Questions and Advice About Anal Sex

[CuriousGirl]

I'm a genetic female but I guess I can answer for most anal sex recipients.
I limit my heterosexual fun to one special guy and he's always "UP" for anal sex although I request it more often than he suggests it.
In order to be squeaky clean for him I always give myself a thorough enema then take an equally thorough shower.
We usually begin with nice foreplay,including oral sex, then we may fuck in usual way for a while. After I've cum that way once or twice I'm ready for a delivery in the rear. That starts with him tickling my little pink pucker with fingers and tongue, then some licking, some gentle finger work. At that point he usually lubes both my hiney and his cock with some of the copious "honey" my pussy produces a LOT of when I'm even mildly in the mood for sex. On the rare occasion when there isn't enough we use a "personal lubricant".
I confess that I cum easily and intensely when I'm fucked in the ass.
A couple of the girls I share lesbian fun with also enjoy anal play. The preparations are the same.
When my guy joins me and another girl, well, let me just say that having my pussy licked while my ass is "invaded" is amazing!


I hope that answers your questions.

[hankhavelock]

Let me add one thing to CuriousGirl's fine advice, and that is that if you have never been anally penetrated before then take it slow - preferrably train a bit in advance (for example with fingers, dildos, carrots) of a limited size.

Taking a major shit (excuse my language) followed by an enema is fine and can certainly make you enjoy it more - especially if you don't have that feeling of "needing to go to the toilet" in the middle of all the fun :-)

But do take it slowly and don't expect that you can take it the first time - especially if she is well-endowed.

Learning to enjoy anal penetration takes time and practice - if you do it slowly you will probably enjoy the ride as well :-)

And yes, there are several postings about this at the forum here.

H

[perfect7]

thanks for the tips. my g/f actually used a strap on with me recently and i loved it!! so anal play isnt all that new. but i can see how sometimes you would need to prepare yourself. whether it be enema or using the bathroom...whatever. but what about those heat of the moments where you just want to fuck in the ass!? is that taboo? or is it fairly common to get, well, let's just say..."a dirty surprise"?

[Bionca]

It's called "painting" where I come from and it is an expected part of "heat of the moment" sex. If you or your partner using the strap-on have any issues with this, slip on a condom. Any mess is easily removed.

If your are going to be with someone who is planning to use the natural stuff in your bottom - USE A CONDOM 100% of the time!!!!! No exceptions until you both trust the other with your lives. You avoid any painting amongst more permanent issues.

And read post #9 here :

http://forum.transladyboy.com/showthread.php?t=360

An anal douche will help you along the way also. I think kits are available at drug stores. Just tell the clerk you suffer from constipation lol.

[perfect7]

ah just what i needed. Thanks everyone.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by perfect7

...is it fairly common to get, well, let's just say..."a dirty surprise"?

That's personal and differs a lot. I actually find it erotic and it can be very intimate, but many others find it gross. None the less, it happens quite often, especially if anal love-making is instant and without all the preparations.

I never worried about it - one way or the other :-)