I'm slightly worried about the emerging tone here

[Talvenada]

HANK,

The Grand Shemale Sex Lover has the banned option for any or all combatants B4 the forum would perish. He sees what's going on, but his last post was 2 weeks ago.

He is still around, isn't he?

TAL

[Bionca]

Hank,

I'm glad you posted this. I absolutely HATE tranny drama. I hate gals snipping eachother for how they look, how they earn a living, who is "more trans" than the other - it's fucking spiteful, stupid, and sickening and I won't be posting here for some time because it just can't stand it. How can guys give us basic respect when dating us when we can't give someone who SHOULD "get it" even a little bit of respect.

One thing that I feel should be mentioned, and probably better in the more appropriate thread is Trans calling eachother "guys" which then progresses into calling eachother "fags". First, nothing wrong with being a gay guy, I was out and proud while I was incorrectly living as a gay guy - I got my ass beat and I was still proud - no compromise no shame. EXACTLY as I live my life now. All is shows is a level of ignorant homophobia and ultimately slef-hate.

Anyway - I just thought I'd swing by and kick some reality on last time for a while...

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I hate gals snipping eachother for how they look, how they earn a living, who is "more trans" than the other - it's fucking spiteful, stupid, and sickening and I won't be posting here for some time because it just can't stand it.

Now, look what you have done, you two! I sympathise wholeheartedly with you, Bionca, but please don't go. Your sincere well balanced comments would definitely be missed here!

[DL_NL]

I used to like the absence of such pissing contests here as opposed to other forums. Please keep your insults to yourselves and prove that you're the smartest of the bunch.

Bionca, please don't be chased away by this. I really like your smart, funny and heartfelt observations.

[jimnaseum]

All happy families are the same, all unhappy familys are different. Trust me, this family here is different.
When I was growing up I knew two guys who turned out to be gay, and they were pretty weird even before puberty. But we were classmates and went through alot so in a world of parents, teachers, girls, bullies, big kids, weirdness was not such a big deal, we were pals, I dropped my first acid with one guy, and the other was in my teenage garage band. The guy who turned me on to acid, he didn't really hide that he was bi-sexual, but we just didn't really press it, when it came to sex in high school, EVERYBODY was in new territory. The other guy, he hid it, and we didn't really know he was gay til the long distance calls when I found his AIDS obituary.
I have been on a disability retirement for 13 years now, when it comes to sex lives, there are no normal sex lives, and the most sex fun I had in my life came with serious baggage, humiliations, stupidity, missed opportunities, weirdness. Even if I got my health back, I'm not sure I would go through all the crap I used to go through trying to get laid. In other words, I don't want to be a drunk again.
So I'm an outsider looking in, and the fights don't bother me so much, I don't have a dog in that fight. I pretty much like everybody here, only the Republicans can make me mad.
I don't have a sure-fire guaranteed way to make this a great site, it's up to the posters to decide on how much they want to give this site, and if it becomes too popular it'll get ruined, I think Conan does a pretty good job of reffing this site. I like it.

[bigforarse]

Hi, I totally understand and agree with a lot of the points made here and totally the original point.
I wish to openely state that I am both concurrently. ie I at sometimes find myself totally in love and empathetic with every human being inc every walk of life which inc tgirls.
Yet sometimes I want every thing, male, female, or anything to bow down in front of me and act like a 2 bit whore regardless of whether its my wife, or fuck buddy (of any sex), or internet chat buddy.
What I am trying to say is, men can be the greatest most compasionate people and also the dirtiest most evil cunts possible!
I am a man, just telling it like it is, I wouldnt read into any violent or derogortary remarks its just terosterone spilling out, however i would agree that maybe a seperate area should be allocated to such talk.
At the end of the day, male aggression will always be there, isnt it better to be in a contyrolled environment than anywhere else.
PS not forgiving any actual violent behaviour.