I give up

[bobbsie]

Hey there, I think Bionca is actually in the US. If she was in Australia i'd be knocking her door down ;o) Where do you live?

[Bionca]

Given my deep attraction to Aussie blokes, if I lived in OZ I think I would be in some sort of constant erotic coma and unable to type, move, or really do much more than blink and drool.

I live in the middle of Ohio in the US. Recently moved back after a rather nasty break up with my long-term guy.

As far as the cats comment, it's really a comment on living alone. The proverbial "crazy cat-lady". I actually prefer dogs - you get the feeding and the dead mice (and assorted critters); but also get kisses and someone happy to see you.

Also, you guys are a riot. Everyone who has commented has at least made me smile.

[Ogryn1313]

Bionca, I know you to be an intelligent person.

And so it is with dismay I see you prefer dogs to cats.

The cat is a superior animal. Dogs are stupid no matter how well one trains them. They lack the actual intellect cats do. This is why a person can abuse a dog and it will come trotting up to be petted.

Not so with the almighty cat. Cats are truly intelligent animals.

Intelligent animals for intelligent people. You deserve a cat Bionca.

[Bionca]

hmm.. the eternal war between dogs and cats...

I don't take sides, I really love all animals.. except birds.. they totally freak me out. Seriously.

I grew up on a farm, so I have met my share of plain stupid dogs and cats for that matter. I do adore the kitties tho. In high school I had two cats Isabelle and Sheeba. Sheeba plainly hated every single human - except me. I'd come home from school and every day she'd meet me at the door and let out a series of short "meeows". It was like she was scolding me for leaving her in the care of that "crazy woman" my mom.

Isabelle was also totally my baby (tho she technically was my brother's cat). She'd lay down across my shoulders and the back of my neck like a scarff or a shrug (type of sweater/wrap thing for you guys). She'd sleep that way if I was really still and purr in my ear. Every so often she'd twitch her tail and hit me in the nose or the eye. So, yeah I loves the kitties.

Given my projected living situation (urban, small or no yard, alone, working) a cat would be a more appropriate pet. I do, however, dream of a time when I can own lots of land and have a dog rescue. Pretty pahetic dream I know, but whatcha gunna do.

and Ogryn... thanks for the "Intelligent" comment I appreciate it.

[troymcclure]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I do, however, dream of a time when I can own lots of land and have a dog rescue.

If you're going to own lots of land, why not have a Llama farm?

[bobbsie]

What women doesn't love an Aussie guy? Aside from Australian women that is! Actually, maybe we're more of an acquired taste? But yes, aside from the inevitable erotic coma, you'd love Australia i think. You should visit one day; we have universal health care to help with that pesky coma problem too ;o)

Ogryn1313, couldnt agree more! Cats are intelligent, however they're also quite evil! Not that i believe in good and evil, but if i did, cats would be up there! I love them, but the can be seriously sadistic critters at times.. Although they're not as bad as human i guess.

[Bionca]

My first real crush was an Aussie boy who was an exchange student in High School. As things go, he was also the first heart-break. But that has more to do with the nature of late-teen romance than him or me.

In adulthood I find myself most attracted to guys that look like him. Dark hair, blue eyes, tall, muscular, and that Aussie voice.. OMG!!

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313

Bionca, I know you to be an intelligent person.

And so it is with dismay I see you prefer dogs to cats.

The cat is a superior animal. Dogs are stupid no matter how well one trains them. They lack the actual intellect cats do. This is why a person can abuse a dog and it will come trotting up to be petted.

Not so with the almighty cat. Cats are truly intelligent animals.

Intelligent animals for intelligent people. You deserve a cat Bionca.

sometimes when i'm playing with my cats i get the feeling that my cats are playing with me. william s burroughs.

i much prefer dogs, cats are only interested in what you can do for them, its like they think their better than you. a good dog will fight to the death to defend its owners what would a cat do. also cats are evill i've seen cats more then once catching a mouse and instead of just killing it they sit and torment it for a while then kill it. although i did once see a cat stalking along the top of a fence and pouncing onto a pigeon killing it and running off with it, i thought this was very impresive.

[bobbsie]

Originally Posted by rhythmic delivery

sometimes when i'm playing with my cats i get the feeling that my cats are playing with me. william s burroughs.

i much prefer dogs, cats are only interested in what you can do for them, its like they think their better than you. a good dog will fight to the death to defend its owners what would a cat do. also cats are evill i've seen cats more then once catching a mouse and instead of just killing it they sit and torment it for a while then kill it. although i did once see a cat stalking along the top of a fence and pouncing onto a pigeon killing it and running off with it, i thought this was very impresive.

