Does it have to get hard?

[Bionca]

haha

I mostly just told people what I was feeling. The idea of emotion flash cards sounds cute though.

Honestly I was pretty lucky. I only had to go back a couple times to get things evened out and touched up. That and my pain and lack of muscle control was temporary. That isn't always the case.

The hard weiner thing is one of those places where the reality of many transwomen and the fantasy of many men who like the idea of a transwoman don't always come together very well.

I'm all for gals doing what they need to do to feel right in their bodies and to also enjoy their sexuality. My decision was right for me, and should not be right for anyone else.