I Hate...

[CreativeMind]

Originally Posted by Bionca

The ladyboy69 forums

Okay, like BlueRaven88 above, I'll bite.

What exactly do you hate about the Labyboy69 forums?

[Bionca]

I think it's telling that trans*women don't post there except to advertise... that should give a clue as to the atmosphere. The general tone of the conversations are examples of everything I write about on my blog about shitty men.

For example, they call the walk from a Thai LB bar to their hotel "the walk of shame" and advise each other to have the girl walk ahead of them/behind them (must make her feel swell). They talk about finding non-bar LBs and then treating them with the same level of respect they show for the P4P gals (none) and wonder why LBs act "crazy" when they see them later.

They call their LBs dudes, blokes, etc.. and still go to the greatest lengths to maintain their heterosexuality. They diss gals for having ANY "mannish" feature, are hyper critical of the gals in the scene and are just plain wanks.

I have no doubt that guys from here frequent there, but any group that would give our Hank crap for calling them out on the ill-informed crap they believe to be LB gospel can't be at all good. *shrug*

I honestly have nothing positive to say about it. Makes me appreciate this place more.. seriously.

[franalexes]

Bionca,
well said and seems to be so true.
Thanks for saying it. You are a beautiful person, inside and out.

[ila]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Bionca,
well said and seems to be so true.
Thanks for saying it. You are a beautiful person, inside and out.

Exactly my thoughts Fran. You said it much better than I could have though.
for both you and Bionca.

[DL_NL]

I hate hatemongers, narrow-minded people, those who need to label anyone they come across. Hypocrits, people who want to impose their standards or ideas on others. I hate dishonest or mean people.

[SHEMALE_SEEKER]

- Sequels.

going to the bank link and finding out i have no money in my account.
that feeling you get after a heavy night out when you can't remember getting home, and you think "oh shit what did i do"
five o clcok on a friday when know you have to work the saturday
when my work boots are still a bit wet when i put them on in the morning
simon cowell

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I honestly have nothing positive to say about it. Makes me appreciate this place more.. seriously.

Untill today I think I hadn't been at LB-69 for three months. I'd almost forgotten it... I too find this forum much better and wider in its approach and content - created solely by the posting and debating users, of course. Much, much better!

LB-69 is primarily a forum connected with a porn-site, and the topic is overwhelmingly all about prostitution. And for some, I guess, that's as far as they will ever get in their attraction to trans-women.

Peace be upon them - they'll never learn or realize the deeper aspects anyways... they have to rush back to their little cisgendered wives once the "fun" is over...

But a forum is, inevitably, what the content-creators make it to be. Here we seem to be having two completely separate discussions going on. One like on LB-69 (though the users here appear to be less "experienced" than the ol'-timer Thailand-tourists at LB-69). Another with a much more (to me, at least) interesting and luckily ongoing debate about being both trans-woman and trans-lover.

We have even managed to have a non-trans debate going on in another thread, and I can honestly say that I have never really found a forum where the tone is so relaxed and nice even though we may disagree on certain points.

So I too like this forum a lot.

[ziggybabie]

"Chocolate News" with David Alan Grier. Very black nationalist oriented show. One segment of the show he seemed to be berating "white America" for not voting for Obama, speaking to the portions of "white America" didn't want to vote him because he's black. He failed to point any fingers in the other direction, though.

Voting FOR Obama only because he is black, (which he seemed to imply) is just as ignorant or racist as voting AGAINST him for being black (which he berated people for). It should have been about the issues, with race being a non factor.

I think racial nationalism in general is retarded, but could you imagine a white nationalist version of this? There would be riots. I don't mind jokes about "white" people. I can laugh at myself with no problem.

I mind when there is bitching and moaning when it's reversed even a quarter in the other direction.

I don't think black nationalism is any more "progressive" than white nationalism. Difference is you'll find fewer "progressive" white people who follow white nationalist politics.

Both groups often support separatism and extreme views, whether it's calling non white races "mud races" and thinking they are superior or whether it's exaggerating "white privilege" and blaming everything on white people.

While there are still racial issues to be fought, the fact that we have a black president should be an indicator of how far we have come. A lot of what is complained about now is class, NOT race issues, as there are more successful black people now than ever in the nation and there are many brokeass white folk.