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I wouldn't worry about any of that stuff. When I first met my current gf (10 months ago tomorrow) I was nervous, but that goes away once you get talking a bit. There's no need to be ashamed about it at all either and I wouldn't worry about friends or family or anything like that, I was a bit hesitant at first to tell my parents before I introduced them to her because I was a bit worried about what they may think and I was a complete fool to have any worries. They are your family and they should understand that setting like that shouldn't matter at all or be any issue. (I do have two cousins that made fun of her but these are also two guys that won't visit their own father after finding out he has multiple cancers, but will go out partying instead). Friends I wouldn't worry about either because they will either accept it or you will find out they are not people that you need to be firends with. Both small penis and being a virgin isn't something I'd get worried about either, some girls love smaller ones and if they really do like you then they will have patience as well.