Does liking shemales make you gay?

[a9127]

Glad you liked it. Thanks!

I'm working on a story about the summer I spent with my friend and what might have been. My "problem" is that we were both under 18 so I have to figure out a way to deal with any sexual activity other than kissing. We were both very young (I turned 13 in August of that summer and him 11) and total virgins so I don't think anything "explicit" would have happened anyway. What I've written so far deals more with the feelings and emotional attachment I had for a person that may well have been gay or trans. I tossed out a draft that had us "fooling around" in my bedroom because I didn't think it was appropriate. I guess I could always have us going away to college together...

When I think about him now I realize that that was a pivotal relationship in my young life. I often wonder what happened to him?

[Boner]

Originally Posted by a9127

Glad you liked it. Thanks!

I'm working on a story about the summer I spent with my friend and what might have been. My "problem" is that we were both under 18 so I have to figure out a way to deal with any sexual activity other than kissing. We were both very young (I turned 13 in August of that summer and him 11) and total virgins so I don't think anything "explicit" would have happened anyway. What I've written so far deals more with the feelings and emotional attachment I had for a person that may well have been gay or trans. I tossed out a draft that had us "fooling around" in my bedroom because I didn't think it was appropriate. I guess I could always have us going away to college together...

When I think about him now I realize that that was a pivotal relationship in my young life. I often wonder what happened to him?

I read your story (really hot by the way) and think I came to like tgirls from the opposite direction. I never was attracted to guys, even feminine ones, but I've read other admirers' stories who can look back and point to someone they knew growing up who was girly that they found attractive

For me I always had a thing for amazons, big strong women who other guys would compare to men. The wrestler Chyna is a good example. People would always say she was manly but I would watch her matches on TV and get incredibly aroused thinking how much I would love to feel her muscles.

The weird thing is that when it comes to tgirls I like all types!

[a9127]

Originally Posted by Boner

I read your story (really hot by the way) and think I came to like tgirls from the opposite direction. I never was attracted to guys, even feminine ones, but I've read other admirers' stories who can look back and point to someone they knew growing up who was girly that they found attractive...

...The weird thing is that when it comes to tgirls I like all types!

Thanks, glad you enjoyed it. I updated it with parts 3 and 4. Hope you like Stephanie's dance costume thanks for the idea!

Hope others on here like the story, It's definitely not a "suck and fuck a hot ladyboy" type of thing (not that there's anything wrong with fucking and sucking a hot ladyboy ). But it IS based on a real friend I had when I was very young. Just don't know if it has general appeal.

Also, like you I am attracted to strong sexy ciswomen. I thought Chyna was hot as well. My current "crush" in the sports world is Ronda Rousey.

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[Boner]

I read the last two parts of the story. Good stuff.

[mabedzaqueen]

Originally Posted by Boner

I read your story (really hot by the way) and think I came to like tgirls from the opposite direction. I never was attracted to guys, even feminine ones, but I've read other admirers' stories who can look back and point to someone they knew growing up who was girly that they found attractive.
The weird thing is that when it comes to tgirls I like all types!

Funny, and interesting, how some of us came to like T-girls in such different ways! In my case, it followed an infatuation with a very convincing female impersonator/dancer (who still looked quite female-ish even without make-up, wig, heels and slutty clothes). But at the time (2003), i didn't know much about male-to-female transsexuals and believed they were merely transvestites who had decided to go "a step further" by adding breast implants and stuff... It took years before i became better informed about who transsexuals really are and what they go through in life

Okay, so you say you like all types of T-girls, right? Well, i like them as close to a hot young femboy as possible, with cute small breasts and without any desire to have S.R.S. ever, which i'm well aware, could make me a tad gay in the eyes of some folks (can almost hear them ask: "Why the heck is it so important for you that they keep their penis??" My reply then, would be like, "Ah you know, i just feel that's what makes them so exotic in the first place")

Besides, let's face it, if they were all post-op, forums like this one would very likely not exist...

