Anyone Want to Date an Older MTF?

[JamieTS]

Yes I am older but look more like I am in my 30's instead of 40's but 40 is the new 30 so 30 would be the new 20.

I know this isn't a dating sight but this is a sight where the guys want to know about trans women. This is a sight where men are drawn to trans women and trans girls. Well I am not a trans girl but a pretty well experienced trans woman.

I am open to any age from 70 less. From 30 plus. I am not ugly and will send pics privately after I get to know you. I have been burned by pics before on the net. So please respect that I am so apprehensive on pics.I want to feel secure and safe when with you. I want to feel like a woman when with you because I am not a man. I can't be and never have been. I did get bullied in school and so on. Yeah where I come from being gay was a bad thing but not for me. Trans was unheard of and way too taboo when a supposed guy wears girls' and women's clothes was a curse. But I grew up playing with dolls instead of cars and so on.

I didn't go to prom but rather our band played prom but I did get to wear sexy clothes, high heels and makeup with big teased bleach blonde hair. It sux because I didn't wear a prom dress though. Especially with all the memories that involved. But I was the blondest and prettiest there even with a Les Paul dragging me down. OMG they are sooooo heavy for someone so skinny and little at the time at least. This was the eighties so Motley Crue, Poison and other bands that looked like girls could rock some shit.

So any man that wants to meet an older Trans woman that is really girly and feminine close to NOLA then please PM me. Looks do not matter but masculinity does unless you are another trans woman then I can totally be a transbian. I can totally be a transbian with another "lipstick" and feminine. Cis women with a vagina? Not so much unless they are butch lesbians or trans men. I do not want to be the man.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by JamieTS

unless you are another trans woman then I can totally be a transbian. I can totally be a transbian with another "lipstick" and feminine.

Why am I feeling "fuzzy" all over? ???

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by franalexes

Why am I feeling "fuzzy" all over? ???

Maybe you need to shave????

Maybe because we are the best lovers that anyone could ever have when it comes to femininity.

I mean it is OK to be Lesbians especially Lipstick Lesbians. So why not Lipstick Transbians? I mean we are beautiful and feminine to the point that most cis women can't even compare with.

I mean I love my femininity and cherish it to the point that I am way more feminine than a lot of cis women. I love that in a partner either or. Fully Masculine of Fully Feminine.

I mean seriously I want my partner to fully embrace his masculinity or her femininity. Anything in between then I am really not attracted too unless I get to know them and am attracted to them after. But what first attracts me is full feminine or full masculine.

[girish]

Will appreciate if you could let me know what is MTF

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by girish

Will appreciate if you could let me know what is MTF

Of all things; to be on this site and not know.
oh well, MTF means " male to female "

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by girish

Will appreciate if you could let me know what is MTF

It is a sort of nicer way to describe tranny and shemale if the she suffers from GID which is Gender Identification Dysphoria.

Just ask away girish because the only stupid question is the one not asked. Some questions we may find amusing but we are definatly not laughing at you or anyone else. I personally find it amusing that society is so in the dark about us. Thank gawd for the porn industry that pretty much elevates us to the same level as cis women. Certain jobs I can do because I am Trans. Some won't hire me but I can play music and own a business. If I was younger I maybe would consider porn or escorting even. Well I was at least an American Bargirl in Seoul Korea in the early nineties on weekends. Korean men went wild for blonde hair and green eyes. I was skinny back then and had a hell of a pair of legs. My boobs were on par with the size of natural Korean boobs. But it was a trans club so it wasn't like there were any surprises. My job was selling and serving drinks while trying to look sexy as hell so the guys would buy more and mine too and whatever else after the club closed was all in my purse. I am not saying I did or didn't on the side. OK so I did. But I was extremely picky though.

Another little word of advice is that we love when female pronouns are used when it pertains to us. We are not he's. And OMG I hate when people call a trans woman or trans man an "It". I mean we are women and you treat us as women then you will melt our hearts and OMG you will be well rewarded. Rewarded if you actually like femininity in your romantic partner.

