLY have cock-pics. If you go to a trans* specific site, it's mostly guys with no pics (demanding to have access to every picture I have ever taken).