[Boner]

Originally Posted by mabedzaqueen

Funny, and interesting, how some of us came to like T-girls in such different ways! In my case, it followed an infatuation with a very convincing female impersonator/dancer (who still looked quite female-ish even without make-up, wig, heels and slutty clothes). But at the time (2003), i didn't know much about male-to-female transsexuals and believed they were merely transvestites who had decided to go "a step further" by adding breast implants and stuff... It took years before i became better informed about who transsexuals really are and what they go through in life

Okay, so you say you like all types of T-girls, right? Well, i like them as close to a hot young femboy as possible, with cute small breasts and without any desire to have S.R.S. ever, which i'm well aware, could make me a tad gay in the eyes of some folks (can almost hear them ask: "Why the heck is it so important for you that they keep their penis??" My reply then, would be like, "Ah you know, i just feel that's what makes them so exotic in the first place")

Besides, let's face it, if they were all post-op, forums like this one would very likely not exist...

Upon further analysis, I spoke too soon. I can't honestly say I like all types of tgirls although I do find a wide variety of them attractive. Asian ladyboys don't do much for me and I can't say I'm all that in to plus size models although genetic BBWs like the zaftig Dilyara Larina excite me.

My attraction to penis is something I haven't quite figured out yet. I remember the first time I saw RuPaul. Tall, statuesque, with a stunning wardrobe, make up, and hair, I was instantly attracted. I knew she had a dick but it was easy to fantasize she didn't.

Later I saw pictures of Vanessa Del Rio sporting a strap on. The sight of this voluptuous woman with a tool was really exciting to me although I felt weird about it. Then I saw Gia Darling for the first time and everything changed! The tgirl bug bit me and bit me hard.

I used to try to block out the cock when watching transsexual porn but I came to enjoy seeing it more than vagina.

[a9127]

The more I have given this question thought the more I am convinced the answer depends entirely on the individual. In a sense, “we are all right.” The answer will be different for each of us depending on our unique experiences although we do share some common interests. Speaking totally for myself, I am attracted to the female person and “secondary” sex characteristics regardless of whether or not they have a penis or vagina. There is definitely a “type” of woman I am attracted to. This femininity could present itself in many ways: the beautiful ciswomen I have known (including my two wives), the beautiful transwomen featured on sites such as this one, a sexy crossdresser, a pretty femboy, or someone like my friend “Stephanie.”

Kelly Shore has a penis, Rakel Rodrigues has a penis, Hazel Tucker has a penis. To say I am totally smitten with all three would be an understatement. Buck Angel has a vagina, however I am not attracted to his masculine characteristics although he seems really cool and I admire his physique. Am I “gay” because I would prefer to have sex with Kelly instead of Buck? I think not. Others may disagree. My point is that our sexuality and gender identification has a lot more to do with the bigger picture and not simply what sex organs are “down there.”

Consider the many posts on this site regarding attraction to “the cock.” Do you simply like “cock” no matter what context it is presented in? Do you like it on a large muscular male? Or do you like it on a pretty, feminine, person who you would find attractive even if she was fully clothed? Personally I only find a “cock” attractive on the latter and consider sucking a beautiful transwomen’s or femboy’s penis in the same context as I would licking my wife’s clit while performing oral sex on her. If you think this is “gay” than please tell me why? Now sucking off the Indianapolis Colts… THAT I would consider “gay.” As far as having intercourse, it is not uncommon for “straight” couples to engage in anal sex. My wife and I occasionally do. So if I were to meet a beautiful transsexual and the two of us hit it off I would have no problem taking her back to my place and engaging in oral and anal sex with her (assuming I wasn’t married of course… ). Would I consider it “gay”? Hell no.

There undoubtedly is a connection between the Gay and Lesbian communities and the Trans community. I think all of us here are pretty “open minded” toward sexuality. And as this thread clearly shows, there are almost as many thoughts on this issue as there are members. Yes, some people might consider attraction to a beautiful transwoman “gay” but I think they would be wrong. Slowly society is coming around to recognizing this. So I guess the bottom line is it’s all good. It is 2015 for Christ’s sake! You should be able to fall in love with, fuck, suck, live with, marry, whatever, the person you want without having to worry about silly labels. Future generations will look back at this period in history and wonder why we were so confused and “messed up” about human sexuality. I hope I live long enough to see that day.