Early Experiences - What turned you on?

Originally Posted by vivid

First celebrity crush was Pamela Anderson

I was a big fan myself. Teenage me watched Barb Wire a lot.

[Boner]

Another club diva from back in the day that did it for me then and still does now is Lady Miss Kier from Deelite. I really love her drag queen fashion sensibilities

[Smoothie]

I was domonated and still like such. Please be courteous and aware of your partner’s feelings and/or body language. It’s ok to lend a hand, but definitely respect the mouth that feeds you. Good luck, boys!

Respect

[a9127]

Since we've included cis as well as trans influences in this thread. I realized after posting "Everybody's Fool" in the "Sing a Long" thread I have to include Amy as one of my major crushes. Especially in the early to mid 2000's. At least we are the same age...

BTW Evanescence is touring as we speak. They are playing tonight, December 16, in San Francisco.

[Iowaguy82]

Just out of curiosity, does anyone remember the first time they masturbated? Why did you decide to do it, or do you remember who you were thinking of or what pictures or videos you were looking at?

[a9127]

That is a good question. Hope you will get some responses. I really had to think about it. I'm not sure how old I was but it was when we had moved back to Detroit so I was at least 9 or 10. Maybe 11. It was before I met Stephanie. I didn't really know much ("anything" ) about sex at the time (I had a "girlfriend" that I had kissed when I was 8--and that was it) but I had recently started having "wet dreams."

Sometimes I played with my cock and balls when I was alone. Often in the shower. Although it felt good I never "came." In fact I didn't even know you could do that...

One night I was in my room watching TV and wearing shorts and a t shirt, it was late summer. For no particular reason, I just started "playing with myself" but this time the feeling was more intense and my cock was hard. I still didn't know what I was doing. But as the feeling got more intense I realized I could stroke my shaft and head. I didn't want to stop. The feeling got more and more intense and suddenly I shot a huge load all over myself and the chair I was sitting in. It was all over my hand and I remember looking at it then tasting it.

It felt great but the feeling was short lived. Suddenly I was scared that my Mom might walk in on me as I had not locked the door to my room. I hurried to clean up the mess and figure out how to get rid of my clothes. It was then I realized that this was what you did with girls. Or at least to pictures on the computer...

[Iowaguy82]

Originally Posted by a9127

That is a good question. Hope you will get some responses. I really had to think about it. I'm not sure how old I was but it was when we had moved back to Detroit so I was at least 9 or 10. Maybe 11. It was before I met Stephanie. I didn't really know much ("anything" ) about sex at the time (I had a "girlfriend" that I had kissed when I was 8--and that was it) but I had recently started having "wet dreams."

Sometimes I played with my cock and balls when I was alone. Often in the shower. Although it felt good I never "came." In fact I didn't even know you could do that...

One night I was in my room watching TV and wearing shorts and a t shirt, it was late summer. For no particular reason, I just started "playing with myself" but this time the feeling was more intense and my cock was hard. I still didn't know what I was doing. But as the feeling got more intense I realized I could stroke my shaft and head. I didn't want to stop. The feeling got more and more intense and suddenly I shot a huge load all over myself and the chair I was sitting in. It was all over my hand and I remember looking at it then tasting it.

It felt great but the feeling was short lived. Suddenly I was scared that my Mom might walk in on me as I had not locked the door to my room. I hurried to clean up the mess and figure out how to get rid of my clothes. It was then I realized that this was what you did with girls. Or at least to pictures on the computer...

I was somewhat of a late bloomer, as my first time wasn't until I was 14. I had been having wet dreams for awhile, probably around 2 years or so at that point. But I had always thought that masturbation was bad for some reason. I finally got to the point where I couldn't hold off any longer. It was early summer and I was watching TV in my room, it was a video countdown I had recorded. A video by tlc came on when I couldn't take it anymore. I stripped down and started to rub my cock. I had no idea what I was doing, all I knew that was I was doing felt great. It took me about an hour and a lot of rewinding but finally my cock started to twitch and I started cumming for what seemed like forever.

As good as it felt, I had feelings of guilt as well. I promised myself I was never going to that again, fearing that I would get caught or thinking I was the only guy at my school who had done this. I broke my promise the next night, and for the rest of the summer I usually ended up masturbating once or twice a day.

[a9127]

Originally Posted by a9127

...It was then I realized that this was what you did with girls. Or at least to pictures on the computer...

After that first time, for a few months I couldn’t wait to get home from school, lock the door to my room and do it again and again. Sometimes to pictures downloaded from the Internet, sometimes fantasizing about a beautiful “older” (age is relative—I was 12) woman jerking me off. Maybe Heather from “Fall Guy,” “Wonder Woman,” “Catwoman,” Loni Anderson, or perhaps Madonna. Often, I would imagine I was fucking them. I knew "where it went” and imagination took over from there. Soon I realized that this would be a lot more fun with a “partner” and not long after is when “Stephen” (who later became “Stephanie”) and I met. That would be my first sexual experience with another person. As Stephanie, she and I dated through High School. I would not have sex with a “cis” woman until I was 19, almost 20. She was in her 30’s.

Even today masturbation is a part of my sex life. My wife and I incorporate it into our lovemaking and I’d be lying if I didn’t admit to whacking off over some of the beautiful transwomen on this site. It’s harmless unless overdone. Then it’s possible for it to interfere with sex with a partner. If you can still get hard enough to fuck someone after jacking off several times, and also cum inside her—awesome! I want what you’re taking…