I'm slightly worried about the emerging tone here

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by TSmelissacarter

May I add, and this is directed toward all commenters, I quite frankly don't give a shit if my comments make others here less inclined to post.

No, but I do.

And if you (and others) see this as your personal playground for hate messages, then I can promise you that I'll do every thing I can to get you guys banned from here. Because then your value changes into a nasty liability.

So far most people have felt secure to post here. I'll be damned if some militant forum-crashers should be allowed to ruin that.

Apparently you cannot take a nice hint, Melissa. Apparently, you have to pursue it to the end.

Try to be nice instead of an ass hole - and being a transsexual does NOT give you special credit here. You're here on equal terms with everybody else, lady.

Peace

Hank

you should have me banned

[randolph]

Back off Hank. I suggest you read Melissa's life story on her website.
She is one tough lady. Granted, she is very feisty but that makes the thread more interesting. Also, I though a lot of members here like ass holes.

[ila]

Originally Posted by randolph

Back off Hank.

That can be taken as rather threatening. Let's keep the tone more civil.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by ila

That can be taken as rather threatening. Let's keep the tone more civil.

Sorry, It was not intended to be threatening. I just don't think Hank should call Melissa an asshole.

[ila]

Originally Posted by randolph

Sorry, It was not intended to be threatening. I just don't think Hank should call Melissa an asshole.

You're right. No one on this site should be called an asshole or any other names.

everyone needs no chill the fuck out. its only a forum.

[ladyboyadmirer]

Originally Posted by randolph

Also, I though a lot of members here like ass holes.

A priceless answer Randolph....made me chuckle :D Anyway we need answers like this to prevent the thread getting too serious. Rgds

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by ladyboyadmirer

A priceless answer Randolph....made me chuckle :D Anyway we need answers like this to prevent the thread getting too serious. Rgds

Yes, a good answer :-) However, better we discuss it here in earnest instead of letting it getting out of hand in other threads. This forum has been quite unique in its lack of for ever ongoing fights and hazzles. That's why it's a good idea to bring it up and face it when it occurs.

But hopefully this has helped a bit so that we can get back to business as always :-)

H

[McLuvinladyboys]

Originally Posted by randolph

Back off Hank. I suggest you read Melissa's life story on her website.
She is one tough lady. Granted, she is very feisty but that makes the thread more interesting. Also, I though a lot of members here like ass holes.

hey randolph. i want to address this post real quick and i hope that you understand i am not calling you out. its just that you said something here that need some further discussion.
(and kudos for coming to the defense of a lady, that is always a bonus)
i find that when i meet people that do really fucked up things, break the law, are abusive, are cruel,and you call them on it you hear "you dont know what i have been through" i hear it a lot, like a rough childhood is an excuse to be a bastard. it isnt. life sucks ass for everyone. its all the same shit storm and we have to weather it. now this obviously doenst apply to you, as you werent talking about yourself so no worries on that front.
i will go and read her blog/website in a second. but i can bet that she isnt the only person to have beaten up, raped, molested by family or pimped out by uncle. so if the majority of these people can have these really horrible things happen to them and move on, so can she.
the whole "i got beat up because i am gay thing" also has to stop. so what you got beat up because you are DIFFERENT. i got beat up because i wore glasses and liked D&D. shit i had to lick some kids shoes in high school, the BOTTOM in front of all sorts of people. i still have nightmares about it 17 years later. that shit strips your self esteem, but it doesnt give me an excuse to abuse others, to come into a forum like a human hurricane and spew my hate at everyone because i feel that life dealt me a bad hand.

its not an excuse for poor behavior. so i dont care where you have been, and what you have been through, what matters is what you are doing today, and what you will do with the time you have in the future. will you make everyone as miserable as you feel, or will you make life a better place by not being the kind of person that fucked you up in the first place


Again randolph, this isnt directed at you man, but mellissa, and any of the other haters who think they have the right to be assholes.