Help Me ! I Need To Get Over It !

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Originally Posted by Mika

It's kinda sad and stressful to have to constantly worry about being "gay" (or not). I mean, for one, one does not have to go around waving a flag or wearing a t-shirt declaring oneself to be gay. Moreover, it's an honest attraction to a particular kind of person and if both parties are willing it's probably not going to be harmful. Sure, people have the right to their own sexual preferences, but it's frightening (not referring to anyone here. It just jogged me some) when people press the status quo so hard that everything out of their idea of the norm becomes something that must be destroyed.

Anyway yeah, don't worry about whether you're gay or not. It's really more about exploring your sexuality and being true to yourself. Who knows, this may be a passing phase, or you may be on the road to discovering what truly turns you on

thanks for the answer mika. i also think that this is a road to discover. i hope i can pass that road succesfully and find the true destination. lol