Yes, one of my cats is partly feral and she kills anything and everythign that moves (plus some things that don't) Then she eats them! At least she's not wasting what she kills, but i've never seen a well fed cat actually eat a bird before. Anyway, I try and keep her but she is signifcantly smarter than me, which is more than a little problamatic when it comes down to explain who is boss. I don't think it's me anymore. :o(

[Ogryn1313]

Originally Posted by rhythmic delivery

sometimes when i'm playing with my cats i get the feeling that my cats are playing with me. william s burroughs.

i much prefer dogs, cats are only interested in what you can do for them, its like they think their better than you. a good dog will fight to the death to defend its owners what would a cat do. also cats are evill i've seen cats more then once catching a mouse and instead of just killing it they sit and torment it for a while then kill it. although i did once see a cat stalking along the top of a fence and pouncing onto a pigeon killing it and running off with it, i thought this was very impresive.

"like they think their better than you."

Because they are better than us.

Cats toy with mice because it's instinct, that is how they learn to kill. Evil? no such thing as evil in animals. A dog will defend you because you're its meal ticket.

A cat however, doesn't have to rely on you as a dog would. They are smarter.

[bobbsie]

yeah, cats probably are better than us really. More self sufficient! Most of us wouldn't last 10 weeks without a society to feed and shelter us!

I'm only being factious about cats being evil; i don't actually believe in good and evil. You're right, it is their nature.. That being said, i'm a bit soft when it comes to killing, plus I really hate seeing dead and injured animals. Thus the whole vegetarian thing. I think my next pet needs to be a non predator, maybe a rabbit or something.

[Bionca]

As far as Australian men go, I really think our first love makes a life-long impression on us. I have to say I get a little weak when I see someone with dark hair and light eyes. Someone who is funny, cockey, and self-assured makes me swoon. That isn't to say I haven't met and been attracted to the exact opposite. But, the guys who match that first love get an automatic second look.

Dogs are pack animals, cats solitary hunters. Thus the behaviors. Dogs are loyal because you are in their pack and you out rank them. Their instinct for susvival tells them that they follow you. Cats don't need us as much as dogs, thus their independance.

[merelypink]

never give up never surrender

[Rachel]

Hi Bianca! I would totally love to date you! Only one little State between us lol. Perhaps a guy who walks both sides of the fence and knows more about where you are coming from? Sorry all you fellas out there on this site. But a part time gurl like me understands what she's talking about far more then you ever will.

[yaya65]

I honestly feel really sorry for you. Especially because none of these guys understand what you want or what you are thinking. I wouldn't give up hope but there is always someone there that is right for you.

In experience the right person always comes when you least expect it. You're very attractive and I doubt you'll have a problem finding Mr.Right

[fatbloke]

Hi Bionca,I've just read your post for the first time,i have to say i'm sorry for men,we are if truth be told a bunch of cunts,most will lie because they just want a sexual liason with a shemale because they have hard on for it at that time,Or like most men like the power of playing the field.This makes it an impossible task for the guys who want to meet a good woman,have a great date and like to meet again.But it just depends on what you want Bionca,if the nice guys are 1000's of miles away,what does that tell you.
All the best Tony

[jamie]

I have been there myself- a few rotten aeggs shouldn't get you down even though I know it does- men are always out trolling to see what they can catch- love your blog...

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313

"like they think their better than you."

Because they are better than us.

Cats toy with mice because it's instinct, that is how they learn to kill. Evil? no such thing as evil in animals. A dog will defend you because you're its meal ticket.

A cat however, doesn't have to rely on you as a dog would. They are smarter.

your kind of contradicting yourself there before you said dogs always come back no mater how much you abuse them, dogs are just loyal. and as for cats being better than us. Lol you obviously don't have a very high opinion of yourself

[bobbsie]

I stand to be corrected, but i would think dogs a loyal mainly because they are extremely social animals. Well i would think they are, they run in packs. Yeah, i don't know what i'm talking about!

Anyway, i wouldnt take the conversation too serious;y, we're just messing around.

[Ogryn1313]

Originally Posted by rhythmic delivery

your kind of contradicting yourself there before you said dogs always come back no mater how much you abuse them, dogs are just loyal. and as for cats being better than us. Lol you obviously don't have a very high opinion of yourself

I'd not call that loyalty...I'd call it stupidity. If I were a dog and you kicked or abused me I'd bite you, leave, piss on your car tires or something and never see you again. Woof beeeeotch!