Are you a bottom, top, or versatile?

[MistressStevie]

I think there is quite a bit more to the defining a top or a bottom than this poll implies. The discussion of sexual power in intimacy is probably as old as humanity and may even predate that.

Equipment alone does not define sexuality. If we are practicing consensual relations, their is a division of power given and accepted that tends to be where the idea of top and bottom comes from. Dominance and Submission is an old song by Blue Oyster Cult that drives the exchange home.

By that definition we must all be versatile!

[aguy]

I don't think we are all versatile,some people just don't like being submitted and some others don't like to be active.

I do like to be versatile but I don't like to be submitted,I'm actually in control even when I'm bottom simply because I don't like to give that power to another person.

Some people enjoy being bottom in every aspect of their sex life.Personally I like to play bottom because I just like how it feels.It's not a role playing game or anything,I just like tgirls and their extra equipment.

[omni]

Originally Posted by MistressStevie

By that definition we must all be versatile!

That sounds like a deductive fallacy.

If it is true that most of the men are doctors, and it is true that most of the women are nurses, is it true that most of the doctors are men?


If it is true that most transsexuals enjoy both submission and dominance, and topping is a display of dominance, does that mean that most transsexuals enjoy topping?



No to both.

[merelypink]

Anything goes

[Thundergasm]

I prefer bottom. It's not a submissive thing for me or a control thing. I just like the feeling of a cock in my ass and. Makes me cum like mad. As for the more mental/emotional meaning of the act....that never comes into play for me.