How do you know when someone is interested in you?

[rockabilly]

Thanks Bionca, You are a voice of reason in an unreasonable world. Things just seem so hard sometimes ... some days getting a simple e-mail or reply helps. How sad is that. Thanks again Bionca.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

Thanks Bionca, You are a voice of reason in an unreasonable world. Things just seem so hard sometimes ... some days getting a simple e-mail or reply helps. How sad is that. Thanks again Bionca.

LOL you just keep thinking that...

[rockabilly]

Yes maam , you got it

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by rockabilly

Yes maam , you got it

Maybe it's the Internet... I get told lots I'm reasonable, well spoken, even-tempered...

Nobody in my life would ever use ANY of those word to describe me... I'm really kinda scattered, easily distracted, pop-off at the drop of a hat, and I make up words just because I like mine better than the one we already use.

[rockabilly]

Bionca your just a lady ahead of her time , a trailblazer , a visionary. All hail Queen Bionca. LOL

[hankhavelock]

If she wanna use tongue when we kiss, I tend to take it as a vague indication of at least SOME interest :-)

Honestly, I dig what you say, and I too tend to be on the shy side (hmmm...). It depends on the situation, actually. But I guess I've become a bit less shy over time - I'm not so afraid of a rejection as I used to be. You can't win them all, anyway... actually, a month ago I was rejected flat out. PAIN! But so be it. She was mighty civil about it, though, and we have a fine friendship none the less. Needless to say she sort of already has a bf she's quite crazy about, so I guess I had it coming... :-)

But I have always been extremely bad at reading these socalled signs of interest, and I guess I therefore have been quite guarded with regards to showing my own interest. And that easily ends up in a catch22 situation.

Therefore, if you're interested, tell her a bit more openly. If she responds positively then it's Christmas Eve. If she politely indicates otherwise, then be big about it and NEVER try too hard! That may sound somewhat cynical but it's not. It's simply to avoid embarrasment for both parties.

But go for them, the little goddesses, that's what they are waiting for. And the internet is not a bad place to start - especially if you are honest about yourself image and text wise.

Don't worry too much about a rejection - you'll have plenty (maybe) and in the end it's all about finding that right woman with the right chemistry.

So rock on, cap'n!

H

[new believer]

"Rejection sucks but i would rather know then guess."

If you rather know, then make an indication. Fear of rejection breeds cowardness and leads to a lonely world OR to a world of people you don't really want but are willing to settle for. Overcoming fears,breeds confidence. Believe me, people have been in your shoes all throughout history. Some have lucked out,many others wasted their lives because of their fear of rejection. Life is not by nature easy. And no one has a guarentee to anything or anyone. You now have some insight from a few who have felt as you do at some point, what's your next move?
Good luck,better still take a course in human developements. You might learn a thing or two about yourself. And you may discover that your not alone. And with that my good fellow, will place you within a group and within a group, gives hope and confidence. NB