Off to Thailand

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Jen!! Best of luck. Take care! If you don't mind, I'm curious who you are seeing for the surgery. I have a couple of gals looking for FFS who can't afford Dr Osterhaus. So, if you found the Dr and the facilities to be good I'd like to have a more affordable place to recommend.

Remember.. the key to recovery is to rest that part of the body...

I can understand breast enhancement, but cock removal! I don't understand that! I am a man and my cock is my most precious possession, removing it would be equivalent to dying.
I enjoy feeling my inner female urges but I am not about to discard my masculinity.
I do hope Jen is doing the right thing for her, its her decision.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by randolph

I can understand breast enhancement, but cock removal! I don't understand that! I am a man and my cock is my most precious possession, removing it would be equivalent to dying.
I enjoy feeling my inner female urges but I am not about to discard my masculinity.
I do hope Jen is doing the right thing for her, its her decision.

Well.. I'm NOT a man - regardless of my history. While I am pretty neutral about having a penis - some gals need to alter their genitalia to match the internal mind-map of their own body.

It is also practical in a day-to-day existence. You see, in most states you can't get your legal documents changed until you have a vagina. It makes it hard to work when the Office of Homeland Security mails your company to tell them something is amiss and you may be either a fraud or a terrorist.

Expressing "inner female urges" is swell.. I guess.. I don't have those. I just have my feelings and urges. Since I identify as trans*female, that makes those urges "female". You know my "female" urges to cuddle with a lover, hold a new-born baby, shoot zombies in a video game, change the oil in a car. Every feeling and urge is neither male nor female... transitioning is about matching one's body with their internal understanding of that body. If that understanding includes a vagina then that's what she needs to do.

As "sexy" as Shemales are and as much as the world as recently turned bodies like mine into a fetish. The reality is, transition for so many of us is a matter of life or death. The need to transition can't be fully understood by those who don't feel the need.

[Arctic]

Originally Posted by Bionca

transitioning is about matching one's body with their internal understanding of that body

Exactly

Very well said

[Talvenada]

JENN:

Here's hoping that your new sex toy gives you the rewards of pleasure after months of healing.


Piece,


TAL

[timshield]

hehe have fun mate lucky bastard

i wonder what do u guys tell youre friends when ure off to tailand haha

yea man thai ''chicks'' are hot!

aw nevermind goodluck jennifer

[ila]

Originally Posted by timshield

hehe have fun mate lucky bastard

i wonder what do u guys tell youre friends when ure off to tailand haha

yea man thai ''chicks'' are hot!

aw nevermind goodluck jennifer

I'm not sure what you're reading in this thread, but Jennifer's first post clearly indicates that she is going to Thailand for surgery. Subsequent posts by others indicate the type of surgery. So just how much fun do you think Jennifer is going to have?

[franalexes]

Jennifer is going to have the equivalent of a hit by a Mack Truck,,,,,,in the crotch!

randolph, some 'men' feel that they simply are not supposed to be born that way. They believe that they were supposed to female, and in some cases, hormonal and genetic imbalances agree that is the case.

Gender reassignment is something which a person decides to do overnight, in fact it takes a long process and people that serious about having a sex change would not be too bothered about losing their penis.

[Amy]

Well said, Bionca.

[randolph]

I didn't mean to challenge what somebody else wants to do with their body.
The mind is in control but it can change over time as it learns new information.
Tantra was my transformation. Becoming aware of the sexual duality within, gave me a whole new view of maleness and femaleness. I now enjoy looking at lovely females and transexuals without feeling frustrated that I cant have sex with every one I see. I enjoy their beauty and their humanity.