I'm slightly worried about the emerging tone here

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by BlueRaven88

i agree hank, and i would also like to add that recently we've had a sudden surge of members joining, which is great, but they speak about transsexuals/shemales/tgirls/whatever you want to call them with a very derogetory attitude. they treat them as an object or some sexual hurdle they need to overcome just once in their life so they can say 'i had sex with a shemale'. they aren't toys people, they are real, living human beings and have feelings and emotions like the rest of us, and i can guarentee that they have had MUCH worse life experiences than you or i, because they have had to deal with so much hate and hostility towards them simply because they are who they are. put yourself in their shoes. say you were born as a masculine hairy man, and tried all your life so hard to be a girl, and you are willing to sacrifice every penny, every moment of your life, even (in the case of most shemale escorts) your own dignity to sleep with whoever had the money, just so you can get that little bit closer to being who you are on the inside, then you come to a forum like this to try and chat to some people who WON'T judge you or hate you for who you are, and find a bunch of jerk offs saying 'i am looking for a shemale for sex' or some crap of the like? would YOU feel safe? would you feel flattered? no. you would be disgusted and afraid that no matter how hard you struggle you will NEVER fit in or be accepted, which is untrue, but fear rules our minds. so be more FUCKING respectful you shit head pigs cos i am SICK and TIRED of coming on here to view thread updates and reading the degrading shit spewing from your mouths constantly. grow the fuck up and learn some respect.


P.S. lol @ hanky panky :P

Hmmm... slightly overreacted and a bit beside my point in this thread, really (but you still may have a point, though).

I was merely asking posters to stop yelling and throwing mud at each other...