[Dhobi]

Hi,
I so much admire and respect you. You know who you are, are happy with that knowledge and shrug off all the crap put your way by the small minded people of this world - even in these 'enlightened' times there are still so many bigots out there.
I would be proud to take you anywhere that you wanted to go - you on my arm and the look on my face that says "This is my lady". Not because you are drop dead gorgeous - you may be but I have not seen you to know - but because you are you.
Only two problems -
1) I am in the UK.
2) I am just over the top age (70) that you quote.
But, I hope you find someone that appreciates you, who deserves you. Stay true to yourself.

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by Dhobi

Hi,
I so much admire and respect you. You know who you are, are happy with that knowledge and shrug off all the crap put your way by the small minded people of this world - even in these 'enlightened' times there are still so many bigots out there.
I would be proud to take you anywhere that you wanted to go - you on my arm and the look on my face that says "This is my lady". Not because you are drop dead gorgeous - you may be but I have not seen you to know - but because you are you.
Only two problems -
1) I am in the UK.
2) I am just over the top age (70) that you quote.
But, I hope you find someone that appreciates you, who deserves you. Stay true to yourself.

Thank you so much Dhobi. Age really don't matter much. I have seen people in their 70s way more active than some in their 30s. But life experiences goes a really long way with me. I really don't like some of the games that some guys play with us. Oh yeah, they know. They may like when drunk or just may like us in private but in public and with their friends is a different story.

Men like you are priceless and I would be proud to hang on to your arm and let you lead me wherever you want to go. I am way more like the pinup type girl instead of the supermodel type girl. I like romance, I like having a door opened for me and I like having a chair pulled out for me. So I am way more Betty Page and Marilyn Monroe than Kate Moss or Milla Jevovich.

As a matter of fact my greatest love was 35 when I was 19. He would be your age now. I fucked up and got scared. I mean when you are 19 and stupid and really want to see the world and someone tells you he loves you then it is a scary deal. I ran when I should have stayed. I won't make that mistake again. I actually ran halfway around the world because I was so scared. He moved on and I did too but...

So don't worry about your age. Crossing the Atlantic may be a problem because I can't swim. But to a lot of my friends and myself too, age doesn't matter much. Especially to girls my age. We really love you guys. Ya'll are really special.

[Dhobi]

Thank you for your reply Jamie. I am still very active - I still work - love life and live it to the full.
I am a bit old fashioned in that I believe in chivalry and courtesy, I will open doors and pull out chairs, especially for my lady - I like to make her feel special, appreciated and happy to be with me wherever we might be.

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by Dhobi

Thank you for your reply Jamie. I am still very active - I still work - love life and live it to the full.
I am a bit old fashioned in that I believe in chivalry and courtesy, I will open doors and pull out chairs, especially for my lady - I like to make her feel special, appreciated and happy to be with me wherever we might be.

AHHH. You are priceless. You do know that if you ever went to a trans club or anywhere else that exclusively trans you would probably have your pick of women? Things like what you are willing to do and put up with really means a lot to us. A lot of women my age ( I can't speak for everyone though but my friends and me except for a couple ) want a man that is chivalrous, respectful and think enough of us to treat us with respect. Yes we do go through the same things that cis women go through too as being seen by some as nothing but a paly thing or experiment or whatever. But guys that actually fall for us and see us as women are truly special.

Take Bailey Jay, she is married and her husband is special. Now Bailey is a really hot woman and is totally passable but she is out there so passable or not, a lot of people know who she is. She really can't hide it because she is so open about it but she is still married. She actually co hosted the Jim Norton show at one time. I don't even know if she does porn anymore. I do know she has a podcast talking about some weird stuff like Art Bell used to. Paranormal stuff and UFO's and things like that. I do think she still has her websight up though.