Sore anus after penetration?

[malibu515]

Perhaps minimization of soreness BEFORE penetration is the answer. Using water based lube purchased at an Adult Store in the states, have your partner do the following.
1) lube ass liberally and continue to add as needed
2) penetrate ass with small gloved or condom little finger
3) penetrate with small butt plug...in and out gently and leave inside
for a few minutes
4) penetrate with two gloved fingers
5) penetrate with medium butt plug ...in and out gently and leave inside
for a few minutes
6) with ass up high ...have your partner enter slowly...slow is key
avoid slamming...and use plenty of lube !