Poll: what if you were "cured" from love for shemales?

[TheSkronkDonkey]

Even if this is just a thought experiment, the whole idea of being "cured" sounds pretty totalitarian to me. We'd all miss out on a unique piece of the epic tapestry of life.

As usual, the posts by Hank are cogent, concise, poetic and powerful. However, it is not my intention to elevate, deify, ring fence or segregate. This thread is awash with brilliant posts of one kind or another. Please keep coming here and sharing your thoughts, guys, girls and T-people. And for those people who feel they're in a terrible place, emotionally, physically or otherwise, keep the flame of belief burning .... and talk to someone, even if it's just us few geeks over the internet. Your strife does not have to define you or prevail.

P.S. I know those last couple of sentences probably sound dopey, but I mean 'em. Being honest with oneself is probably the hardest thing to do, but it's also the most important step. Anything else is possible after that!

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by TheSkronkDonkey

P.S. I know those last couple of sentences probably sound dopey, but I mean 'em. Being honest with oneself is probably the hardest thing to do, but it's also the most important step. Anything else is possible after that!

I never really considered not being OUT - damn, I'd just discovered a new part of my self and I was in LOVE with my first transsexual woman! It was DYNAMITE! So of course I needed to share this with friends and family, and they all took it well. They took it more than well - maybe they did not understand my attraction, but they certainly have completely accepted me for my choice.

But I guess I never gave them a choice to think other wise. I blurted it out: My girlfriend is transsexual and she's a goddess. She has opened new sides of and in me and I love her dearly.

I mean, what can you say to that? I didn't come with hat in my hand asking for their approval, I took their approval for granted and received it.

Of course I'm not naiive, and of course I'm aware of the potential troubles such a DANGEROUS thing can bring... I'm also aware that many choose to live in the shadow of other peoples' mind-set. But that's a shame, nobody shouldn't!

Transsexuality deserves utter respect! It's a beautiful way of self-expression, and I'm PROUD to have been loved (still am) by the fabulous and wonderful transsexual women who have shaped my life so much for the last three years.

I'm not unique in that regard - any one here can do the same. Don't let the vanilla-guys who mock you for your choice change your mind-set. Change their's in stead! Be persistant and be above all PROUD! Because you are right, and they are wrong.

The fruits you reap for being true to yourself (and your transsexual girl) are so much greater than the few, unimportant kicks you may get in your path. And trust me, it ain't really hard at all!

Peace!


Hank

[Bionca]

OMG!

To read something like this :D

A man who is PROUD.. not just titilated.. PROUD of is T-Girlfriend.

Hank you get

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

OMG!

To read something like this :D

A man who is PROUD.. not just titilated.. PROUD of is T-Girlfriend.

Hank you get

Amazing, ain't it? ;-) And SO wonderful! My pride in my tgf is beyond measures :-) OF COURSE I'm proud of her! What else would u expect?

Come on!

Kisses!

H

[raojai70]

I don't see why I'd want to stop being attracted to lbs just as I wouldn't want to stop being attracted to GGs

i wish i wasn't atracted to shemales i dont think there's anything wrong with it but i would rather just like natural women, as i want to have a traditional family and see my shemale obsesion as a hinderance to that. if there was a pill i could take i would. but there isn't and its best to make the best of every situation, so bring on the shecocks

[fatjeffrey]

in some ways i wish i never came across them (punnn) as it is a bit of a social taboo...hell i think being gay is more acceptable than liking tsexuals these days!

but at the sametime .. its a fun fetish...