Not to follow a trend or anything

[new believer]

2) I'm just a pretty average gal, while the ladies this site is devoted to are professionally pretty. "Bionca"

Great to know you do have a sense of pride in yourself. I guess I erred in combining two 'observations' of/from you. The first is that you have in the past, been always shyly 'defensive' about not being 'enough' woman for your dates ( I admit to being angered by the idiots who have let you down). And second, in believing you where becoming 'defensive' again, I mis-interpeted your coment above as 'just' an average girl, as in "the assumption I made was 'pretty' dumb". 'Pretty' foolish of me.
I was 'pretty' dumbfounded that you only thought of yourself as average. Get what I'm trying to say?
For the record, I am hoping you will now consider yourself to be ABOVE average looking. Look at all the folks out here wishing to SEE more of you. From the picture of your avatar alone, you are a beautiful woman.
Now if the folks out here in 'peep land' could only convince Fran to go back to her earlier avatar,(or even a new one)us perverts would sleep more enjoyably also. HEAR THAT FRAN?
P S I do not consider either of you porn stars, I know better.

[fatbloke]

There is a story behind Fran's avetar,ask her,she will tell you,it's an interesting story,but i do think fran should post some pics of herself

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by new believer

2) I'm just a pretty average gal, while the ladies this site is devoted to are professionally pretty. "Bionca"

Great to know you do have a sense of pride in yourself. I guess I erred in combining two 'observations' of/from you. The first is that you have in the past, been always shyly 'defensive' about not being 'enough' woman for your dates ( I admit to being angered by the idiots who have let you down). And second, in believing you where becoming 'defensive' again, I mis-interpeted your coment above as 'just' an average girl, as in "the assumption I made was 'pretty' dumb". 'Pretty' foolish of me.
I was 'pretty' dumbfounded that you only thought of yourself as average. Get what I'm trying to say?
For the record, I am hoping you will now consider yourself to be ABOVE average looking. Look at all the folks out here wishing to SEE more of you. From the picture of your avatar alone, you are a beautiful woman.
Now if the folks out here in 'peep land' could only convince Fran to go back to her earlier avatar,(or even a new one)us perverts would sleep more enjoyably also. HEAR THAT FRAN?
P S I do not consider either of you porn stars, I know better.

I'm just not so focused on how I look. I like how I look, and I appreciate that some people find me attractive. I surely don't think I'm ugly (I'd be having a fit in some DR's office still if I thought that). The thing is, it is still hard to accept compliments... just a thing I guess. I think that is more common among Trans*women than lots of folks think. I mean spending 18 (ish) + years having a mental/emotional battle with your body takes a toll. Then to get that sorted only to find that the better you look, the more complicated some stuff gets.

If some random guy likes how I look and asks me out eventually I have to say something about what's happening in the undies. Attraction easily turns into accusations of deception which becomes potentially unsafe. The strange thing is, the better I looked, the less shit I took on a daily basis - folks just assume I'm a regular (cute) gal and go on. OTOH the more I looked like a (cute) regular old gal, the more guys would hit on me opening up situations where safety became an issue.

For this reason, and I'm generally just kinda shy, I tend to down play compliments or change the subject, or just make jokes about it. So, yeah I guess can look good, but that was just luck of the draw really.

[sesame]

Bionca, you deserve equal credit for your good looks, as your intellectual richness. You had to develop that too. The beauty we are complimenting is the fruit of your hard labour over a very long time!

As for your ultra-sensitivity over accepting a compliment in real life, I am sympathetic. The security issues for Tgirls is a harsh reality even in modern society as we speak. Some people are appreciative towards transwomen, some are nonchalant, while quite a few are violent.

As for me, I appreciate the intense struggle every Tgirl goes through to become a woman. Her life is a canvas and her success as a transwoman is like a masterpiece. I have seen amazing mental maturity in Transwomen, far advanced for their age. I guess thats because they have to struggle manyfold than us.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by sesame

Bionca, you deserve equal credit for your good looks, as your intellectual richness. You had to develop that too. The beauty we are complimenting is the fruit of your hard labour over a very long time!

As for your ultra-sensitivity over accepting a compliment in real life, I am sympathetic. The security issues for Tgirls is a harsh reality even in modern society as we speak. Some people are appreciative towards transwomen, some are nonchalant, while quite a few are violent.

As for me, I appreciate the intense struggle every Tgirl goes through to become a woman. Her life is a canvas and her success as a transwoman is like a masterpiece. I have seen amazing mental maturity in Transwomen, far advanced for their age. I guess thats because they have to struggle manyfold than us.

I'll try to gracefully accept the compliment Sesame, but you know I think you are a little nutty to start off.