The Problem For T-girl & Her Lover

[Bionca]

Tal... that, my sweet, is the burning question isn't it? Sex should be uncomplicated and mutually pleasureable - right? For me (and from what I hear from the GG's) and women in general that isn't always the case.

"Wouldn't the guy most interested in a t-girl be into her surprise, having no or no more children, and be in the mood for bedroom-type activities."

1) Seems to be the case mostly
2) Yes and no.. and children (and guys wanting them) is a whole other topic
3) Yes, but one would hope there would be more happening - but I get your point.

It is clear that for the majority of guys it is the physical stuff that makes us desireable. Guys could have a cock on a man or a woman with a vagina... but in us he gets cock and a woman. As objectifying as that is, and not even getting into how that ultimately hurts Trans* women, it is the cold harsh reality of desire.

Idealistically, I want our strength, determination, and force of will to be what makes us attractive. But, I like a few specific fatures on guys and sometimes I don't care how well he can do math in his head (or whatever). So I can hardly expect guys I date to be less carnal in their motivations that I am myself.

On planet porno all Trannys love having their cock played with, are sexually available to any and all men/women/shemales - then again, this is the place where Ron Jeremy can still get laid easily. In real life, sex is always going to be about negotiation. We agree or comply with what is happening with our bodies. If we do not agree or comply, sex stops or changes focus (anything else becomes messy and illegal and pretty shitty).