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i understand you point btw. and i see what you mean. all im saying is most keep there dicks because of the business. not because they want them. personally my point of view isnt how its being made out to be, thats not your fault, probably my lack of explanation. sure theres t-girls out there that see them selfs as woman, and want to be woman so much that they go through these changes to make it so. these people are very much woman. its true tho theres a major difference between crossdressers femboys, ladyboys. t-girls. and the way we each see them depends on our own personal opinion. im not some straight guy in denial about my sexuality im a bit of a slag that has a thing for pretty things, regardless of a dick there or not. (i call this openminded tho haha). I wasnt trying to cause a whole argument tho >< |
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you could also see it as
just because someone changes there apearance to look like something or be something doesnt make them what there trying to be. it just makes them look that way. like that guy who looks like a cat. just because hes got whiskers and his black and yellow tattoo'ed skin doesnt mean hes a cat. |
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Seriously, though . . . He meows, therefore he is. No, no! Double seriously . . . Sex and sexual attraction are states of mind. Even without direct contact between individuals, there is a reciprocity between a person who chooses to appear a certain way and another person who chooses to admire and/or objectify that. If Izzy is simply a boy putting on an "act" -- whatever that actually means -- then I don't see an issue. Nor do I see an issue if she's not a boy who isn't (confusing gender semantics and paradoxes aside!). Some are just seeing Izzy as she presents herself and finding pleasure in that. It doesn't make them conventionally homosexual. We might all be a bit "unconventionally" gay, though! :D
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wow - all around wow.
Firstly, if Izzy considres herself a girl - that's all I need. If Izzy considers himself a boy that's all I need. Identity, lived experience, and presentation (in that order) determine gender. Had I never taken any hormones, gotten any surgeries, never put on a dress I'd be just as trans. Just like a drg queen who IDs as a gay guy is still a fey man (not exactly trans*- but close). The status of a trans*woman's genitalia is her business. Some gals need to reconfigure it, some don't. Some want to but can't afford it or have medical conditions that preclude it. Some could do it but like having it. Some make lots of cash by having it, other simply don't need to have a surgery to feel anymore like a woman. Saying that one t-girl is more legit than another because of the status of her panties is simply dismissive and points to a serious lack of understanding about the realities of trans*women. I will probably not have any further surgeries. I have no need to do anything to feel more like a woman. I surely don't consider myself a man. Anyone is welcome to state that I am, but should be prepared to tell me how their identity is determined by whatever is happening in their undies.
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Thanks for chiming in on this one especially, Bionca.
You're so eloquent and powerful. Everything you said is exactly why I have the signature I do. Sexuality / gender / life ...... these are all things that are infinitely subtle and vast.
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See this is exactly what i meant ^-^ i think on some levels were wore both wrong and maybe slightly offending Cyborg. but i totally agree that sexuality is as closed off for some people because humans made it that way, we make everything so damn complicated. if sexuality is what you want it to be, then surely you can change what you see your self as sexually. my point was this, (though i didnt explain it very well.) We can argue over whos a T-girl and whos just some guy dressed like a woman, but we have no idea what that person has on there mind. i think we should see them as they want to be seen. regardless of what they once where. regardless of what they have below. Id like to apologize to you Bionca, i hope none of my posts offended you in any way, im a true believer in people have the power to shape there own lifes. there own futures ect. |
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sooooouuu beautifulll
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I donīt wish to take this role and treat you like that because youīre attracted to this Izzy guy but heīs definitely not a t-girl. He is probably just a gay guy who doesnīt go this dressed up to school or to work. |
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