What if your GF/Wife wanted to be a substitute would U let her?

[tlover]

Well it sounds like your making progress n the bedroom a last.
It could be he wasnt relaxed or the other thing is mabey it was too big he's probably not had much up there before, your ass needs to be trained slowly so to speak.
Only he knows just how much he likes shemales i suppose you will have to prize that out of him slowly, it might just be a fantasy to wank off to.
I wouldn't worry to much about the guys in the video that is probably just part of the movie, i have a bi sex video i bought because there was scenes with an hermaphrodite in it, i love the hermfro seance but fast forward through the bits with men fucking each other i find it revolting.