Anyone Want to Date an Older MTF?

[Dhobi]

Hi,
I so much admire and respect you. You know who you are, are happy with that knowledge and shrug off all the crap put your way by the small minded people of this world - even in these 'enlightened' times there are still so many bigots out there.
I would be proud to take you anywhere that you wanted to go - you on my arm and the look on my face that says "This is my lady". Not because you are drop dead gorgeous - you may be but I have not seen you to know - but because you are you.
Only two problems -
1) I am in the UK.
2) I am just over the top age (70) that you quote.
But, I hope you find someone that appreciates you, who deserves you. Stay true to yourself.

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by Dhobi

Hi,
I so much admire and respect you. You know who you are, are happy with that knowledge and shrug off all the crap put your way by the small minded people of this world - even in these 'enlightened' times there are still so many bigots out there.
I would be proud to take you anywhere that you wanted to go - you on my arm and the look on my face that says "This is my lady". Not because you are drop dead gorgeous - you may be but I have not seen you to know - but because you are you.
Only two problems -
1) I am in the UK.
2) I am just over the top age (70) that you quote.
But, I hope you find someone that appreciates you, who deserves you. Stay true to yourself.

Thank you so much Dhobi. Age really don't matter much. I have seen people in their 70s way more active than some in their 30s. But life experiences goes a really long way with me. I really don't like some of the games that some guys play with us. Oh yeah, they know. They may like when drunk or just may like us in private but in public and with their friends is a different story.

Men like you are priceless and I would be proud to hang on to your arm and let you lead me wherever you want to go. I am way more like the pinup type girl instead of the supermodel type girl. I like romance, I like having a door opened for me and I like having a chair pulled out for me. So I am way more Betty Page and Marilyn Monroe than Kate Moss or Milla Jevovich.

As a matter of fact my greatest love was 35 when I was 19. He would be your age now. I fucked up and got scared. I mean when you are 19 and stupid and really want to see the world and someone tells you he loves you then it is a scary deal. I ran when I should have stayed. I won't make that mistake again. I actually ran halfway around the world because I was so scared. He moved on and I did too but...

So don't worry about your age. Crossing the Atlantic may be a problem because I can't swim. But to a lot of my friends and myself too, age doesn't matter much. Especially to girls my age. We really love you guys. Ya'll are really special.

[Dhobi]

Thank you for your reply Jamie. I am still very active - I still work - love life and live it to the full.
I am a bit old fashioned in that I believe in chivalry and courtesy, I will open doors and pull out chairs, especially for my lady - I like to make her feel special, appreciated and happy to be with me wherever we might be.

[JamieTS]

Originally Posted by Dhobi

Thank you for your reply Jamie. I am still very active - I still work - love life and live it to the full.
I am a bit old fashioned in that I believe in chivalry and courtesy, I will open doors and pull out chairs, especially for my lady - I like to make her feel special, appreciated and happy to be with me wherever we might be.

AHHH. You are priceless. You do know that if you ever went to a trans club or anywhere else that exclusively trans you would probably have your pick of women? Things like what you are willing to do and put up with really means a lot to us. A lot of women my age ( I can't speak for everyone though but my friends and me except for a couple ) want a man that is chivalrous, respectful and think enough of us to treat us with respect. Yes we do go through the same things that cis women go through too as being seen by some as nothing but a paly thing or experiment or whatever. But guys that actually fall for us and see us as women are truly special.

Take Bailey Jay, she is married and her husband is special. Now Bailey is a really hot woman and is totally passable but she is out there so passable or not, a lot of people know who she is. She really can't hide it because she is so open about it but she is still married. She actually co hosted the Jim Norton show at one time. I don't even know if she does porn anymore. I do know she has a podcast talking about some weird stuff like Art Bell used to. Paranormal stuff and UFO's and things like that. I do think she still has her websight up though.