Does liking shemales make you gay?

[hiphop_listener]

Well i think if i like shemales, that doesn't make me gay cuz i am attracted by hers feminine looks

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by hiphop_listener

Well i think if i like shemales, that doesn't make me gay cuz i am attracted by hers feminine looks

Nope, it doesn't necessarily make you gay at all, far from! BUT it just may open your taste for other sides of you sexuality... you may become more bold and daring... and THAT I really suggest that you're open for, pal! Noone thanks you to limit yourself in the dynamic process of being a sexual being. So walk briskly and boldly into this amazing world, and don't focus a lot on which labels others may put on you! They dunno crap anyways :-)

Best wishes! Go get them lill hotties :-)

Peace!

H

[hiphop_listener]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Nope, it doesn't necessarily make you gay at all, far from! BUT it just may open your taste for other sides of you sexuality... you may become more bold and daring... and THAT I really suggest that you're open for, pal! Noone thanks you to limit yourself in the dynamic process of being a sexual being. So walk briskly and boldly into this amazing world, and don't focus a lot on which labels others may put on you! They dunno crap anyways :-)

Best wishes! Go get them lill hotties :-)

Peace!

H

Hehe thx hank, there is a whole new world yup :D

[boneher]

I too strugled with this question ever since I discovered my affinity for shemales. And I don't think theres is a straight answer. I found some consolation in knowing that there are others like me out there.

On a side note and related to this, throughout history there have been many accounts of straight men that induleged in sex with other men. Greeks for one were well renovened as "boy lovers". Also I reccount watching a documentary on History channel "Taboo sexuallity" and a segment about a "holyday" in India when straight married men would go out en masse and have sex with trannies, and this is perfectly socially acceptable.

In conclusion, it's like 'whatever floats your boat' thing.

/rant.

[Nielsholgerson]

I think it's a total difference whenever you can look a shemale in her eyes and tell that you love her, or you look a man in his eyes and tell that you live him.

For me I cannot look in a man's eyes and tell that I love him.
But if I look a shemale in her eyes I can fall in love.

p.s. getting my ass fucked has nothing to do with love.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Nielsholgerson

I think it's a total difference whenever you can look a shemale in her eyes and tell that you love her, or you look a man in his eyes and tell that you live him.

For me I cannot look in a man's eyes and tell that I love him.
But if I look a shemale in her eyes I can fall in love.

p.s. getting my ass fucked has nothing to do with love.

That's a nice way to put it actually - when falling in love with a transsexual woman you fall for the woman in her much much more than the man in her. I've had affairs with "non-transsexual-men" as well, but they have all had a very distinctive female quality. I couldn't really and honestly fall for a man either.

However, this to me still means to cheerish the man in her - that's why I believe that there is some bisexuality in this - how else does it make any sense?

For example, could I fall for a post-op transsexual woman? Hmmm... maybe I could, but she would not be AS FEMININE to me as a pre-op trans-woman... I know I speak against common perception of female and male sexual attributes, but her dick DOES make her into "my kind of a true woman" for me.

The truth stands! There simply isn't anything more feminine than your girlfriend with a hard on! Not for me at least.

[KirstenHershe]

If your a man and into shemales? Sorry hun but yes, you are gay.

Hugs,
Kirsten