Defining who I am

[a9127]

I really can't add much if anything to what Fran said. You will find a lot written about this topic all over this site. You will also get as many different answers from as many different people.

For what it's worth I think it's entirely normal and natural. And definitely not gay.

[Boner]

Hi Luigi-

Even if you were gay, would it be the end of the world? I know nothing about you or your circumstances and make no judgments. All I know is there is absolutely nothing wrong with being gay, no matter who in your life may believe otherwise.

Gay versus straight is a continuum. Gay guys are not attracted to women so the feminine qualities of a transsexual performer would not turn them on. On the other hand, truly straight guys are not into cock. In the end, you are not responsible for who you are attracted to but what you do with your attraction. So long as it's adult, consensual, and there is no victimization, where is the harm?

I've seen the "am I gay?" question raised so many times on these types of forums and all too often the poster is met with derision. You are the only one who has to live with yourself and your attraction to ladies with something "extra" in the end. My feeling is that so long as we do not objectify the people who turn us on, then we can be content with what we enjoy!