The Male G-spot - Fact or Myth

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Imconfused

Tlover, I can see your point because to be completely honest with you. At first those are all the thoughts that I had running through my head.
One I love my boyfriend and knowing he's interested in shemales doesn't make me love or think any less of him. I would assume he isn't gay if he is with me. And if for some reason if our relationship ever ended, that is his private life and I wouldn't tell a soul or use it against him in anyway. I just wish he could be completely open with me and tell me why he hasn't been making love to me

How long has he not been making love to you, is it just while he's had this shemale infactuation or longer?
Have you just found out abut his liking of shemales? maby he just feels too awkward and ashamed about it to make love.
Being completely open about something like this for a man is very difficult, terrifying, i think you need to tell him what you said here and keep reassuring him.
I think you both need to do a lot of talking.
Blimey i sound like an agony aunt:D

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by tlover

How long has he not been making love to you, is it just while he's had this shemale infactuation or longer?
Have you just found out abut his liking of shemales? maby he just feels too awkward and ashamed about it to make love.
Being completely open about something like this for a man is very difficult, terrifying, i think you need to tell him what you said here and keep reassuring him.
I think you both need to do a lot of talking.
Blimey i sound like an agony aunt:D

Well in the last 30 days it has been about 2 times we had sex but anal and it was over fast. I don't know how long he has had the shemale infactuation. I know one time I found a dvd and he said it was his friends but I now know it was his. I really found out about june/july of this year. I have told him we need to talk but he wont. I wish he would talk about it and just tell me what turns him on about them and what he wants to do in the bedroom....I am very easy to get along with.

[LonelySatyr]

The male g-spot is real, and it feels great!

Unfortunately I do not have a partner that seems very comfortable with exploring this kind of thing. Some people get intimidated by the sexual connotations of anything anal. If you stick something up your butt, you must be sick/gay/weirdo etc.

Well think about it this way, why would it feel good to men to have their prostrate stimulated if it wasn't supposed to be used? The human body is a great and wonderful device that has many component parts which all have a specific purpose, (or in the case of the appendix, once had a specific purpose that is no longer used)

The arguments against anal stimulation are just as wrong headed as the arguments against female clitoral stimulation. The male has a clitoris (of sorts) and it is located in the ass. Women do not have it, and while they can enjoy anal sex, they cannot experience it on the level men can.

[tezt]

you could always suggest a strap-on to your wife or girlfriend if you think it wont upset them.

[Imconfused]

Originally Posted by LonelySatyr

The male g-spot is real, and it feels great!

Unfortunately I do not have a partner that seems very comfortable with exploring this kind of thing. Some people get intimidated by the sexual connotations of anything anal. If you stick something up your butt, you must be sick/gay/weirdo etc.

Well think about it this way, why would it feel good to men to have their prostrate stimulated if it wasn't supposed to be used? The human body is a great and wonderful device that has many component parts which all have a specific purpose, (or in the case of the appendix, once had a specific purpose that is no longer used)

The arguments against anal stimulation are just as wrong headed as the arguments against female clitoral stimulation. The male has a clitoris (of sorts) and it is located in the ass. Women do not have it, and while they can enjoy anal sex, they cannot experience it on the level men can.

After I have read up on so much, I can now say that I don't think that way.
As far as woman having orgasms from anal penetration it can happen. My boyfriend and I have anal sex and I have had many orgasms this way. It really isn't any different then having a vaginal orgasm though
May I ask the men here that have had anal orgasms what is the difference and do you ejaculate? Was just curious cause once while giving my bf a bj and having my finger in his anus, he cam but it seemed different to me because he said he came but there was no cum..So I was curious
Thanks